FR: Prestige's First Number/Date Close

[Prestige]

:woo: ...Tonight I got my FIRST number close and a date for Saturday nite. I'm not gonna lie, it wasn't pretty...but I did it.

This all started a few weeks back when me and some people went to play pool at this bar/pool hall. The girl that was working [HB7] was being kinda *****y when we first went in, but by the end of the nite I had tore the '***** shield' down and she was over at our table chillin' with us.

Well, me and my buddy head over there tonight and she's working. She came right over and started talking to me and I began to neg her a little. I was making some money comments and she was playfully hitting me :rockon:, and after awhile it was like she wouldn't leave us alone. **side note: they have these frikkin' amazing pepperettes there and she got me hooked on 'em last time we were there... so after being there for a few minutes I decided to set a goal of getting her to give me one for free, you know..make her prove something to me. Well, I actually succeeded with that, so I decided to see how far I could take things.

To make a long story short, I got her number and we [me,her,my buddy and her friend] are going bowling on Saturday nite...that is, IF i call her.

Pros:
-She's 23... and im only 19
-She was playfully hitting me and calling me and ******* hehe
-Chilled with me pretty much the whole time we were there
-GOT A NUMBER...and a DATE if I choose to call her.

Cons:
-Was spitting game IMO, at only about 60-65% of my full potential
-Got nervous when she was putting her number in my phone and started to talk alot (damn cell phones, it seems like it takes forever to input a name/number)
-Due to my buddy talking to some guy at the bar, I couldn't bail immediatly after getting the number so I had to keep talking to her..it was weird.

Questions:
-what is the best way to handle a long wait..(ex:her putting her number in ur phone)
-Is it ok to keep chattin' after u get the number?
-Should i call her? and when?
-If I decide to go out with her saturday night, does anybody have any tips for me? ... since she is 3-4 years older are things gonna be weird?


-Prestige-

 

[machiaveli]

-what is the best way to handle a long wait..(ex:her putting her number in ur phone)
-Is it ok to keep chattin' after u get the number?
-Should i call her? and when?
-If I decide to go out with her saturday night, does anybody have any tips for me? ... since she is 3-4 years older are things gonna be weird?

Nice job man ..

my advice:

- Best way to handle a long wait is to not to focus on her, but instead talk to somebody near you. you don't wanna to give her the impression as if it's that important to you. And never say i'll call you

- If you're only after the number that night, then you should leave and go to talk to your friend or something after you got the number. If your friend was busy with a some other girl, then do something else.. Don't be afraid to hang out alone, or to talk to strangers.
It's always better to keep a mystery to her, and not to reveal a lot things. Why didn't you kiss-close, if you were the hole time together. Don't take to much time to act, otherwise she'll place you in the category friends.

- Wait 3\4 days to call her, and set up a casual date..

- Any tips for saturdaynight??.. Treat her like any other girl.. because of her age you shouldn't be any different to her. In my experience, it's only easier to game older chicks... then the younger ones. The older know what they want, and don't make any excuses and don't play much games.

Hope this helps ..

-machiaveli

 

[Prestige]

thanks for the reply bro, the reason there was no kiss close was because she was working at this bar/pool hall.. or else i'da been game to try.. btw, any tips for a kiss-close?

 

[SamePendo]

Why on earth did you agree on going out with other people? Friends go out, couples go out. First-time-daters don't. It can be pulled off, it's nothing out of this world, but it's not the best thing to do.

Congratulations.

When you feel things are going great, isolate her, again and again, more and more, and go for any of the kiss closes out there.