FR: my first hi

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aight.. im really tired, i just got home from gym..

but im just really excited to post this here.. because saying this to my friends, they'll think im bragging or making this up, and then they'll get jealous and start hating haha..

so anyway, im just excited to post my very first HI (or cold approach)

here goes..

me: *enters gym*

***eye contact***

me: *smiles*

her: *smiles back*

she seemed busy working out her abs. ive never seen her in the gym before. she was the hottest girl i ever seen on the gym.

so i let her jsut go on do her stuff. but from the EC i knew she was interested. I waited til' 9:00 pm (closing time) before i actually had an opportunity.

we crossed paths near the dip machine / weighted ab machine..

me: Hi! *smile*

her: Hello *smile*

me: starts doing the whole dip stack (245 x6)

her: ur lifting that? that's overload.

me: *smiles*

her: *smiles*

***small talk about school*** (where she studies etc.)

Its closing time, so we both get ready to leave the gym (we were the last 2 clients)

as we exit the door...

me: so do you have a boyfriend? (bad move maybe? i dunno)

her: hm... *3 second pause* well... um... actually... err...

me: maintaining EC and confidence.

her: well... um... actually.. why do you ask?

me: i just thought maybe i should get ur #.. we should go out sometime.

her: well, actually, i do have a boyfriend ( i can see in her eyes she wanted to say she didnt have a b/f )

me: oh.. that's ok.. i start walking away downstairs.

her: but me and my boyfriend.. arent really.. you know.

me: arent really what?

her: we're kind of having relationship problems, and its probably not going to work out... so here's my # _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _

me: great.. *saves # into phone* you must be hungry, u wanna have dinner tonight?

her: i'd really love to.. but dressed like this?

me: yea, i guess ur tired. huh?

her: yeah, i am. just txt me and then we should go out sometime.

me: that's cool.

*pushes elevator button down*

as we exit the building, i walked her to her condominium which was like 2 buildings away. ( and nearby where i parked my car )

her: hey it was really nice meeting you.. bye!

me: *smiles* bye

her: u take care..

her: u take care ok? ( yeah she said it twice )

me: alright, ill see ya!

note: this girl is commercial modelling for alot of tv ads.. i copped me an hb9's # by saying hi.

im just really glad right now. making friends seem more fun and easy now, i believe.

i dunno if this post helped anyone or whatever, but if u can give me advice on this chick, it'd be great!

 

[squirrels]

Find out if the number's legit, first. That one could go either way. Was it a smiling, shy kind of "umm..ehhh" or was it more like an "I wish you hadn't put me in the position of rejecting you"?

I'd call instead of texting her. If you feel like texting her instead (she may have done that so she doesn't have to take the call in front of her man), send her something simple like "Call me tonight. xxx-xxx-xxxx -.-" You don't want to hold convos over text and you want to make the phone call only as long as you need to make it to reassert your confidence and make the date. Give her the good stuff in person.

 

[TheSplat]

Congrats on the number man. I love how cold approaches give you such a boost of confidence.

 

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Originally posted by squirrels
Find out if the number's legit, first. That one could go either way. Was it a smiling, shy kind of "umm..ehhh" or was it more like an "I wish you hadn't put me in the position of rejecting you"?

I'd call instead of texting her. If you feel like texting her instead (she may have done that so she doesn't have to take the call in front of her man), send her something simple like "Call me tonight. xxx-xxx-xxxx -.-" You don't want to hold convos over text and you want to make the phone call only as long as you need to make it to reassert your confidence and make the date. Give her the good stuff in person.

yea, it's legit. if it was'nt she wouldnt be wanting to meet me tomorow at 7:00 pm.

it was a smiling shy kind of "um eh.." because i didnt even ask her for her #. i told her that's what i had in mind.

she voluntarily gave it.. besides, she said she has a b/f and that could have been a legit excuse to NOT give her #, but she still gave her # voluntarily.

 

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Originally posted by TheSplat
Congrats on the number man. I love how cold approaches give you such a boost of confidence.

thank you. it means alot.

 

[RedKnight04]

Ok..

That was good that was a big improvement from your last thread. Just remember girls like muscles and looks but don't try to push that real hard.. It looks like you don't value yourself when you do that. Like when you did the dip stack right in front of her.. it looks like you have no personality and you have to show her how strong you are to get her to notice you.

But that was fine, don't get me wrong..

Also, don't ask about the boyfriend thing.. You were lucky that time, but it usually doesn't work. Just make fluff talk.. joke around how you saw her watching you workout and it wasn't very nice and you feel violated (C+F reversal). Then give her a smurk if she laughs and say "whats your name?"

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by -.-
aight.. im really tired, i just got home from gym..

but im just really excited to post this here.. because saying this to my friends, they'll think im bragging or making this up, and then they'll get jealous and start hating haha..

so anyway, im just excited to post my very first HI (or cold approach)

here goes..

me: *enters gym*

***eye contact***

me: *smiles*

her: *smiles back*

she seemed busy working out her abs. ive never seen her in the gym before. she was the hottest girl i ever seen on the gym.

so i let her jsut go on do her stuff. but from the EC i knew she was interested. I waited til' 9:00 pm (closing time) before i actually had an opportunity.

we crossed paths near the dip machine / weighted ab machine..

me: Hi! *smile*

her: Hello *smile*

me: starts doing the whole dip stack (245 x6)

her: ur lifting that? that's overload.

me: *smiles*

her: *smiles*

***small talk about school*** (where she studies etc.)

Its closing time, so we both get ready to leave the gym (we were the last 2 clients)

as we exit the door...

me: so do you have a boyfriend? (bad move maybe? i dunno)

her: hm... *3 second pause* well... um... actually... err...

me: maintaining EC and confidence.

her: well... um... actually.. why do you ask?

me: i just thought maybe i should get ur #.. we should go out sometime.

her: well, actually, i do have a boyfriend ( i can see in her eyes she wanted to say she didnt have a b/f )

me: oh.. that's ok.. i start walking away downstairs.

her: but me and my boyfriend.. arent really.. you know.

me: arent really what?

her: we're kind of having relationship problems, and its probably not going to work out... so here's my # _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _

me: great.. *saves # into phone* you must be hungry, u wanna have dinner tonight?

her: i'd really love to.. but dressed like this?

me: yea, i guess ur tired. huh?

her: yeah, i am. just txt me and then we should go out sometime.

me: that's cool.

*pushes elevator button down*

as we exit the building, i walked her to her condominium which was like 2 buildings away. ( and nearby where i parked my car )

her: hey it was really nice meeting you.. bye!

me: *smiles* bye

her: u take care..

her: u take care ok? ( yeah she said it twice )

me: alright, ill see ya!

note: this girl is commercial modelling for alot of tv ads.. i copped me an hb9's # by saying hi.

im just really glad right now. making friends seem more fun and easy now, i believe.

i dunno if this post helped anyone or whatever, but if u can give me advice on this chick, it'd be great!

At first I thought this was going to be one corny assed post about some lamer getting a girl to say hi.

Let me say a few things.

1. Congrads on the number close.

2. You should say hello not hi. Hi is too weak and your voice must go upwards to say it. When you say hello your voice can go into deeper octaves and sound more manly. Also it's strange in this day and age that men now are sounding feminine and women masculine. She said HELLO.

3. You should not of killed the possible date that opened up. You should of said "yeah it's ok to go like that" you might of gotten her to bone you that night if you had enough game. Now you gotta start all over again. She might feel bad about giving you the number over time...these things must happen rapidly. That mean once your in the flow ...go with it and let it carry you to where it needs to go.

It would of been easy to talk her into going to dinner. Her interest level was high. Lets hope it stays high.

Next time don't get all excited just cause she boned up the number...get the panties that is the only thing to brag about. In your ferver to get on here and post this you missed the best opportunity of the evening.

 

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Re: Re: FR: my first hi

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
At first I thought this was going to be one corny assed post about some lamer getting a girl to say hi.

Let me say a few things.

1. Congrads on the number close.

2. You should say hello not hi. Hi is too weak and your voice must go upwards to say it. When you say hello your voice can go into deeper octaves and sound more manly. Also it's strange in this day and age that men now are sounding feminine and women masculine. She said HELLO.

3. You should not of killed the possible date that opened up. You should of said "yeah it's ok to go like that" you might of gotten her to bone you that night if you had enough game. Now you gotta start all over again. She might feel bad about giving you the number over time...these things must happen rapidly. That mean once your in the flow ...go with it and let it carry you to where it needs to go.

It would of been easy to talk her into going to dinner. Her interest level was high. Lets hope it stays high.

Next time don't get all excited just cause she boned up the number...get the panties that is the only thing to brag about. In your ferver to get on here and post this you missed the best opportunity of the evening.

what exactly should i have done? she said she wanted to go home and rest coz she's tired and her mum's waiting.

 

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Originally posted by RedKnight04
Ok..

That was good that was a big improvement from your last thread. Just remember girls like muscles and looks but don't try to push that real hard.. It looks like you don't value yourself when you do that. Like when you did the dip stack right in front of her.. it looks like you have no personality and you have to show her how strong you are to get her to notice you.

But that was fine, don't get me wrong..

Also, don't ask about the boyfriend thing.. You were lucky that time, but it usually doesn't work. Just make fluff talk.. joke around how you saw her watching you workout and it wasn't very nice and you feel violated (C+F reversal). Then give her a smurk if she laughs and say "whats your name?"

actually, i was already on my way to the dip machine, i had to lift that.. but she sat in front of me when i was doing that.

i was actually a little embarass to lift that weight because i thought she might think that im trying to impress her. but it's a gym, and i gotta do what i gotta do.. i guess..

 

[SealTeamSix]

Here is my thoughts.

this happened in a gym and real quite since no one was around,
I like 'hi' better than 'hello'. Hi sounds more friendly
than hello. Hello sounds too .. iMAC.

So well done.

all that weights stuff .. its all good.. the key thing is,
when you are building attraction, you need to apply actions that
are most comfortable for you to do
(hopely that action builds the attraction though).
But here, lifting max weight some how made girl laugh thus bring BT up.

So well done.

small talk about school.. hmmm .. this i would not have done.
save fluff talk as much as u can for future. why?
fluff talk is ONE of the tools that'll get you out of dead conv.
So, you just wasted one topic=school
Since this was gym, just talk about certain gym activities.
make fun of 'dumb'-bells... are u with me?

Do you have BF question...

Never ask. This is none of your interest.
just pull out your cell, and tell her to key in
the number.

This sunday, i did something i do not normally do
I ASKED this waitress to get together with me.
she obviously gave me bogus anwser.. BAD mistake.

just pull out the cell phone let the action speaks
not your mouth!

Dinner.

Bad move here. Never out to dinner. Such a easy place
for crash and burn. The only place to have dinner in the
buidling attraction stage is either ur place or hers.

go for coffie or walk in the park .. but no dinner please.

u take care ok (twice) means:

a) she is caring person.
b) she is being nice/polite
c) she is just saying it for no obvious reason.
d) she digs u.

So .. i would not consider this as IOI.

So, here is what i do:

1. Call her.
2. Do not be rude.
3. Be direct. Tell her to come out to ur fav. coffie shop and time etc.
This way u have something to say when she shows up.. like why u like that place.
etc ..

4. (assuming u know how to kino) If she kinos you, you bring your kino level X2 of hers!

5. Kiss close her .. if u can.. but never kiss on a cheek. French or go home bro.

Good luck.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Originally posted by -.-
but from the EC i knew she was interested

its not your fault for thinking this, this is what has been said, and if girls like you and are not shy you will get EC with them, but i know that getting EC once does not necciserly mean she likes you, for example i have often got EC with girls as practice for trying to get it. anyway keep up the good work, sounds good!

 

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great help guys... if a couple of u dont mind pming me ur msn sn or ym sn that would be really great.

this is alot of help..

 

[Hollowpoint]

Nice dip you monter.