FR: mini golf, mall, and other stores

[upcomingDJ]

hi, how you Don Juans doing?

i do not know if i just entered myself into the "friend zone" so listen as i tell you guys what happened.

- we went to go mini golfing and lots of kino went on but it was dark so not a lot of EC
- asked her if she liked to make a bet she said "maybe, make something and maybe i'll decide to agree with it or not?"
- so i try to reverse it and ask her to make the bet and she insisted i do (my mind with racing with ideas but i know if said something along the lines of getting to f*ck her she would be then be put on a pedestal which was not good for a first date)
- anyways i did not make it
- we went around the mall, lots of kino again (i did my mental kino and paid no attention to her when i was looking at something interesting)
- we then went to jamba juice and she drank my drink without wiping the straw
- then we walked to borders and here a lot of happened (kinda)
- she seemed very nervous as i did my mental kino and doing my physical kino and i charmed her with my listening
- now, while we were there i showed her this book i found interesting (which was art of seduction) and as we both read it she started saying i was like a charismatic guy slash charmer
- now i just laughed it off
- then she asked what she was and i teased her by saying she was the anti-seducer
- she got mad and hit me ( in a playful way ) but i can tell it bothered her
- so i just massaged her arm and said i was just kidding
- so blah blah
- we walk out of borders and she asks me what kind of cologne i'm wearing and i ask her to guess
- she smelled my shirt but the cologne wasn't on my shirt but on my neck, so i tell her it's on my neck so she just smelled my hand
- blah blah blah i drop her home and give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek

overall, lot of kino but not enough EC (maybe she was nervous, who knows) i did a lot of sexual innuendos in our conversations but she did nothing to respond other than playfully hit me and laugh.. i was expecting a stare (like a sexual stare like she wanted to f*ck me or something)

now tell me wtf happened, i thought i coulda hit that right there

 

[Maestro Monk]

Sounds okay so far bud. One thing you might've wanted to avoid doing was telling her the cologne was on your neck; instead, make her find out for herself. Tell her she's gonna have to kiss you to find out.
If you go out with her again, try being a little more aggressive with both body and eye contact, and be sure to get her in a 'sexual state' when the time calls for it, after you've isolated her.
Remember, you're calling the shots here..leadership and unpredictabilty are you best assets that will to keep her interested. Keep at it.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Don't share that book with a women ever again. Many techniques and strategies lie within... :cheer:

 

[upcomingDJ]

Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Don't share that book with a women ever again. Many techniques and strategies lie within... :cheer:

f*ck im thinkin thats what i did wrong.... like she saw right through it.. its like me being the magician and showing a trick then tellin the audience how i did it

i lost mystery..

mistake learned! lol oh well

 

[h2o]

yeah good job...i also agree you shouldn't have showed her that book. exactly what you said...true, and girls can throw you off very well sometimes.

keep it up,
h2o

 

[Alphathree]

You should've given her a real kiss. Who says you did anything "wrong"?