No I haven's switched teams ...I still date girls and here's a field report to proove it 
While at work I am always online trying to meet girls... :shock: .So I had gotten few numbers and called 2 girls last nite about hanging out with me today. Yes..I double booked.! I am tired of not having a date because girls flake on me. Anyway...
HB8.5 blond...I call her and tld her we are going to a drive in to see "Wedding crashers" tonight..,there was nothig else showing that I LIKED!..She said she promised her friend to see this movie with him/her?...and that she cant go see it. Then I am like a Pvssy stared to suplicate and offered to see other movies....and went thru the list..but no success..she had already seen most of them. At this point she said she would have to call me back because she need to check on some family matters. While she was doing that I found my balls and decided to tell her to come up with something to do since she rejected my plan. Meanwhile I called another chick HBfatty and invited her salsa dancing at Tropicana.
HBfatty's pic online was indicating a huge ass and...yeah...she is a fatty,but she said she was bi and she wouldnt mind to sarge with me some girls for a possible treesome....how can I lose here?
Hour later HB8.5 calls me and tells me she doesnt feel like doing anything tonight. I reply with: "that's cool..let's do something some other time but you would have to come up with an idea..since my plan wasnt good for you." She started to act like a princess and explained to me that she doesnt do that and that guys do that for her. I replied with some C@F about how that website we meet on was full of ****...lol..and basicaly told her nicely that we'll have to figure something out later.
HB fatty calls me after that....I dont pick up the phone...got her messaage..she is ready to go and she will meet me there. On my way over to the club she calls again..I dont pick up. I get to the club and call her..she waiting outside for me. I look at her and...fcuk yeah!,,she is way hotter then I could possibly imagine( had very bad pic in her profile).Our nite starts and I decide to LJBF her from the start and that way possibly spark more interest.We go dance..chit chat..I go into some C@F and make fun of her social life..etc..she called herself a loser like 2 times...I had to look at her with a serious face..and tell her to stop this..."you are not a loser!" I said to reasure her. I think she was needing some validation from me.
She also thought she is not that attarctive..but I refrained from making any comments about her appearance for the whole nite.
After an hour of dancing /having fun...we went outside to get some fresh air..and SHE sugested we go to a coffee shop. I replied with " I dont drink cofee"..She asked if I liked tea...I said yeah,but not right now...and added.."well maybe I'll get a cold mocha latte..."..We got into her car and went on ourway.
I am starting to build rapport at this point...talking about commonalities..and just everyday stuff. We get to the place and it's empty..we get our drink and she offered to seat in this secluded area...
At this point I wasnt sure what type of game to run. I could see from her BL that she is open and attracted to me. But she was very pretty and I didnt really expect that and I was worried about losing her if I go harcore on her and try to F*close the same nite. I decide to try a completly new approach and LJBF her to the max.
We are talking and I mention that I dont have many female friends and that I just really want to be friends with her. That threw her off..I can see in her BL..but she believed it and her guard went way down.
We talked about psycologe and BL and about sexual dynamics...funny strories from college...etc. She was comfortable enought to tell me how horny she is all the time and how much she wants sex..and that her roomate is having sex with her BF and she has noone. She doesnt find herself attractive...and it bothers her that guys dont really pay attention to her. ( by the way..she looks like a plus size model..kinda chubby but her face is like a 10!)...I still say nothing about her appearance.
At one point I cracked and told her that I bet all the money I got on me that if she goes to any guy in the club and asks him if he wants to make out...he would make out with her!..She didnt believe me that.
She also told me about her 3 year relationship that ended recently and how she is not completly over this relationship and she is still friends with her ex....I told her I dont want to know this sh1t and that is a really bad thing to say on a date to someone she is interested in. She started apologizing and again...said that she is such a loser and always fukking things up...with guys..and that last 3 dates she went on..guys never called her back. ( hm..another IOI?)
I changed the subject into piercings..and she had her nipples pierced...I asked her to show me her nippies..lol..she did
3 hours into convo..I tell her that I dont want to keep her awake and that we should go home. She acts a little disapointed..but gives me a ride to my car.
I am sitting at the car..my plan is to give her a hug and leave..no promises of calling or anything to keep her guessing. I am about to give her a hug...but she says she cant do it in the car and needs to get out..lol..I make fun of her by saying that some people not only manage to make out in the car but also have sex..which she replied with :"oh I have done that!..lol and then she says sorry...I should have said that.
I get out of the car..and give her a hug...and leave....and I hear " oh well that sux!"..I turn around and ask why?..She doesnt say anything. I come back and look at her eyes and give her a light kiss on the lips..twice..with "is this better?"...Then walk away...and right before I get in the car I say " by the way..you are hot!"..and leave.
Debriefing:
1.I wanted to validate her by saying at the end that I find her hot...while all the time I was just LJBFing her and giving her mixed signals. Last three guys she went on dates with..never called her back. I dont know how far they got with her tho...
2. I let her venue change me..even tho I wanted to stay at the club.
3. I feel like I could have f*close her that night..but the attraction was pretty strong on both sides...and I didnt want to risk it . I think she saw a potential for a LTR and wasnt about to show me how slutty she is.
4. I dont want her for LTR...I want a FB and possibly a sarge buddy for a threesom.
Thoughts about this FR?
While at work I am always online trying to meet girls... :shock: .So I had gotten few numbers and called 2 girls last nite about hanging out with me today. Yes..I double booked.! I am tired of not having a date because girls flake on me. Anyway...
HB8.5 blond...I call her and tld her we are going to a drive in to see "Wedding crashers" tonight..,there was nothig else showing that I LIKED!..She said she promised her friend to see this movie with him/her?...and that she cant go see it. Then I am like a Pvssy stared to suplicate and offered to see other movies....and went thru the list..but no success..she had already seen most of them. At this point she said she would have to call me back because she need to check on some family matters. While she was doing that I found my balls and decided to tell her to come up with something to do since she rejected my plan. Meanwhile I called another chick HBfatty and invited her salsa dancing at Tropicana.
HBfatty's pic online was indicating a huge ass and...yeah...she is a fatty,but she said she was bi and she wouldnt mind to sarge with me some girls for a possible treesome....how can I lose here?
Hour later HB8.5 calls me and tells me she doesnt feel like doing anything tonight. I reply with: "that's cool..let's do something some other time but you would have to come up with an idea..since my plan wasnt good for you." She started to act like a princess and explained to me that she doesnt do that and that guys do that for her. I replied with some C@F about how that website we meet on was full of ****...lol..and basicaly told her nicely that we'll have to figure something out later.
HB fatty calls me after that....I dont pick up the phone...got her messaage..she is ready to go and she will meet me there. On my way over to the club she calls again..I dont pick up. I get to the club and call her..she waiting outside for me. I look at her and...fcuk yeah!,,she is way hotter then I could possibly imagine( had very bad pic in her profile).Our nite starts and I decide to LJBF her from the start and that way possibly spark more interest.We go dance..chit chat..I go into some C@F and make fun of her social life..etc..she called herself a loser like 2 times...I had to look at her with a serious face..and tell her to stop this..."you are not a loser!" I said to reasure her. I think she was needing some validation from me.
She also thought she is not that attarctive..but I refrained from making any comments about her appearance for the whole nite.
After an hour of dancing /having fun...we went outside to get some fresh air..and SHE sugested we go to a coffee shop. I replied with " I dont drink cofee"..She asked if I liked tea...I said yeah,but not right now...and added.."well maybe I'll get a cold mocha latte..."..We got into her car and went on ourway.
I am starting to build rapport at this point...talking about commonalities..and just everyday stuff. We get to the place and it's empty..we get our drink and she offered to seat in this secluded area...
At this point I wasnt sure what type of game to run. I could see from her BL that she is open and attracted to me. But she was very pretty and I didnt really expect that and I was worried about losing her if I go harcore on her and try to F*close the same nite. I decide to try a completly new approach and LJBF her to the max.
We are talking and I mention that I dont have many female friends and that I just really want to be friends with her. That threw her off..I can see in her BL..but she believed it and her guard went way down.
We talked about psycologe and BL and about sexual dynamics...funny strories from college...etc. She was comfortable enought to tell me how horny she is all the time and how much she wants sex..and that her roomate is having sex with her BF and she has noone. She doesnt find herself attractive...and it bothers her that guys dont really pay attention to her. ( by the way..she looks like a plus size model..kinda chubby but her face is like a 10!)...I still say nothing about her appearance.
At one point I cracked and told her that I bet all the money I got on me that if she goes to any guy in the club and asks him if he wants to make out...he would make out with her!..She didnt believe me that.
She also told me about her 3 year relationship that ended recently and how she is not completly over this relationship and she is still friends with her ex....I told her I dont want to know this sh1t and that is a really bad thing to say on a date to someone she is interested in. She started apologizing and again...said that she is such a loser and always fukking things up...with guys..and that last 3 dates she went on..guys never called her back. ( hm..another IOI?)
I changed the subject into piercings..and she had her nipples pierced...I asked her to show me her nippies..lol..she did
3 hours into convo..I tell her that I dont want to keep her awake and that we should go home. She acts a little disapointed..but gives me a ride to my car.
I am sitting at the car..my plan is to give her a hug and leave..no promises of calling or anything to keep her guessing. I am about to give her a hug...but she says she cant do it in the car and needs to get out..lol..I make fun of her by saying that some people not only manage to make out in the car but also have sex..which she replied with :"oh I have done that!..lol and then she says sorry...I should have said that.
I get out of the car..and give her a hug...and leave....and I hear " oh well that sux!"..I turn around and ask why?..She doesnt say anything. I come back and look at her eyes and give her a light kiss on the lips..twice..with "is this better?"...Then walk away...and right before I get in the car I say " by the way..you are hot!"..and leave.
Debriefing:
1.I wanted to validate her by saying at the end that I find her hot...while all the time I was just LJBFing her and giving her mixed signals. Last three guys she went on dates with..never called her back. I dont know how far they got with her tho...
2. I let her venue change me..even tho I wanted to stay at the club.
3. I feel like I could have f*close her that night..but the attraction was pretty strong on both sides...and I didnt want to risk it . I think she saw a potential for a LTR and wasnt about to show me how slutty she is.
4. I dont want her for LTR...I want a FB and possibly a sarge buddy for a threesom.
Thoughts about this FR?
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