FR: Last night at the club,lost the hb6,k-closed an hb7.

[GloriouslyInsane]

What can i say about last night? Well this fr won't have alot of dialogue cause it all hapened in the club so whatever.Moment we got in i started dancing with the hb6(more info: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=102673 ),light grinding etc,i was gaming this girl for practise for a couple of months and she was very receptive to my kino advances so i grabbed her and took her outside (don't remember the excuse but she agreed to come with me).This is where my AFC *****slapped me and took control.

GI applying some light kino,EC,then DD kiss test,does not push me back but gut is silent,failure to launch(always trust the gut)
GI: I think we're both tired of the little games we play
HB6: (Blabla some sh!t she spewed i can't remember)
GI: I think we should be together
HB6: Maybe
GI: It's a yes or no situation,i won't be here tomorrow
HB6:So girls are making a line for you?
GI: Let's just say i have other options.
after this i bailed like a mofo never to talk to her again during the night.

Ok i blew it up,AFC style,like a real weak loser,no sexual tension no anything,just words,gave her all the power.Literally 5 mins later i sat next to an hb7 (seen her before 3-4 times before,we talked for 5 mins until that point).You know the quote "no fear,no distractions"? well i learned it quite well. DJ mode kicked in for good this time,

She was dancing with her niece so i go to her niece and say "can i borrow her for a sec?" to which i get a positive reply,started grinding with the hb7 ,boner against her bubble butt,sniffing her,boner grinding against her pubic region etc,at one point i tell her:

GI:You're a good dancer,you should give me your number
HB7:Later
Then i pull out my mob and hand it to her,sure enough she inputs her #.

Bam pull time, "i'll be back later,don't miss me too much"
Go to my mates dance a bit and i get the dirtiest fvcking look ever from the HB6 (still remember her? haha).After a couple of mins HB7 bumps into me,i don't twitch,3 mins later(on my terms) im back grinding with her,run the same **** on her about going outside "the music is not my style,i need some air" or some other obvious bs like that.

We get outside sit at this corner of the building,EC,kino,DD's kiss test and i land it right there a real quick and smooth smooch.I'm telling ya this girl is either a)inexperienced (17yo btw) b)a really bad kisser c)notinterested ,cause she had her lips closed really tight.We get back inside after that,she dissapears for 5-6 mins (my guess talking with her friends about what happened).So we dance again and i land another one on her,still her mouth is fvcking seal closed so i pull once more.15 mins later i danced a bit more with her ,literally on my way out though.

So pros:
Kino got better.
Found out that i need to drop IOI hunting and just do it.
DD's kiss test works pretty well,i guess the hair running stuff is good.

Cons:
Not enough sexual tension.
I make my moves TOO fast,not as in timeline,but alltogether(rapid escalation),going from no previous kino whatsoever to trying an k-close in 3 mins,uhuh
Pretty drunk.
I'm missing something i can't put my finger on it.

Well, GI out.

ps: Good thing i had a couple wingmen with me,gave me huge motivation boost after i got rejected by the hb6.

 

[Taviii]

I think it was pretty good. You are improving by going out and really trying the stuff you read here.

Now onto what I can say about your field work:

I make my moves TOO fast,not as in timeline,but alltogether(rapid escalation),going from no previous kino whatsoever to trying an k-close in 3 mins,uhuh

I don't think this is a problem, I do that all the time at clubs and parties. Oh and dancing is kino so you had some kino before the attempted k-close.

Pretty drunk.

This happens to me also pretty often.

Not enough sexual tension.

This can be the key in a club. You have to look at the girl with the so called bedroom eyes. Basically telling her that you want to fück her with your eyes and your body language. Its easier this way than with words (also remember its harder to talk when the music is loud so this is essential)

With the HB6 girl I would have gone for the kiss after you said: "I think we should be together"

Maybe the HB7 wasn't really comfortable with you. You said she is 17 I don't know how old you are but a big age difference could be why she was shy.

In conclusion you are improving fast, you can see yourself where something has gone wrong so you are on the right path, you will be Don Juan soon.

Cheers!

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

I'm 19, a so so age difference,i already threw the line "i'm too old for you" while push-pulling,difference is,sexually this girl is alot more mature than the hb6(19yo, she's the dorky type ).Anw gonna spin more plates.While grinding with hb7 i looked around for a moment and there was a fvcking circle of girls around me (total strangers),that and the face of the pr guy leaving the club and reentering with 2 diff girls in 10mins were some pretty cool moments i remember .Yeah alcohol ****ed up my EC but upped my BL so i don't know.Well screw this **** i'm over with this group anyway.Next time less alcohol,can't remember sh!t almost

Thanks for the motivation boost tavii! Hope we can get over our alcohol problem soon

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Some more info as it is coming back to me slowly,sorry for double post,anw.HB7 was there with 2 of her nieces,she def consulted them at the time i mentioned,guess my social skills are pretty tight,i was assgrinding her in front of them and they cheered me on.HB6 got hit on by couple guys,one managed to #close her (by what my wings told me),HB7 got hit by my wings (i told them to go right ahead ) in the *off* time but she totally dissed em.

Gut tells me i lost alot of IL towards the end of the night.

edit: seems like a bud of mine talks from time to time with the hb7 and she was saying some pretty messed up stuff about me hehe (that she didn't like the kiss,i was like a sexual predator etc).Chalk one up to experience i guess.Good thing i was right about my assumptions, another point for gut in the gut vs logic match.