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Last Saturday night I went clubbing with my crew. We were checking out the dance floor and I saw one of my female friends. I go over there and say hi and noticed one girl in her crew dancing by herself. About HB8, asian, dressed in jeans and tank top, and looked kinda bored. I introduce myself and we start dancing. Immediately she started grinding up and me and I knew the game was on. We danced and made some small talk. I started doing some kino and she wasn't resisting. I then started kissing the back of her neck. Out of nowhere some guy grabs her and pulls her away from me. I had no clue who he was, but I don't fight over girls. I walked away and found other girls to dance with. I didn't dance with her for the rest of the night cus she was being continuously sandwiched by two guys. I'm like **** it.
So I pretty much forgot about her until I visited my friend's facebook. I saw that my target posted on my friend's facebook wall so I added her back. She poked me later so I sent her a message saying I had a good time blah blah and asked her out. I didn't get a message back for about two days. What happened is my target asked her mutual friend about me, since she barely knew me. Our friend "approved" me and encouraged her to go out with me. So we had our first date planned.
Day 1
I called her up that day to confirm the date. I was kinda lost as to what to do. I wanted something "unique" but it was in the middle of the week and I'm so tired of dinner and a movie. Anyways I picked her up and we went to the comedy club. We saw the show and had dinner there. By the time it ended it was like 10:00. We were in my car and asked her if she wanted to go back to my place and watch a movie or something. She called up our friend and they started speaking in korean over the phone (im chinese and had no clue wtf was going on). But pretty much my friend said that I'm safe so the target went back to my place.
Just a quick comment. Looking back I regret taking her to the comedy club. I pretty much only knew the girl for about 10 minutes dancing in the club, so there was no rapport built between us. I should've taken her to somewhere we could talk and let her know I'm cool and stuff.
We're back in my place and watch the movie for about an hour. We kinda ignore the movie and she starts asking all these questions about me. We talk blah blah. She tells me how drunk she was at the club when we met. Anyways I tell her we should go get some alcohol. So we left my place and get a 6pk of beer since the liquor stores are closed.
We went back to my place and played a drinking game with some dice. She ended up being tipsy after 2 bottles. We're back in the room and I turn on some music and dim the lights. I ask her to dance a little with me. I push her against the bed and go for the kiss. I got rejected. I was like wtf? Anyways I ignore it and start kissing her neck. We jsut laid on the bed for about an hour talking with me doing some mad kino. She had a skirt on so I rubbed her legs, and we made out.
I got all the way to getting some head with her. Up to that point she's never gone past 1st base. So each time we escalated she wanted more alcohol. Girls do this because they always want a scapegoat. Anyways she spent the night over my place.
Day 2
I called her up the next day to make sure she was cool and stuff. I scheudle another date 2 days later.
I picked her up and gave her a rose. We went to an outdoor mall she's never been before and walked around. We go to the grocery store and I tell her that I'm going to cook for her. We buy the ingredients and head back to my place. Pretty much I'm ordering her around while doing the cooking. Had a candlelight dinner and went back to my room. I took her virginity that night.
Summary
I didn't realize this at first but she was an ultra-conservative girl. 21 yrs old and has only made out with a guy, . The way I touched her on the dance floor she had this "player" image of me and had to confirm with her friend that I'm a good guy to go on a date with me. I think on the 2nd date I changed her mind. The fact that I called, cooked her some dinner, and we built some tremendous rapport with each other.
So now I'm kinda in this dilemma because she's fallen for me and it's only been like 4 days. Hope you enjoyed reading it.
Last Saturday night I went clubbing with my crew. We were checking out the dance floor and I saw one of my female friends. I go over there and say hi and noticed one girl in her crew dancing by herself. About HB8, asian, dressed in jeans and tank top, and looked kinda bored. I introduce myself and we start dancing. Immediately she started grinding up and me and I knew the game was on. We danced and made some small talk. I started doing some kino and she wasn't resisting. I then started kissing the back of her neck. Out of nowhere some guy grabs her and pulls her away from me. I had no clue who he was, but I don't fight over girls. I walked away and found other girls to dance with. I didn't dance with her for the rest of the night cus she was being continuously sandwiched by two guys. I'm like **** it.
So I pretty much forgot about her until I visited my friend's facebook. I saw that my target posted on my friend's facebook wall so I added her back. She poked me later so I sent her a message saying I had a good time blah blah and asked her out. I didn't get a message back for about two days. What happened is my target asked her mutual friend about me, since she barely knew me. Our friend "approved" me and encouraged her to go out with me. So we had our first date planned.
Day 1
I called her up that day to confirm the date. I was kinda lost as to what to do. I wanted something "unique" but it was in the middle of the week and I'm so tired of dinner and a movie. Anyways I picked her up and we went to the comedy club. We saw the show and had dinner there. By the time it ended it was like 10:00. We were in my car and asked her if she wanted to go back to my place and watch a movie or something. She called up our friend and they started speaking in korean over the phone (im chinese and had no clue wtf was going on). But pretty much my friend said that I'm safe so the target went back to my place.
Just a quick comment. Looking back I regret taking her to the comedy club. I pretty much only knew the girl for about 10 minutes dancing in the club, so there was no rapport built between us. I should've taken her to somewhere we could talk and let her know I'm cool and stuff.
We're back in my place and watch the movie for about an hour. We kinda ignore the movie and she starts asking all these questions about me. We talk blah blah. She tells me how drunk she was at the club when we met. Anyways I tell her we should go get some alcohol. So we left my place and get a 6pk of beer since the liquor stores are closed.
We went back to my place and played a drinking game with some dice. She ended up being tipsy after 2 bottles. We're back in the room and I turn on some music and dim the lights. I ask her to dance a little with me. I push her against the bed and go for the kiss. I got rejected. I was like wtf? Anyways I ignore it and start kissing her neck. We jsut laid on the bed for about an hour talking with me doing some mad kino. She had a skirt on so I rubbed her legs, and we made out.
I got all the way to getting some head with her. Up to that point she's never gone past 1st base. So each time we escalated she wanted more alcohol. Girls do this because they always want a scapegoat. Anyways she spent the night over my place.
Day 2
I called her up the next day to make sure she was cool and stuff. I scheudle another date 2 days later.
I picked her up and gave her a rose. We went to an outdoor mall she's never been before and walked around. We go to the grocery store and I tell her that I'm going to cook for her. We buy the ingredients and head back to my place. Pretty much I'm ordering her around while doing the cooking. Had a candlelight dinner and went back to my room. I took her virginity that night.
Summary
I didn't realize this at first but she was an ultra-conservative girl. 21 yrs old and has only made out with a guy, . The way I touched her on the dance floor she had this "player" image of me and had to confirm with her friend that I'm a good guy to go on a date with me. I think on the 2nd date I changed her mind. The fact that I called, cooked her some dinner, and we built some tremendous rapport with each other.
So now I'm kinda in this dilemma because she's fallen for me and it's only been like 4 days. Hope you enjoyed reading it.
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