FR: kissing an old friend

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So i got in contact with an old friend from high school via myspace. Hung out once, light kino, no kiss. Hung out tonight. Took her shopping with me, had a good time, lots of laughing on her part, convo went well.

Her car was at my house, so when we went home, I wasn't sure if she would wait for meto ask her to come in. Nope, she just followed me right into my house. Basically, we just sat on my couch, waycjed tv, and talked for like 3 hours, it felt lke we talked about everyhting under the sun. I think that was a mistake, as i feel we are kind of talked out.

Anyway, lots of heavy kino, had my hands on her thighs, her hands etc... I wanted to lean over and kiss her all night, but i just couldn't. She said she had to leave at like 130 in the morning, but she just kept hanging around, like she was waiting for something. Walking out my door, more stalling from her. She then said walk me to my car, more stalling from her at her car. Then she said ok i gotta go, and gave me a hug, said i had fun we should do it again bla bla bla. I then said "been wanting to do this all night"...and went in and kissed her. Kissed for a few seconds, just a little tongue. Then we just kind of stopped.

She got in her car and said ok well i will talk to you soon. So i just thought i would post this on here. Any critiques from you guys? Any advice for when i talk to her next? Should i mentioned it?

The only thing i feel i did wrong was that i waited wayyyyyyy too long. If i kissed her while we were in my house, i probably could have been getting some a$$, instead jus got a kiss. I also think i looked kind of wimpy waiting so long, as she probably knew what i wanted. But anyway i am glad i had the balls to do it. I finally just said sink or swim, we will see what happens, and i did it. I would rather have been rejected than not know at all and look like a complete wimp.

She seemed somewhat into it, although it was not my best kiss ever, as i was semi nervous and mouth was a little dry lol. I kissed her, looked up at her, then we both kind of went in for a little more, but just for a few seconds. So i guess if she really wasn't into it she wouldnt have let me. Well i am rambling so please any advice or critique or anything would be cool. Thanks boys.
 

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if she was letting u feel up her legs and "heavy kino" than i would take that as a green light for a kiss. as you said, you waited WAY to long. you should of done it sooner
 

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you kind of did f*** that one up. Oh wells. Next time you're with her alone, you know what to do (don't be a p*ssy).
 

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Yea i am not gonna puss out again. I should have been getting laid. I am thinking about not REALLY talking to her for a few days. Is this a good idea? She sent me a pic of something on myspace, so i'll just reply to it and thats about it. I' thinking i will contact her in a few days. OR should i say somehting to her today? It happened last night. I don't plan on mentioning anything that happened, as i feel like it might be akward.
 

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Dude, she wants to bang you. Show interest. Don't play the waiting game on this one. It will kill your chance. Hang out with her again ASAP. Act like a man and take charge. She wants to submit to your sexual domination. DO IT MAN!
 

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^^^^Probably right. I just do not want to come off as desperate I guess, know what I mean? However, in trying to do that, ifeel that the past few girls thought i had no interest in them, so it messed us up. Maybe I should show a little more.

I do not want a relationship though, as I am sure she doesn't either. Both of us also just go out of relationships about a month ago.
 
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