FR: I think I am transitioning.

AllAmericanGuy

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Well, sort of. I met this girl(20yrs old, HB7 cute tiny ass, big tits, pretty solid all around body, cute smile), about a year ago at a UF football game. I made a good impression and we kept in touch sporadically... Every time we talked there were strong sexual innuendos, lots of references, just an overbearing sexual tone and theme to all of our contact, I think this built up the tension and set up this whole thing..

Anyways, she drives down last night about 2 hours into my part of the state to visit her older sister(who lives about 25minutes from me). She really wanted to hangout so I gave in and told her to give me a call when she got to a certain point on the interstate and that I would tell her where to get off to meet me. We met up at this burger place and I strongly kinoed her from second 1. Gave her a giant playful hug and sort of picked her up. Then I was sort of joking with her and making fun of her at the same time about any and everything, it just kept rolling.. When we were eating she kept saying **** like "wow you're so cute!!" and laughing a lot.. while we were eating in the convo I kept interjecting sexual things and she would reciprocate and I would one up her and escalate. It was getting pretty heated convo.. at some point me going back with her to her sisters came up and I was hesistant.. didnt go for it at first, I actually said "I don't know about that. You and your sister might rape me or something." to which she responded "My sister has a family!! She is pregnant!!" to which I said, "SO, pregnant chicks are horny as hell..." to which we both laughed. Then it came up again about hanging out at her sisters house after we got done eating.. i paused for like a good 10 seconds when she was waiting for an answer and calmly and nonchalantly said "Are you going to give me head?" and then smiled. She was sort of shocked, but wasn't offended or anything.. and we laughed but I held eye contact.

What I'm finding is that when you talk about sexual things with a girl you have to be forward but you need to say it in a manner that is non-threatening, non awkward, and in a way that she is not sure if you are serious or if you are joking or what, but shes almost sure you are dead serious, but you are just so calm so you are almost joking because you seem 100% comfortable and in control.

Anywho.. More joking/laughing/whatever ensues, and we get to the parking lot and I'm going to follow her over to her sisters house. We are both 1 leg into our cars which are next to each other and I'm like "Ok HB7, I'm going to follow you, but if you take me to some dark alley or something..." and I just shook my head she laughed and we both got into our cars. I follow her over to her sisters house, its dark as **** when we walk in. I was chilling in the kitchen looking at pictures and stuff that were up while she brushes her teeth, she goes in and says hi to her sister or whatever, her sister comes out and I meet her and chat with her, ask her about the house, how long they've lived there, w/e. Her sister gets some laundry then goes to her room to sleep... then things start getting fun.

We sat down on the couch she turns on the TV, we are talking and joking still, she jokes "lets find some porn, it will set the mood" we laugh some more, but she really looks for some... I start strongly kinoing her.. touching her thighs when we are talking and stuff.. She gets up and I'm where are you off to, she was like "im going to get some gum, I always chew gum when I makeout." She gets the pack and comes back and I sort of position her towards me by her hips and pull a bit and she stradles my lap she opens the thing of gum and puts it in her mouth and offers me some I'm like "no thanks, it gets in the way" she said "im good at hiding it dont worry, will you hold it for me while I give you head?" At that point I was like, daymn, **** about to go down, shes like in a world of her own. I said "Absolutely" then I take the pack of gum and sort of toss it to the other side of the couch and run my hands down her thighs and around her back/ass..Then after a pause she was like "I"m just kidding im not going to give you head the first night." I didn't even respond/get phased/acknowldege what she aid I just flowed into more conversation seemlessly, it was like I didn't hear her.

I look at her and go in for the kiss. She sort of pulls back and is like "aren't you nervous?" My demeanour throughout the whole thing is great, the whole night I had this completley 100% calm in control aura I had going on. I responded slowly. "No. Should I be?" Then she's like "I've been waiting a long time for this." I run my hand around her neck and I kiss her. We start making out. She's like "do you want to move into the other room?" I'm like "sure". We continue kissing a bit and I start kissing her on the neck and around her neckline and I keep my hands busy rubbing around her back and shoulders and hairline and thighs and even feet... Then this is gold, she goes "Are you really 18?" and I say "Do you want to see my driver's liscense?" in a real low slow tone while we keep making out *pause* "Why?" She goes "You don't kiss like you are 18." Then we just keep making out.

Then, which I thought was interesting how it unfolded. She started undressing ME. She started unbuttoning my shirt and undoing my belt and everything. I was just calm as hell and kept kissing her all over. Before I knew it I was pretty much undressed and I was still calmly and smoothly just kissing her and getting her more aroused. We move around a lot from the couch to the floor to the sofa chair to all that. I told her to take her pants off and she did and I pulled her thong aside and started fingering her.. then it just was a sealed deal. she started giving me a handjob while i was fingering her and after a couple of minutes she pushes me onto the couch and im sitting there and she hands me her piece of gum and then starts giving me head... We keep going back and forth and she keeps giving me head while I finger her. Then I pull her up from my **** and put her on her back on the floor and start fingering the hell out of her. While I'm doing this she says a bunch of crazy ****. At this point all she has on is her thong... I stop.. she gets up on her hands and knees and turns away from me so her ass is facing me and she pulls her thong down to her thighs and she is like "I want you to **** me." (no condom) so I just went up behind her and finger her some more then we both get competley naked and are back on the couch and she is sort of sitting on me while I finger her and she is stroking my **** while we makout. She says "move your hand." and she like tries to stick my **** in her and I was like "no." and just kept making out.. she kept trying throughout the night...

I wanted to **** her, but I did not have a condom, and I've never hooked up with a girl like that so spontaneously... If I had a condom I would probobly have, but nevertheless there was just some resistance there. I almost couldn't bring myself to do it. I've always been a monogomous LTR guy, even though I've only had one serious long term relationship(i'm still a young guy).

Towards the end of the night, around 2AM I was like I need to get going, and she was like "noo". I was like "it's getting late.".. She started saying a bunch of AFC **** to me too at the very end when we were just laying together, saying how great I was, how sweet I was, how she had never been with someone like me before, how I was different, and asking if we would do this again and if I was going to freak out in the morning and stop talking to her. She walked me out to my car in her t-shirt and thong, which was pretty hot, I gave her a kiss, and she was like text me when you get home so I know you are ok, I said "Nah, I don't want to wake you up." Then I kissed her again and took off.

In summation, I think I'm transitioning here. I've predominanately felt that hooking up with girls pretty casually as in this instance was NOT FOR ME. But as of late I'm sort of seeing how much of a rush it can be, and I'm sort of coming into my own as a man and see this kind of thing happening more frequently(bunch of chicks I'm gaming at work, etc.). I just am at a crossroad, I don't know if I want to go down that path and become one of "those guys," you know? But ****.. I felt like a lion last night, it was great.

Feedback, critiscism, words of wisdom, suggestions? thanks
 

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Overall good job.

Just one reminder for next time - Always bring a condom on you. You never know when you might need it.

Keep this thread updated, I'm curious how this is gonna turn out with the AFC acts by her...
 

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:up: :up: :up:

Congrats, don't look like you need any advice. Although wolf's right, a DJ without a condom is like Rambo without a blade :trouble: .
 

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The_Wolf said:
Overall good job.

Just one reminder for next time - Always bring a condom on you. You never know when you might need it.

Keep this thread updated, I'm curious how this is gonna turn out with the AFC acts by her...
Yeah, I know what you mean about being prepared, but I'm sort of glad I didn't have sex with her. I almost feel as if in a way I would have devalued myself if I had, you know? Having sex with some girl I don't love/am not that into just has always been low class to me. Hence the whole point of my post, I'm at a crossroad when it comes to this issue.
 

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mikeyb said:
:up: :up: :up:

Congrats, don't look like you need any advice. Although wolf's right, a DJ without a condom is like Rambo without a blade :trouble: .
thanks bro, and like I said above, if I had a condom on me, I would have had sex with her.. im glad I had the self control to say no to her though.. or else i'da been feeling slummy today.
 

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Boston DJ said:
here's some wisdom: man up and pump her raw dog if you dont have a condom.
im pretty sure you're being sarcastic bro, but yeah i was tempted to. Needless to say that would have been a lot of unneeded anxiety to follow if I had... she's not a trashy chick and the chances of her getting pregnant are very low, but still..
 

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AllAmericanGuy said:
Having sex with some girl I don't love/am not that into just has always been low class to me. Hence the whole point of my post, I'm at a crossroad when it comes to this issue.
Why are you on a site like this w/ the mentality of a chump. Bang em out and move on is the name of the game. Take what you want, get what you want. I don't understand your hangup here...you will gladly finger blast this hor and grab some head but are suddenly morally above f*cking her?
 

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Boston DJ said:
Why are you on a site like this w/ the mentality of a chump. Bang em out and move on is the name of the game. Take what you want, get what you want. I don't understand your hangup here...you will gladly finger blast this hor and grab some head but are suddenly morally above f*cking her?
How does being selective with who you do the most intimate thing in the world with make you a chump?

In my book the opposite is true: sleeping with whoever you possibly can makes you a chump.

I think part of this site is out to do that, and the other is really about self improvement, self worth, and being able to be selective and successful in your endeavors related to women. No?
 

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Nice play...If I was you I woulda tagged her down...nekked head...talk about self control...I guess you havent been with too many girls thats why you were apprehensive...remember the smell/glove test...if it doesnt smell like a glove but fits like one youre in...just remember to pull out and skeet on her
 

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AllAmericanGuy said:
I wanted to **** her, but I did not have a condom, and I've never hooked up with a girl like that so spontaneously...

So do you want to f*ck her or not?

I'm not saying I f*ck every girl I can, I'm saying the ones who I bring home w/ me that I finger and get head from I'm gonna f*ck.
 

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^^^^^Hit the nail on the head. If you didnt want to hit then what the hell were you doing there?
 
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