FR: Gym chick

[EyeBRollin]

I'm not sure if i agree with all of this some is way too sensational and over analysed

It's common knowledge (or at least should be by now) that if you do not push the boundaries with a woman she will quickly dismiss you to the freindzone, ive seen it happen a million times IRL and there are a million threads and stories about it online

You do not get laid "playing it safe"

I agree you don't generally want to be going around tapping random women on the ass because your gonna wind up in prison in this melodramatic "me too" society we have engineered it was a risky play

With that being said if a girl is interested in you , (and I've been with enough women to know when the signals are there ) at some stage you need to put your balls on the line and make a move whether you do this sooner or later really doesn't matter it just needs to be done end of story

I would rather be crowned a " thirsty molester" than booted into the freindzone any day of the week

With this specific girl i gained more from the move than i lost and she will remember it and hopefully it would have given her a little tingle because she was attracted to me , if she was that offended i have no doubt i would have been lambasted or had the feds at my door by now

instead she instigated by messaging me which to me confirms she probably did like it

RE - setting up a date i agree you want to be specific but i didn't ask what she was doing and there's only a certain amount of specific you can be with a woman who doesn't owe you anything

i asked if she was free to go for drinks , generally you wouldn't be going for drinks at 9 o'clock in the morning she said she was working anyway this could be a fib or it could be genuine

Anyway after mulling it over i think texting does more damage to interest than the worth of it , I'll be patient and wait till i see her again and pick it up from there

Sorry bro you are rationalizing. You groped a stranger. That’s a bad move.

I think you should pick up the phone and call her to ask her out for a specific day and time. Right now you are waiting for nothing. At least act…

 

[Suave88]

The subtext of this is that you were waiting for someone else to make a move and too afraid to express your own opinion which is actually pathetic

You will never get laid with this mindset

And you will end up in jail with your mindset...............

 

[BeExcellent]

On your options @Bingo-Player go with option A. That is, be cool & wait to run into her again at the gym naturally. Do not send a text or an IG. That’s thirsty on some level.

You made your sexual intent clear from the get go. She will mull this over in her mind. Leave her be and give her time for this to happen. People fall in love in your absence. Now why is that? Two things, 1. Curiosity (here you are mister ballsy guy not breathlessly chasing her down),…and 2. Let her fill in the blanks and create whatever fantasy script her mind will create.

This is a long game play. Next time you see her be a bit aloof, have somewhere you gotta be, etc. Long game has a certain mojo where you build sexual tension & anticipation that becomes a passionate release once it reaches culmination.

You are a man with options…so act warm but indifferent.

Option A all the way is the vote from the ladies’ locker.

Cheers

 

[Charm2K]

Cold approached a chick in the gym yesterday we have been checking each other out for a while she is sort of what i would usually go for brunette, petite and cute but with just enough curves to make her sexy a good 7.5

Anyway i could tell she was nervous but i settled her down we had a bit of flirty / banter and then i told her to give me her phone so i could giver her my number

As i was putting my name in she goes oh not another "J" my ex was a "J" and he was a pr1ck

I played it off and said well ive got two J's in my name so i hope you can handle it and walked off to continue training

Then like 10 mins later she approaches me again and tells me she doesn't know if her contact lens has fallen out !?!

I busted her balls and said " well what do you want me to do about it" she liked this..... i said i couldn't see it anyway

As i was finishing up in the gym i could see her on a machine with her back to me so as i was walking past i decided to go for broke

i gently tapped her on her a$$ and said "message me later"

she looked at me and smirked

( obviously i wouldnt advise normally doing this , it's an extremely high risk play that could easily go pear shaped but sometimes you've just gotta have balls and go with your gut )

Sure enough by the time i got home she had text me....... twice

I guessed interest must have been pretty high

we had some more flirty banter and i decided to shoot my shot and ask if she was free for drinks this weekend

She said she was working this weekend,

I said that sucks , but we can still be friends ( someone on here came up with this line and i think its great)

She continued flirting for a while longer and told me what had happened with her ex who had actually been cheating on her with her best freind

I exited the convo shortly after that and left her on read

I was kind of dissapointed she didn't offer a counter date as the vibe between us was definitely there , but after hearing what happened with her best freind and her ex i kind of understood she may be a little cautious after something like that happening and i did shoot my shot very quickly

So i'm not sure what to do now i don't want to get sucked into texting all the time it's not my style

maybe just wait until i see her in the gym again ? build up some more trust and rapport

If anything this field report was a good lesson for me on why you can't be super direct with every woman you meet some of them are gonna want that trust there first before committing to anything

Let me know what you guys think

Just wanna say, great work. You did a nice cold approach, got the digits. Thats how a "Don Juan" Roll.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Option A all the way is the vote from the ladies’ locker.

Cheers

Thanks i guessed it would be

 

[Bingo-Player]

** UPDATE**

Smashed this chick 5 times over the weekend 3 on sat and twice on sunday she absolutely loves d1ck

This is the most paitent i have ever been with a girl and it paid off

She never did end up coming back to the gym or at least not whilst i was there , but then lo and behold it of all places i run into her in the fvcking supermarket last week

the universe was definitely winking at me

We chatted picked back up the flirty vibes and started texting ..... she did have a massive wall up and was quite rigid to begin with but i eventually managed to connect with her

Saturday we went out and then came back to my place there was no question what was about to happen

I stripped her off and she was wearing a matching underwear set so i knew straight away she was down ......shes a proper gym bunny so the shape on her body is one of the best i've fvcked

Seemed to like it as rough as possible too choking , hair pulling , spanking i even spat in her mouth and she loved it

I wanted to put on a show and she got one

She's hooked now texting me like 20 times a day to the point where ive had to tell her to Shutup a few times lol

 

[EyeBRollin]

I wanted to put on a show and she got one

She's hooked now texting me like 20 times a day to the point where ive had to tell her to Shutup a few times lol

Nice work. Now make the next date and get off that texting!

 

[Bingo-Player]

Nice work. Now make the next date and get off that texting!

I fvcking hate texting but they all love it and if you don't reply their hamsters start going crazy and they start going nuts thinking u are smashing other chicks

its a proper phenomenon