FR+/FU: Jungle Fever

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Alright, so Friday night comes, and I'm pumped. Me and my two other friends that I throw parties with in my fraternity are throwing another one, but this time, its going to be different. It'll be a party in our style, but this time we're splitting like half the
planning and fronting the money with the other brothers. Which is
good, because it means that I don't have to be managing **** all
night and I have some fun.

So I get there early, to help clean up and chill at the house.
There's a group of people who come really early (like 10:15) before we're ready. They're pretty much just chilling in the basement, playing some beer pong. There's two girls that are left out though -- a really tall white girl who's not that hote, and a cute black chick. Letting girls go ungamed even this early in the night is a definite party foul in my book, so I go and chat them up. Because nobody else is there, I don't need an opener or anything, I just go up and introduce myself. We fluff talk a little while -- we tell each other what school we're in, how old we are, etc. I tell them some stories about good times we've had at parties here. And I tell them how lots of people in Boston are straight up alcoholics, and that I don't know why people need to drink so heavily to have fun. I didn't know this at the time, but this turned out to be a good DHV because they feel the same way. Also, I think it made it better because I was just talking and happened to say something good -- I wasn't *trying* to DHV.

This is a point of improvement I've made in my game lately. Before, I would have blown myself out of this set by doing a lot of surface attraction techniques (negs, C+F, takeaways) right up front. Now, I understand that at my house, I am high value. I'm hosting the party, I'm good looking and better dressed than everyone there, I know everyone there, I'm comfortable in set, etc. Until the party starts going and the girls get more ADD, I don't need to create surface attraction in order for them to be interested in me.

So anyways, after like 10-15 minutes of talking to these girls people start showing up, so I go upstairs to work the door. Ray's
here, we talk and chill for a little while. I think it helps my value a lot at parties for girls to see me collecting $$$ at the door, becuase that way they see that this is my house without me having to tell them, which comes off as qualifying myself. The party fills up fast, and I have to turn away a girl who I hook up with semi-regularly who brought like 10 hot girls with her.

After the party's full, we lock the door and head down to the
basement to game. Some girl pulls my friend away, so I jump back
into the 2set I was gaming previously solo. It was pretty obvious
that nobody had talked to them since I left -- seriously, guys at BU
are straight up fags. I haven't had anything to drink yet, but the
music is louder, and there's flashy lights, and I'm getting a lot
more into the energy of the party. I come in with a high-energy
vibe, which is really incongruent with their low energy state. But,
I didn't get blown out because I talked to them before, they just
became high energy with me.

Now I start doing all the surface attraction ****.

Dan: How come you guys are dancing?!??! You said you were fun!
HBskirt: Well we haven't really drank much and nobody else is
dancing blah blah blah other logical crap
Dan: (Cutting her off, to the UG) Haha, is she always like this?
HBskirt: Always like what?
Dan: Yo, I'm just kidding, you know I love you (cavemanning her)
UG: (Just laughs, doesn't ****block. At this point I just talk to
the HB)
Dan: (still kinoing her) Hey, let's dance (I start dancing with her)

We dance for like 5 minutes, then I realize we're the ONLY ones in
the party dancing. UG is hovering nearby, so I say, hey, let's move
over here and get people dancing, and then I move her. We go in the middle of the dance floor, somehow still nobody's cool enough to dance like us. But that's ok. It was a good way to isolate her from her friend. I dance with her a little while here, then say "Let's go over here" and move her again, to isolate her further from her friend. We dance more. Btw, I think dance floor is the BEST way to create deep (physical) attraction in nighttime game, especially if you have a good body and you know how to dance. It's a socially acceptable way to get huge amounts of kino in.

So anyways, while we're dancing way away from her friend, I say in her ear. "You're not bad...I could definitely teach you a few
things." She laughs at this, and says that she thinks she'd be the
one doing the teaching. I stop dancing, still holding her and with
her face about an inch from mine, and I keep teasing her, with our
lips practically touching. Pretty soon, we're making out.

I've learned that you can only make out in the middle of the dance
floor so long before some girl calls your target a slut, so I move
her to a nearby couch, where we makeout some more. We're both
getting really turned on, but I want to make sure she's ready before I move her again to the living room so I don't get any ASD. Then, out of nowhere, somebody throws a full cup of beer on us!!!

I don't see who it is, and I don't stop to ask someone because I
sense she'll bolt if her state is broken any more. I try to go back
to making out, no dice. She's like "that totally killed my buzz"
(she didn't mean she was drunk btw, she'd only had one beer). I'm persistant, but I only get light kisses. Eventually, she says she
has to go and find her friend. I laugh, and I'm like **** that ****,
we're like the A crowd over here. She laughs too, but her state has been broken and she says it again. I'm like nah, it's cool. Then
she's like, no, I really have to go find my friend, so finally I let
her go. As expected, her friend whisks her upstairs. I see her a few minutes later upstairs, an AMOG is chatting her up (finally, haha). I introduce myself to the guy, and then I sit between them (which is a good AMOG tactic when you can get away with it). Then I go for the #close, but I can't even get that. What the crap.

That's ok though, because I'm still feeling really good and I have
an entire party full of girls to game. I tell her to have a nice
night, then I head back down to the basement to find Ray and do some sets.

Right as I go down the stairs, I see a two set of black HBs...one of
them's in my writing class! I'd only talked to her like five minutes
before class one day, but hey, what the hell. I say hey, what's up,
and give her a hug. Like the girls before, they both seemed pretty
sober. She asks me how I did on my last essay, I tell her the story
about how I spent so much time on it, and then I got a C- because
our teacher thought it was a racist essay. She's like "oh...I can't
hang out with you if you're racist" being all serious and ****. I'm
like "nooooooooo....I love black people" and I give her a big hug. I
can see now that this was qualifying myself, but it still worked
because I did it with kino, and because I was pretty high value
coming in. I run pretty much the same teases as above, making fun of white people who don't dance, making fun of her for not dancing, asking her friend if she's always like this, etc. She's getting really giggly and touchy-feely and ****, so I start dancing with her. Pretty much the same deal as before...I slowly move her a few step away from her friend at a time, when she's far enough away, I say "you're not bad...I could definitely teach you a few things" and make out with her.

She's way into it right from the start, so I'm more aggressive
moving her. I skip the couch and the living room altogether, and
take her upstairs. No objections.

But then...dum dum dum...her friend comes upstairs and starts to
****block. I thought I was all done at this point...fortunately, she
argues with her friend telling her that she's not drunk at all, that
she knows me from class, etc. Her friend tells her she'll let her
have five minutes upstairs with me, if she promises her nothing will happen. Then her friend says that if she ****s me, she'll kill her. lol.

So we go into one of the brother's room and start hooking up on his bed. Her friend calls, she ignores it. I've got my hands up her
shirt, feeling up her nice tits. She likes to be on top when we make out, but I make sure to move her back on bottom about half the time to keep dominant. And also, because I like to be on top ;). I start rubbing her ***** through her pants, she's loving it. Unfortunately, I can rub as vigorously as I normally do because my fingers are all bruised and swollen from a really intense game of volleyball earlier that day (yes, I'm serious). I try to unbutton her pants, I get ASD here, she moves my hand away gently. I keep making out, 5 mins later I repeat, get ASD again. I'm about to do it again, when my fraternity brother walks in and yells "GET THE **** OUT OF MY ROOM!" Thanks man, I appreciate the great wingmanship.
 

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She gets up without bothering to redo her belt, kind of staggering
like she's drunk. This strikes me as weird because she was perfectly fine when we started talking. But, I've seen this before -- girls who are perfectly fine before they hook up with me act really drunk after it happens, like they're justifying it to themselves. So, I don't think anything of it.

I move up up to the third floor, to another unoccupied room. We
start making out on the bed. All this time her cell phone's
vibrating like crazy's, she's ignoring it. I pick up where I left
off, but she's still moving my hand away. We keep making out on the bed for about 10 minutes, then the door burst open, and my other fraternity brother is like, "DAN, GET THE **** OUT OF MY ROOM!" Really, that's what brotherhood's all about.

So we stop and I get up, and she just kind of lies down on the bed. I'm like, we have to go. She's like, I have a headache. Now, I
thinking that she might actually be drunk, and she wasn't faking it
before. So, I pull back, and I'm like, "are you going to be
alright?" She just looks at me kind of weird for a second...then she throws up on me!

Fortunately, God blessed me with swift reflexes and I jumped back, so not much actually got on my pants. But still, it was a rather traumantic and disgusting experience. To make matters worse, a male voice is calling out her name loudly in the hall, asking where she is. I lead her out of the room, and its her huge black 6ft tall 300 lbs AFC friend, and he's all mad. He's like, man, I ****in hate frat houses, and he grabs her and brings her downstairs.

So now, I'm left to clean up after this girl. I use an entire roll
of paper towels, and a concoction of cleaning chemicals until you
can't smell anything, which takes me about forty-five minutes. I
finish it off with MopnGlow, and you the floor looks better than
before and the room doesn't smell at all. I decide not to tell him
what happened...he'll probly sleep better if he doesn't know what
went down.

Unfortunately, I saw him at the mixer the next day, and he was
pissed. I thought for sure he somehow pickup up on the smell...but nope, he was mad because he found a few broken ketchup packets on the floor, and she made a few shoe-prints on his bedsheets. lol. I didn't even think about that ****. I'm glad I didn't tell him what happened, or he really would have killed me.

I saw the girl on Monday, she apologized for throwing up on me. She told me what happened was that she had two beers at another party, but when they came to our house, we were all out of beer, and only had $1.00 shots. Our bartender stupidly sold her 5 shots all at once, which she drank right before I came down. So I guess this was why she seemed sober at first, but warmed up so quickly and made out w/ me within 10 minutes. And, why she was staggering upstairs, she actually was drunk by that point. Apparently, she's one of those people who "beer before liquor, never been sicker" applies to. Apparently all her friends hate me now, but oh well. I #closed her, but I don't think I'll follow up for a while.

So yeah. Maybe not the best way for the night to end, but all in all
it still was a night where I stepped my game up majorly. I'd never
made out with two chicks before in one night, or made out with girls so fast before either. More importantly, I'm beginning to feel that I can do this consistently, and without drinking at all. I'd
attribute this to all the daytime sarging I've done, which is
helping my night game too.

So, the things I did right in this FR:
1. Not blowing myself out with C+F when surface attraction wasn't
necessary.
2. Telling cool stories and vibing to show value.
3. Being better dressed than everyone at the party.
4. Using surface attraction *after* I demonstated value to lead into
kino and dancing and makeout.
5. Aggressively moving the girls around and isolating them a little
bit at a time from their friends.
6. Talking to the girls in multiple sessions -- even though each
lasted only 5-10 minutes, it created the impression that they "knew
me" the second time I started gaming them.
7. Not worrying excessively about her friends ****blocking, only
talking to them as much as necessary.
8. Being at the door when everyone came in to show social proof, and hitting the party when it was getting good.
9. Not drinking too much.

Things I did wrong:
1. Maybe taking things too fast...I'm not sure if making out in 10-
15 minutes with the girls was good or bad. On the one hand, it was cool and validating to do. On the other hand, what I did pre-makeout was definitely "flash game" where once her state was broken, she ran away, except in the second case because she was drunk by the time we got ****blocked. And, I'm not sure if this is the best way to get MLTRs, which is what I'm interested in. I'd like some feedback on this.
2. Not recognizing that she second girl was actually drunk, and not
faking it.
3. Not having condoms with me. This is stupid stupid stupid, and I
need to start bringing condoms to every day2 and party I go to.
4. Moving the first girl from the far end of the couch, I'm cutting
the couch out of my isolation plan from now on because too many
things go wrong and I tend to get stuck there. From now on it's bar area-->middle of dance area-->far end of dance area near the stairs-- >kitchen-->living room-->upstairs, with steps cut out if I can get away with it.
5. Being a dumbass and not remembering that my fraternity brother said that I could hook up on his futon but not his bed, because he didn't want stains and **** on it. Which I guess is understandable.

Props go to Woodhaven for taking away my limiting beliefs on needing a certain amount of time to create attraction, Dimitri for taking away my limiting beliefs on kinoing a girl right away, and my boy Mirage for inspiring me to hook up with lots of black chicks.

Questions, thoughts, suggestions are all welcome.

Peace,

-Dan
 

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Originally posted by Delta Male
She gets up without bothering to redo her belt, kind of staggering
like she's drunk. This strikes me as weird because she was perfectly fine when we started talking. But, I've seen this before -- girls who are perfectly fine before they hook up with me act really drunk after it happens, like they're justifying it to themselves. So, I don't think anything of it.

I move up up to the third floor, to another unoccupied room. We
start making out on the bed. All this time her cell phone's
vibrating like crazy's, she's ignoring it. I pick up where I left
off, but she's still moving my hand away. We keep making out on the bed for about 10 minutes, then the door burst open, and my other fraternity brother is like, "DAN, GET THE **** OUT OF MY ROOM!" Really, that's what brotherhood's all about.

So we stop and I get up, and she just kind of lies down on the bed. I'm like, we have to go. She's like, I have a headache. Now, I
thinking that she might actually be drunk, and she wasn't faking it
before. So, I pull back, and I'm like, "are you going to be
alright?" She just looks at me kind of weird for a second...then she throws up on me!

Fortunately, God blessed me with swift reflexes and I jumped back, so not much actually got on my pants. But still, it was a rather traumantic and disgusting experience. To make matters worse, a male voice is calling out her name loudly in the hall, asking where she is. I lead her out of the room, and its her huge black 6ft tall 300 lbs AFC friend, and he's all mad. He's like, man, I ****in hate frat houses, and he grabs her and brings her downstairs.

So now, I'm left to clean up after this girl. I use an entire roll
of paper towels, and a concoction of cleaning chemicals until you
can't smell anything, which takes me about forty-five minutes. I
finish it off with MopnGlow, and you the floor looks better than
before and the room doesn't smell at all. I decide not to tell him
what happened...he'll probly sleep better if he doesn't know what
went down.

Unfortunately, I saw him at the mixer the next day, and he was
pissed. I thought for sure he somehow pickup up on the smell...but nope, he was mad because he found a few broken ketchup packets on the floor, and she made a few shoe-prints on his bedsheets. lol. I didn't even think about that ****. I'm glad I didn't tell him what happened, or he really would have killed me.

I saw the girl on Monday, she apologized for throwing up on me. She told me what happened was that she had two beers at another party, but when they came to our house, we were all out of beer, and only had $1.00 shots. Our bartender stupidly sold her 5 shots all at once, which she drank right before I came down. So I guess this was why she seemed sober at first, but warmed up so quickly and made out w/ me within 10 minutes. And, why she was staggering upstairs, she actually was drunk by that point. Apparently, she's one of those people who "beer before liquor, never been sicker" applies to. Apparently all her friends hate me now, but oh well. I #closed her, but I don't think I'll follow up for a while.

So yeah. Maybe not the best way for the night to end, but all in all
it still was a night where I stepped my game up majorly. I'd never
made out with two chicks before in one night, or made out with girls so fast before either. More importantly, I'm beginning to feel that I can do this consistently, and without drinking at all. I'd
attribute this to all the daytime sarging I've done, which is
helping my night game too.

So, the things I did right in this FR:
1. Not blowing myself out with C+F when surface attraction wasn't
necessary.
2. Telling cool stories and vibing to show value.
3. Being better dressed than everyone at the party.
4. Using surface attraction *after* I demonstated value to lead into
kino and dancing and makeout.
5. Aggressively moving the girls around and isolating them a little
bit at a time from their friends.
6. Talking to the girls in multiple sessions -- even though each
lasted only 5-10 minutes, it created the impression that they "knew
me" the second time I started gaming them.
7. Not worrying excessively about her friends ****blocking, only
talking to them as much as necessary.
8. Being at the door when everyone came in to show social proof, and hitting the party when it was getting good.
9. Not drinking too much.

Things I did wrong:
1. Maybe taking things too fast...I'm not sure if making out in 10-
15 minutes with the girls was good or bad. On the one hand, it was cool and validating to do. On the other hand, what I did pre-makeout was definitely "flash game" where once her state was broken, she ran away, except in the second case because she was drunk by the time we got ****blocked. And, I'm not sure if this is the best way to get MLTRs, which is what I'm interested in. I'd like some feedback on this.
2. Not recognizing that she second girl was actually drunk, and not
faking it.
3. Not having condoms with me. This is stupid stupid stupid, and I
need to start bringing condoms to every day2 and party I go to.
4. Moving the first girl from the far end of the couch, I'm cutting
the couch out of my isolation plan from now on because too many
things go wrong and I tend to get stuck there. From now on it's bar area-->middle of dance area-->far end of dance area near the stairs-- >kitchen-->living room-->upstairs, with steps cut out if I can get away with it.
5. Being a dumbass and not remembering that my fraternity brother said that I could hook up on his futon but not his bed, because he didn't want stains and **** on it. Which I guess is understandable.

Props go to Woodhaven for taking away my limiting beliefs on needing a certain amount of time to create attraction, Dimitri for taking away my limiting beliefs on kinoing a girl right away, and my boy Mirage for inspiring me to hook up with lots of black chicks.

Questions, thoughts, suggestions are all welcome.

Peace,

-Dan

GREAT POST!
unfortunantly i gotto go before i can finish reading it.. uni calls..
but really really good stuff bro!
 

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I have no idea what any of what any of you just said, because your posts are too long and I don't have enough motivaition to read them. Plus I'm too drunk and cant spell. But black chicks are freaky, in a good way, so make sure you've got some astroglide.
 
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