FR: Flaky is as flaky does...

[BackInTheGame78]

Briefly chatted with an HB7.5 yesterday, invited her to meet up for a drink today and got her number. Texted her briefly yesterday, set up date for 8pm tonight.

Texted her around 7:15pm to let her know I was running a few minutes late and get the following response:

Her: Sorry, I can't make it today I'm sick with the flu

Me: Fvck Off.

Her: I'm really sick.

Me: Fvck Off.

Her: I didn't hear back from you so I thought you weren't interested.

Me: Fvck Off.

Guess she must have ran out of excuses at that point...number deleted.

Chalk it up to the game.

 

[guru1000]

LOL. Feels good to send them to hell sometimes. Many OLD chicks have no respect. If more guys treated them this way instead of kissing their azz, they would stop being classless. This is why I have absolutely no shame in double-booking them at the same time.

I had one OLD date this weekend (Date One) that arrived 1.5 hours late to the date! I had another date in the meantime, a double-booking and finished that date before Date One arrived. I left. When Date One finally arrived and saw I wasn't there, she cursed me out, LOL. Never mind the 1.5 hours she was late. Talk about entitlement.

 

[Trump]

Briefly chatted with an HB7.5 yesterday, invited her to meet up for a drink today and got her number. Texted her briefly yesterday, set up date for 8pm tonight.

Texted her around 7:15pm to let her know I was running a few minutes late and get the following response:

Her: Sorry, I can't make it today I'm sick with the flu

Me: Fvck Off.

Her: I'm really sick.

Me: Fvck Off.

Her: I didn't hear back from you so I thought you weren't interested.

Me: Fvck Off.

Guess she must have ran out of excuses at that point...number deleted.

Chalk it up to the game.

I guess its ok bro but look how emotional you got over a girl you have never even met. I would have just said

"are we still good for 8 pm?"
"sorry i can't make it today I'm sick."

No response warranted. She won't know if you can have sex with your gf now or double booked or whatever. By saying F off she knows you got no one else to sleep with. You are doing her the favor, not the other way around.

 

[Slash Dolo]

I'm starting to think you need to flake on the first date with all women. Seriously. Give them a good amount of attention through text afterwards but flake. Confuse the sh*t out of them. It's such a pain in the ass but I need to try it out.

 

[pyros]

I guess you barely talked to this chick when you met her...?
besides, you say that you barely texted her to set the date...

Maybe you could have built a little bit more of rapport before setting the date. This way the chance of her getting cold feet is lower, cause hey, she knows you a bit now, your not really a "stranger".

I dont know why so many guys think that if they exchange a few messages with a girl BEFORE the date it is counterproductive or something. What is counterproductive is NOT TO EXCHANGE a few messages to let her know something more about you, build rapport etc. before you ask her out.

Anyway, I've gottten a few flakes like this before, so yes, these girls are rude as fvck, and stupid too.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Does anyone else catch the inherent dishonesty and the way the lies roll off her tongue?? I'm sick. No really I'm sick.
Ok.....I am not sick...I thought you weren't interested because I didn't hear back from you.

Was I the only one to catch that?? Perhaps I am an oracle.

Yeah she was completely full of sh!t...funny how the story changed once I called her BS.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

LOL. Feels good to send them to hell sometimes. Many OLD chicks have no respect. If more guys treated them this way instead of kissing their azz, they would stop being classless. This is why I have absolutely no shame in double-booking them at the same time.

I had one OLD date this weekend (Date One) that arrived 1.5 hours late to the date! I had another date in the meantime, a double-booking and finished that date before Date One arrived. I left. When Date One finally arrived and saw I wasn't there, she cursed me out, LOL. Never mind the 1.5 hours she was late. Talk about entitlement.

Yeah, exactly...more guys need to let their testosterone flow(or tren in this case, lol) in their interactions with women instead of trying to be "Cool Hand Luke" all the time.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I guess its ok bro but look how emotional you got over a girl you have never even met. I would have just said

"are we still good for 8 pm?"
"sorry i can't make it today I'm sick."

No response warranted. She won't know if you can have sex with your gf now or double booked or whatever. By saying F off she knows you got no one else to sleep with. You are doing her the favor, not the other way around.

No, by saying "Fvck off." it means don't ever contact me again because I'm not going to tolerate your BS. I personally feel a woman who flakes has other deep seated character flaws in their personality which means I don't want anything to do with them.

No emotion involved. An emotional response would have been something like "Seriously??? I made plans and you just cancel??" That's emotional.

 

[Lozboss]

Back- you played it right. Sucks when they last minute flake.

I would of said it differently but yoo were right to Nuke her from Orbit.

 

[JohnChops]

Does anyone else catch the inherent dishonesty and the way the lies roll off her tongue?? I'm sick. No really I'm sick.
Ok.....I am not sick...I thought you weren't interested because I didn't hear back from you.

Was I the only one to catch that?? Perhaps I am an oracle.

thats what I was thinking, blatant lying, and she is bad at it.

 

[Reykhel]

You are the weakest link. Goodbye

One strike and your out is the only way to go. Run a tight ship and accept no nonsense.

I know there's the opinion with some here, to hit her up again in a few weeks but your just prolonging it and wasting your time. Flakes shouldn't be tolerated. I deviated from that rule during one period of time to see how that went and it's just a waste of time entertaining flakes.

I like the fvck off approach or may be just an ambiguous LMFAO and nothing more.

I had a bit of a flake situation a few weeks ago. She was actually a former plate (4 months or so) that I got rid of for...(well that's another thread) anyway I told her "you are the weakest link. goodbye" (Lozboss should appreciate that one)

So it was a bridge burner....or should have been....a while later I bump into her. we have a drink. we go back to mine. She even asked me "what are we now?" low self esteem or what. I hit her up a week later to come over to mine that evening. She said she couldn't and her counter offer was MAYBE NEXT WEEK....

maybe?
next week?
LMFAO
SFS

 

[nismo-4]

Good for burning the bridge, but she decided long ago she wasn't going with you. You failed somewhere or a more attractive man came in the picture.

I agree with Trump in a way...mutual disinterest. You just saved her the trouble of having to use another excuse to flake on you again.

If a woman flakes last minute, tell her you started dating a more interesting, attractive woman.

A last minute flake should be kicked to the curb instantly. But the bigger issue is where you f**ked up. If you can't fix that, you'll be doing good nexting flakes to kingdom come, but not getting any actual dates.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Good for burning the bridge, but she decided long ago she wasn't going with you. You failed somewhere or a more attractive man came in the picture.

I agree with Trump in a way...mutual disinterest. You just saved her the trouble of having to use another excuse to flake on you again.

If a woman flakes last minute, tell her you started dating a more interesting, attractive woman.

A last minute flake should be kicked to the curb instantly. But the bigger issue is where you f**ked up. If you can't fix that, you'll be doing good nexting flakes to kingdom come, but not getting any actual dates.

Typically I rarely get flaked on...usually once every 15-20 dates, but I've had 2 in the last 7 or 8, so maybe it's just the law of averages catching up to me.

 

[yungballa]

Honestly, I'll never understand why guys on these forums want to figure a certain way to respond to flakes.

She's a flake. So, forget her. Who cares what she thinks? If you're getting rid of her then who cares whether or not she thinks you're butthurt/have no other options or whatever. Personally, the way BITG responded I think he's just communicating that he's not gonna put up with her BS, and that she needs to go away. Yeah, it might come as butthurt to some people, but does it honestly matter what a girl you're trying to get rid of thinks, even after she's a flake?