FR/DR/LR: F-closed 3 HBs in one week, still not satisfied

[Fash]

Hi guys,

I had quite a busy week last week. I was able to f-close 3 chicks and to be honest, I learnt something about my self that I didnt know before. Here are the chain of events, and my thoughts...

I will refer to them as HB1, HB2, and HB3 (not looks ratings!)

Monday

Background: HB7.5 secretary I had been sarging from work since a while back. F-closed her a few times before. I had been 8 weeks since I last shagged her because I was on holiday for a while and she has met someone else.

Me: hey, what you doin 2moro night?
HB1: not much, y?
Me: I was thinking we could go out for a bite to eat
HB1: mmmm i'm not sure. I kinda like this other guy i've met and I dont wanna ruin it
Me: look, it's been a while since we spent any quality time together and I want you to see how you really feel before you make any definate decisions
HB1: you know what, you're right! why not! lets do it!



Tuesday

I picked her up from her place, went out for dinner, but wasnt getting ANY IOIs from here. It was like she was determined not to let me do anything! So i thought let me try to turn her on with words..

Me: hey, out of all the times we have done it, which has been your favourite?
HB1: bla bla bla
Me: mmm interesting, so what was so nice about it?
HB1: (getting horny) bla bla bla
Me: mmm interesting. i bet you miss my lips
HB1: aha
Me: well lets see what happens...

We drove back to hers. she invited me in for "tea" Within 5 minutes, I had her naked in her room absolutely ravaging the crap out of her.

Took my ages to cvm! I mean it almost felt like I didn't want to actually fvck her but was doing it just for the sake of it. Because I could...

Anyway, after some concentration and heavy humping I was able to cvm, do the compulsory cuddling, and go home.

Wednesday

I called up the Columbian chick I had recently f-closed in spain. Spain field report here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100483

Me: hey, meet me at so and so for drinks and bring an over night bag
HB2: EXCUSE ME????
Me: You heard me! I'm making love to you again!
HB2: ok.... any special requests?
Me: yeh, bring something sexy along with you.
HB2: play boy bunny or nurse??
Me: :nervous: ummmm bunny!!!!

Thursday

So I met up with her on Thursday, I couldnt be bothered to take her all the way home, so we went for drinks (which I made her pay the whole bill for) and I paid for the hotel room!

Anyway, f-closed her, several times and even convinced her on some back door action (it was her first time...... bless)

To be honest, i still had to try really hard just to cvm. It just didn't have any excitement for me. I fell asleep pretty pronto after coming and began the snoring! Poor thing hardly got any sleep!

Friday

Met up with the chick I had picked up a couple of weeks before for cofee. This is the Ice-B1tch with the stockings. FR here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100789

HB3: hey, what you doing this Saturday?
Me: nothing planned, why?
HB3: wanna go away for the weekend? lets go the sea side.
Me: umm ok... sure.
HB3: ok, you book the hotel, I'll pay for everything else.
Me: fine by me

So I got back to work, booked the hotel.

Saturday

Picked her up on Saturday morning and we drove down.

Got to the hotel, and she literally jumped me.

HB3: hey, i just have to tell you, i'm really small inside. I might bleed a little. Dont get freaked out.

I was thinking.... she is 27! WTF??????
Me: are you a virgin???
HB3: ofcourse not! i was engaged before, remember????
Me: not really, but OK, i'll take your word for it.

So anyway, I f-closed her twice there and then. She was a little lame in bed to be honest. Or maybe I was just kinda bored, I really wasnt feeling it. It was like there was no chemistry. + the b1tch kept screaming! I was thinking SHUT THE FVCK UP!!!!! :cuss:

Anyways, we went out for dinner and drinks. After lots of champagne, got back to the hotel, f-closed her again, I didnt cvm but i didnt care to be honest. Just wanted to go to sleep.

Drove back the next day, and spend a day recovering.

Now... Here is what is freaking me out....

WHY did I feel like that all week? these HBs are HOT! they are successful career girls, educated and fun to be with.

Has this ever happened to anyone else? Are there times that even the most amazing girls just don't turn you on, or don't turn you on as much as before??

 

[Aerospace]

I'm a bit envious to tell you the truth, Fash. And, to be sincere, I find this post to be rather narcissistic and vain - something like: "Look ma! I can f*ck three beautiful and interesting and successful career girls and even feel 'ennui de vivre' altogether!"

The vast majority of this board would kill to have your same problems. By the way, I can feel your emptiness. You should try to build something upon those ladies, at the end they're not only walking vaginas. Whenever you meet a woman that's even remotely interested in you, you can either bone her or try and create a connection, share feelings, memories and hopes.

F*ck it! I'm so envious, by the f*cking way!

The only thing that could motivate me in this post is that you're not an adonis, at least we're both quite 'normal'. By the way, weren't you going to settle with Mrs. Fash? Where did your potential wife go?

Congratulations. I hope to be like you, where I'll have received my fair amount of rejections. It's just that I don't have much time on my hands... I should forget p*ssy until I get my degree? I hope not...

See ya.

 

[Tomatoes]

Firstly.....Great work this mate. As always you never cease to amaze me. Purely amazing action and FRs.

More importantly....to answer your question on not feeling 100%. I went threw exactly the same thing. It happened when I was banging 2 diffrent girls on a very regular basis. It confused the sh!t out of me and scared me too. Im shagging 2 fit girls and im not feeling happy? WTF?

In the end the only thing i could put it down to was that just banging girls wasnt making me happy. I decided I needed one girl there and then. Now i try and look for LTR material....anything else is nice for a 1 nighter...but i am looking for more than meaningless sex.

The other thing it may be is your mind.....You dont see getting these girls as a challenge anymore. Its too easy....therefore you lose excitment. Thats another reason to look for a LTR. Its alot more challenging to find than your basic fvck.


This may not be anything like your situation......but it sounds like your going threw the same thing as me.

Happened when banging multiple women......check
Less enjoyment in bed........Check
Worried about the whole thing.......check


You may come to a diffrent conclustion to what i did. I dont know....but you asked if anyone else has been threw that and I have so you aint alone buddy.

Sarge On!

 

[Sapiens]

WHY did I feel like that all week? these HBs are HOT! they are successful career girls, educated and fun to be with.

Has this ever happened to anyone else? Are there times that even the most amazing girls just don't turn you on, or don't turn you on as much as before??

LOL. Welcome to the next level. "Law of Diminishing Returns"

The more you have of something, the less perceived value it has to you. Go figure.

-Sapiens

 

[Tomatoes]

LOL. Welcome to the next level. "Law of Diminishing Returns"

The more you have of something, the less perceived value it has to you. Go figure.

-Sapiens

Thats what i was trying to say in

The other thing it may be is your mind.....You dont see getting these girls as a challenge anymore. Its too easy....therefore you lose excitment.

"Law of Diminishing Returns".....Thats the badger!

 

[Aerospace]

That's why a lot of female friends tell me finding a girlfriend won't change my life. Being deep, complex, prone to sadness and boredom I fear they may be right. But what about finding true love? The thing that makes your heart grow fonder, convey a meaning to your days and put a little order into your life, and into your mind.

We should obviously think about ourselves and all, bettering us to the best of our abilities. But don't forget that we're 'built' to function in cooperative mode (sort of... ) - it takes another one of us to be happy, at the end. Come to think of it, loneliness can be so easily deleted by the tenderness of a hug, it almost brings tears to my eyes.

 

[skip2mylou781]

when fvcking becomes like more of a process, it'll get boring....how many different girls have u been with in ur life/

 

[Fash]

how many different girls have u been with in ur life/

mmmm good question...

I did a bit of recap this morning, and so far I can remember 37. But I dont really think what I am feeling is to do with how many women I've slept with. I think it is to do with the fact that I dont have a real connection with any of them, and to be honest, nailing them has been relatively easy.

When it becomes too easy, it is not fun anymore.

 

[Tomatoes]

There is only one thing you can do if its too easy......Aim Higher.

Like i say. My way of doing that is to look for a girl who i can see as more than a peice of ass.

For you it could be the same.....it could be to aim for HB 9-10s only. Problem is fash its up to you to find out what it is. You have your game sorted so its gennerally going to be easy for you.


Like Sapiens said its fundimental economics and psychology. The "Law of Diminishing Returns" says that the more you get of something. The less value it equates to.

Same with women. If you are getting sex on a tap. You dont appreciate it as much hence not enjoying it so much.

 

[aftershock]

Awesome mate!

Meaningless sex is great.