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Vanilla

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Well it's been my 2nd date and I'm confused on what I'm doing wrong.

The first date as we were departing, I was alittle forward on kissing her, I wanted to make it up (I didn't say anything about this to her).

So it was dinner and a movie, she took 30 minutes driving to meet me at the mall. i neg her on being late, but we head off to dinner anyways. at the front desk i made reservations and they told me i had to wait 10 mins. so we sat down and had some fluff talk. right away she asks what movie we're gonna watch (cause i told her it was a suprise)

HB: so what movie are we seeing?
Me: i wanted to see taladega nights (great movie btw)
HB: ohh i dont like will ferril
Me: why? he's fuggin hilarious
HB: i dunno blah blah, i wanted to see step up
Me: thats not my kind of movie
(this is all in a joking manner btw, she's laughing and fluffing her hair).

then we go in for california pizza kitchen. we fluff talk about college and her riding horses, then she offered to pay. and she did.

i offer to drive her to the movies from there. as im parking she almost seems to jump out of the car and walk down to the theater. im telling her to wait up, she doesn't respond :mad:

i pay for the movie tickets

we head in to the movies, it's crowded as hell and we get seats in the back. i try some kino but she seems cold and seems to focus more on the movie than me :rolleyes: she puts on lip balm twice. i ask her what flavor it is, she says mint but doesn't turn her face to me. so being the afc i just say "i can smell it way over here. it's nice"

then as the movie ends, she gets up and already starts walking ahead of me :cuss: i drive her back, feeling ticked off, then she points to her car and gets out.

now guys i ask you this. she's smiling, giving me positive signals, yet she keeps to herself regardless of anything i do. should i stop wasting my time, or do shy girls take more time than others?
 
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Might be the dinner thing. Just because she offered to pay doesn't mean she wanted to. She may have just been being courteous. Now I'm not saying you were wrong for allowing her to pay, I'm just throwing it out there.
 

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Martin Shabazz Jr. said:
Might be the dinner thing. Just because she offered to pay doesn't mean she wanted to. She may have just been being courteous. Now I'm not saying you were wrong for allowing her to pay, I'm just throwing it out there.
I did tell her it was ok if I payed, but she insisted.
 

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I did tell her it was ok if I payed, but she insisted.
She did that so she wouldn't feel guilty for turning down your advances.

If this chick grew up in America (not China), she should be willing to touch/smooch you by the end of the second date. Heavy flirting is not enough, sorry. She's not interested. You should give up on this one.
 
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I think she was interested at some point in time otherwise I doubt she would have went on TWO dates with him but somewhere somehow things went wrong.
 

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Martin Shabazz Jr. said:
I think she was interested at some point in time otherwise I doubt she would have went on TWO dates with him but somewhere somehow things went wrong.
That's why I'm confused as hell. She traveled a looong distance to see me, TWICE.

I figure she would be desperate also since she just moved here recently from overseas and we intially hooked up through craiglist.

I can probably find better, I might keep her as a friend.
 
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