FR: Date with a chick with bf

[ARrocket]

First field report, sorry if it's long-winded. My question is at the end, feel free to skip to that.

HB6 was totally into me back when I was like 15 (5 years ago), but I never really bothered...not that attractive, but I'm in my hometown living with my parents for a couple of months, and boredom got the best of me.

HB6 has a bf that she is practically married to...she moved in with him awhile back, and I know she cheated on him once with a friend of hers.

(All interaction through texting) I tell her to be ready at 3:30, because I'd be picking her up to go play pool at a local university. She asks if her boyfriend's sister can come along, as she wants to "check out the guys." I say "only if she is hot." She says that she is, and I proceed to pick her up.

We head to the pool place, and HBfriend is annoying...somewhat hot, but trashy looking.

I play a game with HBfriend, because HB6 has never played before. She's good, but I beat her. She then sticks around and starts showing HB6 how to play. Gross.

Finally, HBfriend runs away to flirt with some employees, and I have HB6 to myself. We rack up, and it's on. I'm flirting hardcore; lot's of kino (bumping her when she's getting ready to shoot, getting behind her to "show her how to hold the stick," poking her, etc. Also lot's of C&F, and just playful banter in general (you can imagine the sexual innuendo possible here). She is VERY receptive, so soon I'm smacking her butt, she's doing the same, it's a good time.

She's tired of playing, so we sit down, and she's all over me. I wanted to isolate, so I suggest a walk around campus. As soon as HBfriend sees us leaving though, she number-closes the employee (lol) and catches up to us :cuss:

So HB6 suggests we head down to the lake (Lake Michigan, tons of parks and beaches along...this is in Milwaukee if anybody is wondering). We all sit at a picnic table, with HBfriend facing away, so I start escalating some more. She grabs my hand, I put my other hand on her thigh and start rubbing (all while maintaining fluff talk). I get closer to her pvssy, and she moves my hand away. I stand up, grab her hand and tell her we're going for a walk.

We leave HBfriend behind, and walk along the lake. It's pretty busy with families and people riding bikes/jogging, but I'm still escalating (I think taking a walk is actually pretty solid for this, I start bumping her around, I grab her hand, I grab her and pretend to throw her into the water, etc). Soon I grab her from behind, and spin her around, and we're face to face. I go in for the kiss, and she kisses back, but soon turns the cheek. I suggest we go sit at another picnic table (a bit more isolated), grab her hand, and lead her there.

Once at this table, I continue kissing/rubbing her, but she doesn't let me escalate too much, saying "you know I have a bf, why are you doing this to me? Why now?" (meaning why not all those years ago when she was single). Obviously it is her fault, as she was receptive to my advances, and kinoed me back, but I don't say anything. Kinda dumb, but I said "just being friendly!" Any advice on how I should have played this??

She accuses me of just being horny, I ignore it, pull her on top of me, and just keep kissing and rubbing her. I grab her hand and put it on my c0ck, and her face lights up. But she pulls it away...at that point I just say "let's get back to your friend" and we walk back...she keeps trying to hold my hand on the way back.

I drop HB6 and HBfriend off at home...she texts me before I even get home, asking if I want to fight (inside joke). She's been blowing up my phone in the last couple of days.

So, how does one continue to escalate when the girl has a boyfriend and is seemingly unwilling to cheat? I'm going to be seeing another girl pretty soon who I know has a boyfriend, but who also seems somewhat into me, so I'm going to try to fvck that one too naturally :yes: What do you guys think?

 

[Real Talk]

First field report, sorry if it's long-winded. My question is at the end, feel free to skip to that.

HB6 was totally into me back when I was like 15 (5 years ago), but I never really bothered...not that attractive, but I'm in my hometown living with my parents for a couple of months, and boredom got the best of me.

HB6 has a bf that she is practically married to...she moved in with him awhile back, and I know she cheated on him once with a friend of hers.

(All interaction through texting) I tell her to be ready at 3:30, because I'd be picking her up to go play pool at a local university. She asks if her boyfriend's sister can come along, as she wants to "check out the guys." I say "only if she is hot." She says that she is, and I proceed to pick her up.

We head to the pool place, and HBfriend is annoying...somewhat hot, but trashy looking.

I play a game with HBfriend, because HB6 has never played before. She's good, but I beat her. She then sticks around and starts showing HB6 how to play. Gross.

Finally, HBfriend runs away to flirt with some employees, and I have HB6 to myself. We rack up, and it's on. I'm flirting hardcore; lot's of kino (bumping her when she's getting ready to shoot, getting behind her to "show her how to hold the stick," poking her, etc. Also lot's of C&F, and just playful banter in general (you can imagine the sexual innuendo possible here). She is VERY receptive, so soon I'm smacking her butt, she's doing the same, it's a good time.

She's tired of playing, so we sit down, and she's all over me. I wanted to isolate, so I suggest a walk around campus. As soon as HBfriend sees us leaving though, she number-closes the employee (lol) and catches up to us :cuss:

So HB6 suggests we head down to the lake (Lake Michigan, tons of parks and beaches along...this is in Milwaukee if anybody is wondering). We all sit at a picnic table, with HBfriend facing away, so I start escalating some more. She grabs my hand, I put my other hand on her thigh and start rubbing (all while maintaining fluff talk). I get closer to her pvssy, and she moves my hand away. I stand up, grab her hand and tell her we're going for a walk.

We leave HBfriend behind, and walk along the lake. It's pretty busy with families and people riding bikes/jogging, but I'm still escalating (I think taking a walk is actually pretty solid for this, I start bumping her around, I grab her hand, I grab her and pretend to throw her into the water, etc). Soon I grab her from behind, and spin her around, and we're face to face. I go in for the kiss, and she kisses back, but soon turns the cheek. I suggest we go sit at another picnic table (a bit more isolated), grab her hand, and lead her there.

Once at this table, I continue kissing/rubbing her, but she doesn't let me escalate too much, saying "you know I have a bf, why are you doing this to me? Why now?" (meaning why not all those years ago when she was single). Obviously it is her fault, as she was receptive to my advances, and kinoed me back, but I don't say anything. Kinda dumb, but I said "just being friendly!" Any advice on how I should have played this??

She accuses me of just being horny, I ignore it, pull her on top of me, and just keep kissing and rubbing her. I grab her hand and put it on my c0ck, and her face lights up. But she pulls it away...at that point I just say "let's get back to your friend" and we walk back...she keeps trying to hold my hand on the way back.

I drop HB6 and HBfriend off at home...she texts me before I even get home, asking if I want to fight (inside joke). She's been blowing up my phone in the last couple of days.

So, how does one continue to escalate when the girl has a boyfriend and is seemingly unwilling to cheat? I'm going to be seeing another girl pretty soon who I know has a boyfriend, but who also seems somewhat into me, so I'm going to try to fvck that one too naturally :yes: What do you guys think?

Skeezers who are willing to cheat on their boyfriends in the first place and have cheated the past just need to be presented with an opportunity to do so. That means your alcohol and your/her bedroom. Simple as that. Ask her to come over to watch a movie or some such.

You definately should not be taking these types broads out on dates; thats for girls you see some value in. hope you didnt pay for anything . Morals against making girls cheat aside, stop analyzing and whip it out pretty much.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

How about you stop waisting your time on these attention Hors and work on girls who are insterested in you who don't have boyfriends?

First of all, YOU DON'T DATE broads you haven't sexed yet, much less ones with boyfriends. You sealed your fate by letting a chaperone come along. And I am not referring to her c0ckblocking or anything. I am talking about you putting your foot down and testing her interest in you by telling her to meet up without the friend. Either way, stop wasting your time.

 

[ARrocket]

I paid for absolutely nothing, the friend paid for pool, walking in a park is free of course.

I know it would have been ideal to just invite her over to my place for a movie, but as previously stated, I'm staying with my whole family in a 2 bedroom house for a couple of months. I have an apartment in another city where I usually live, this is temporary.

I also have other plates, ones who are single and ready to bone.

I suppose alcohol would help loosen her up to help get rid of the LMR, but I'm underage, so it's hard to come by away from college.

That said, you guys are right, shouldn't have taken her out anywhere, but the circumstances were just stacked against me with this one, so I hoped isolation would be enough. Guess not.

Thanks for the reality check, although I don't think it's a waste of time; the fact that she is contacting me to get together makes me think I could still bone her, but the situation I'm in is making it difficult. I'll hang out with her in a more secluded area next time, it's the best I can do currently

 

[f283000]

If I'm going to be seeing a girl with a boyfriend (which I wouldn't do but if I did) it's going to be either in my bedroom or her bedroom. It's that simple!

There's no such thing for me as having a date with a girl that's taken. There's no such thing for me as being seen in a public place on a date with a girl that's taken. She either agrees to meet somewhere private or nothing.

That's how your involvement with these girls that have bfs should be kept, strictly for sex and totally private and nothing more. You go in an out of her place or the motel, she goes in an out of your place or the motel. That's how you do it. You don't go around parading all over the place with her kissing her! Unless it is trouble that you want and all for a HO!

 

[ARrocket]

You guys are right. Lesson learned

 

[f283000]

Not only that but your escalating job was top notch you really worked her. She's definitely hot and bothered (as shown by her blowing up your phone with activity). She wants it and she will probably agree to be with you somewhere private and then she's going to let herself go. Get ready for an unforgettable experience

Just remember that in situations like this somewhere private = a private room with a bed

 

[ARrocket]

Just remember that in situations like this somewhere private = a private room with a bed

Point noted. I will try to be alone with her in her house. Worst case scenario I take her to someplace secluded in my car...if nothing, I'll take her back home and move on.

Thanks everyone for the input.