I was out Saturday night with no intention of picking up any chicks. Hardly even spoke to many. Was just out with my mates enjoying a few beers and a chat. The first bar I went to was crowded with dozen of HB’s. I felt so comfortable and relaxed in my skin I could care less what I said and the way I behaved. I was feeling so ****ing confident and I noticed some girls look at me in a whole new way. I go to the gym at least four times a week and do a lot of weight lifting so I am in pretty good shape.
One thing that came to mind is that when you go out with no intention of trying to pick up girls you feel more at ease and can relax with yourself. Whereas before i’d always be thinking a lot about meeting women and what I would say to them.I just felt different than usual that night. I have been listening to the Inner game cd’s every night before sleep and somehow its turned me into a more layed back, relaxed kinda guy. I was feeling this way all throughout the night.
Me and my mates decided to hit one of the most popular bars in my town that attracts a lot of older and mature women. I went to this bar the previous week with one of my mates and was up dancing with a cute with a cute (HB7) polish chick. At least I thought she was Polish.. Last night as soon as I entered the bar, bought myself and my mate (Wingman) a beer and hit the dance floor almost like John Travolta in Satuarday night fever but in a much different kinda style than that J. There was just three or four other chick up dancing and I felt so ****ing suave it was unbelievable to me. I wasn’t dancing to get noticed; I was dancing because i was having' FUN!!
I know I’m not a great dancer but after having a few beers I didn’t take any notice of it. When you are are feeling so fu**ing good about yourself you don’t care what people think or what they say to you.
A minute on the dance floor I had two Hbs (6&7) touching my ass rubbing my chest. Another chick came out and was dancing really close to me. Honestly guys, I didn’t have to look at them or smile or anything. I felt the a true Alpha Male in side of me. I was loving every minute of it. Just out there dancing to every good or bad song that came on.
One of the girls showed strong sexual interest in me, it was an obvious IOI. I just turned away from her a couple of times, not bothering to show interest in her whatsoever. Even though she was my target for the night i just played it cool now now. And it seemed to have work well. Everytime I turned my back to her she kept moving in closer and pushing up against me almost the way Sharon Stone was with Micheal Douglus in Basic Instinct when they were at the club J. A minutes after I strolled right up to her and put my hands around her wast, she backed away a bit so this time I completely ignored her and again and began dancing with other girs. It was one step in and one step back (faulse –takeaway). She wanted me even more at this stage because as I was dancing with other girls she would keep coming back for more.
While still on the dance floor every now and again I’d be watching her from the courner of my eye to see what she was up to. I noticed her leaning into a guy, but that didn’t bother me. It almost looked like she was playin’ it hard to make me work extra hard for her.I continued to ignore her. It worked because when I saw her flirting with a guy she kept glancing back at me. So I walked slowly up to her, looked her in the eyes, held both her hands in mine and layed one on her. We kissed for a few seconds then she backed away a bit. I turned my back to her again and I felt her hands going up the front of my t-shirt, turned back around to face her and we kissed again much longer this time.Barely even spoke a word to her, just projected a strong masculine state and good body language.
The night came to a close and her friend came and was asking her to leave that there was a taxi outside waiting for them. I wasn’t gonna let her go without getting her number and another kiss from her. I isolated her from her friend, taking her to a dark corner in the club, took out my phone and had her type her number in it. Something I’ve learned never to ask chicks for the number, just have her give it to you. We kissed some more and then I let her off to her friend (who was probably getting jealous). Laugh Out Loud
After she had gone I continued talking to other girls and was getting good responses from each of them.
It was her real number cause I sent her a short text when I got home and she send one back the next morning telling me she had a great night and wants to meet up with me next weekend for a drink and a chat.
Jay
One thing that came to mind is that when you go out with no intention of trying to pick up girls you feel more at ease and can relax with yourself. Whereas before i’d always be thinking a lot about meeting women and what I would say to them.I just felt different than usual that night. I have been listening to the Inner game cd’s every night before sleep and somehow its turned me into a more layed back, relaxed kinda guy. I was feeling this way all throughout the night.
Me and my mates decided to hit one of the most popular bars in my town that attracts a lot of older and mature women. I went to this bar the previous week with one of my mates and was up dancing with a cute with a cute (HB7) polish chick. At least I thought she was Polish.. Last night as soon as I entered the bar, bought myself and my mate (Wingman) a beer and hit the dance floor almost like John Travolta in Satuarday night fever but in a much different kinda style than that J. There was just three or four other chick up dancing and I felt so ****ing suave it was unbelievable to me. I wasn’t dancing to get noticed; I was dancing because i was having' FUN!!
I know I’m not a great dancer but after having a few beers I didn’t take any notice of it. When you are are feeling so fu**ing good about yourself you don’t care what people think or what they say to you.
A minute on the dance floor I had two Hbs (6&7) touching my ass rubbing my chest. Another chick came out and was dancing really close to me. Honestly guys, I didn’t have to look at them or smile or anything. I felt the a true Alpha Male in side of me. I was loving every minute of it. Just out there dancing to every good or bad song that came on.
One of the girls showed strong sexual interest in me, it was an obvious IOI. I just turned away from her a couple of times, not bothering to show interest in her whatsoever. Even though she was my target for the night i just played it cool now now. And it seemed to have work well. Everytime I turned my back to her she kept moving in closer and pushing up against me almost the way Sharon Stone was with Micheal Douglus in Basic Instinct when they were at the club J. A minutes after I strolled right up to her and put my hands around her wast, she backed away a bit so this time I completely ignored her and again and began dancing with other girs. It was one step in and one step back (faulse –takeaway). She wanted me even more at this stage because as I was dancing with other girls she would keep coming back for more.
While still on the dance floor every now and again I’d be watching her from the courner of my eye to see what she was up to. I noticed her leaning into a guy, but that didn’t bother me. It almost looked like she was playin’ it hard to make me work extra hard for her.I continued to ignore her. It worked because when I saw her flirting with a guy she kept glancing back at me. So I walked slowly up to her, looked her in the eyes, held both her hands in mine and layed one on her. We kissed for a few seconds then she backed away a bit. I turned my back to her again and I felt her hands going up the front of my t-shirt, turned back around to face her and we kissed again much longer this time.Barely even spoke a word to her, just projected a strong masculine state and good body language.
The night came to a close and her friend came and was asking her to leave that there was a taxi outside waiting for them. I wasn’t gonna let her go without getting her number and another kiss from her. I isolated her from her friend, taking her to a dark corner in the club, took out my phone and had her type her number in it. Something I’ve learned never to ask chicks for the number, just have her give it to you. We kissed some more and then I let her off to her friend (who was probably getting jealous). Laugh Out Loud
After she had gone I continued talking to other girls and was getting good responses from each of them.
It was her real number cause I sent her a short text when I got home and she send one back the next morning telling me she had a great night and wants to meet up with me next weekend for a drink and a chat.
Jay