FR: Damn this has been a great week

[backbreaker]

okay, I promised in a nother post I would give a field report, something I normally don't even bother doing, but this week has been freakin unreal the amount of success I had.. so good that becuase of it.. but mainly because it's sleeting outside and I won't fly in snow or sleeting, that I am postponing a trip to LA

Well Monday was a pretty regular day for me... Didn't even go out. really didn't want to be bothered. Did my normal every day routine, worked until about 5, went to the gym for an hour or so, came home, cooked dinner, read a book, went to sleep.

I didn't even know Tuesday was valentines day, i thought it was thursday (goes to show the prority I put on valentines day) so I get about 3 calls wishing me a happy V Day and about 2 date offers... both of which I declined because when you spend valentines day with someone, it means, at least to them.. you like them.. I don't like any woman I am dealing with to that point.. that's a big committment.

So this is where the fun starts. I decide, even though Id on't want to go on a date, I don't want to be at home.. and all my friends are with their girls, so I say **** it. I"m not going to take the easy route out and call some girl I really dont want to be with and cake all night long, I'm going to go out.

So I go to the club, or better yet, the bar down the street from my place, i'm chillin or whatnot, and there is this SMOKIN hot chick, white, about 5'6, about 120LBS, PERFECT body, blonde hair, perfect smile.. but more so, she's alone, and she's not looking to happy.. so I mean.. I Put 2 +2 together and figured she might be down, so I order her a drink (yes, this rule can be broken from time to time, but you have to be cool like me to do it ) and introduced myself.

We were the same age, hit it off very quickly


Actually one of the easiest pickups I have ever had.. which scared me.. it shouldn't be THAT EASY.. it's that easy for a reason..

Easy=Desperate

Desperate= For a reason

However, she was hot as hell, was downright giddy to give me my number.. so I was like damn.. **** it, why not go on a date right now? It's Valentines day.. she agreed..so we left and went to another bar.. as dumb as it sounds and talked for a while.. within an hour we had talked about what we did for a living (to some extent for me, I never tell a girl what I do for a living at least when I first meet them, they have to earn that)

So the brings up she gotten broken up with earlier that day (no **** shurlock, ya think?) and how guys always come and go... So Iw as like, how often is always?

She said she dated like 30 guys in 4 years.. she's just 19 (fake id)

At that point I knew she was a freakin head case.. I also knew, because she was a headcase and she was all on me by now, I could ****..

so I have a delima... go home horny (realitive) or **** this smokin hot crazy physco *****...

And while she is talking, I have no idea about what, I am literarly zoned out, pros and cons...

- Might slash my tires if I leave her after a month or so

+ Nice legs

- Bobbitt

+ Can dance..

then I though about how bad I would be flamed for ****ing a crazy woman.. when I am not wanting for ***** as it is.. so I told her I would give her a call later this week to set up a date, and left it at that.. didn't delete the phone number, no reason to, but I'm not going to call her... I didn't give her my phone nubmer so I don't have to worry about her calling me


Okay, so I wake up Wednesday morning, same routine, go to the gym, there is a chick I haven't seen in there before... Nice athletic type

Now, I have never in my life talked to a girl from a gym.. not my thing plus I'm not going for style points while I am in the gym, I go to workout.

So I am on the treadmill, and I am going.. I dont' give myself time limits, I go until I literarly can't run anymore, it's more exciting to see how far I can go than it is to run for 10 mintues, pretend I am tired when I know I really can go longer, and you get in shape faster.

So i am on the treadmill for about 55 minutes and she is like 2 treadmills down from me and I see her catching glances at me, but like I said, I'm not payning her the least bit attention, well, I am paying attention becuase I see her, but ****ing her isn't on my mind.

So I get off the treadmill and I am DEAD tired, like to the point where I don't even want to talk,s o I am sitting down on the treadmill and she comes up to me after like 2 mintues of sitting down and offers me a powerade.. I'm like damn that's cool, so I get her name and we start talking about exercising and ****, and asking me how she can "get in shape"... (from the looks of it, she wasn't out of shape, great shape actually).. Then she asked me how I was able to jog as fast as I did for so long.. I just told her I push myself,... mostly it's mental,t hat's what people don't understand, you can do alot of **** if you make yourself do it

Anyway, I tell her my workout schedule and offer to help her whenever I am around, I don't mind and she says better yet, why don't we exchange numbers so we can "make sure we are on the same schedule"

BTW, this chick isn't white...b ut I don't know what she was...s he was good looking I know that.. if I had to guess like Greek or something.. about 26ish, nice ass and legs

She actually called me today and left a message on my machine, asking me to call her back... I will get to that later



So I go out Wednesday night with a girl I am seeing pretty constantly... the entire time she was *****ing why I couldn't take her out the night before (V Day).. I was about to turn around and drop her ass right back at home


Last night, I pulled a BangBros video.. I was leaving the gym, actually leaving subway after leaving the gym, and I am right down the street from my place and I see from behind the most gerogous piece of ass I have ever seen..
have you ever seen a girl from behind that looked so good you knew she couldn't have an ugly face? That's how I felt.

about 5'9 (actually taller than me) long red/brown hair, darkish complection... an ass that looked like it was molded out of gold, about 125-130lbs if I had to guess, not big at all but not anarexoic.. has the prettiest blue eyes and has a Cali accent

So I slow down and she is on the cell phone walking somewhere.. and I just start starring her down.. and she is starring me down.. Have you ever seen seabiscut when the trainer sees seabiscuit for the first time and they are just locking eyes for like ever and the trainer says "damn".. that was me.. she wouldn't break eye contact with me, even when I was behind her.. so I was like **** it..

So i turn around, as soon as I turn around, she turns around, I ask her did she need a ride somewhere.... she says yes, and she hoops in my car and I glady take her to subway where I just left.. we hit it off quick, I can tell she is a flirt because she is trying to get free food fromt he guy in subway.

I could tell from the way she was talking she was single.. In other words, she was a freak... She asked me what I was doing tonight, and I told her In all honestly, I thought it was going to be sleeting by now so I didn't plan anything but I will probably hit a club up or somethign, and she says "ohh.. pick me up, I want to go with you"...

So I drop her off and at her place and she invits me in... but I dont' go because, I stink quite frankly, so I tell her let me go home wash up, throw on some clothes, and I'll come back and drink with you

So I come back, she opens the door and what strikes me is how much of a woman she is... no bull****, has a drink ready for me, takes my jacket and hangs it up, offers me food

I KNEW she was a freak when she said she needed to start getting dressed and just took off her shirt right there.. I mean she had her back turned but still

So we go to the club..or better yet we are on our way to the club, and she's like "is there a strip club down here? I like looking at sexy women" I'm like sure, so I make a U-Turn and we go to the strip club... whcih was probably the best strip club experience I have ever had becuase I didn't spend over 30 dollars and had the time of my life.. with her..

Get this.. she even bought me drinks.. I'm not talking like one or two drinks.. she wouldn't even let me pay

I was like "who invented you? You are sexy as hell, I mean, you have ever woman in here beat by a country mile. including a woman I used to ****... you are hospitable and you don't let guys buy you drinks?"

She was like "I like you and I want to thank you for taking me out"

So within like an hour, she is giving me lapdances and kissing on my ear

So we leave and I was like there is a club so and so.. and she is like she wants to go.. so I make another U-Turn..we go in, I pay for this one but she pays for the drinks (I don't have to pay a cover at the strip club), or drink we only had one.. only stayed there 20 mintues or so.. but we were dancing and by the time we were done were basically ****ing on the dancefloor..

 

[backbreaker]

So on my way to drop her off she asks me am I going to spend the night with her, I'm like "you damn right I'm spending the night".. I leave my wallet and money in the car just in case, but we go in, she has a nice little pad, she's 28 and before we do anythnig she's knocked out, which is cool, so I put her on my chest and I go to sleep to.

So some guy, probably an AFC is calling her like at 8 in the morning asking why she didn't call her back, and it wakes us up. She tells me she has alot of male friends but they and this is what she said "aren't guys I see sexually, even though I know they like me"

So I tell her.. I had a blast of a time, but I know you gotta go to work, and I got some crap I need to do at home, so I have to go.

So she tells me she is off for the weekend including today, and asks do I mind if she spends some time with me if she stays out of my way.. I say sure why the freak not...

So she gets to my house, makes herself at home, I do a little work... I was ready to start betting but then I realized... It's raining outside... Id on't make bets in the rain, ****s the entire race, or at least how I planed it to work out up, so basically I had nothing to do all day, so we start watching TV and talking... she starts nibbling on my chest, I the same to her, about 10 mintues later we were at it.. about 3 or 4 times the entire day.

I can tell this one is going to stick around for a while... if for anything because she acts like a woman and not a stuck up cvnt that thinks the world is owed to them because they look good in a skirt.

I didn't call the woman back at the gym because this chick was with me all day, plus I wasn't going anywhere becuse it's sleeting outside or was supposed to

That's not to include the 3 women I see normally...

Now I have 6 women to fit into 3 slots.. I don't like to see more than 3 women at a time if I can help it.

Now, the girl Is still over my house (it's sleeting outside, I said **** it, she didn't want to leave and I like her company, so she is probably here until sunday) has an automatic bid.

The woman that was *****ing me out Wednesday can catch the curve... she's a prick and she wants too much of my time

So that's 4 women in 2 slots... One is about 32 and divorced, doesn't want anything serious or so she says, just **** and duck all day long... I can go weeks without seeing her but she is greateful when I swing by...

So I will give her one of the slots as well because she is hot and low maintence

One is a girl I have been messing around wtih for the last 2 years off an on..she's honeslty pretty plain but is great in the sack but she has issues.. don't let her catch me anywhere with anyone else.. she will literarly try to **** her way back into my heart... she has to go

So I will see what this chick at the gym is about and make my last cut or better yet..I will probably just give the last spot or so to speak to the other woman I am seeing and just let the sexual tension build between the girl at the gym and I because I don't know what she is about yet, but she seemed a little into the workout advice.. I could see something going on there

And that's not even mentioning my old Ex GF of a year that still pops up every once in a while or my old oneitis that will do everything to get my attention but when I give any inckling of sexual induendo towards her, gives me the entire "I don't see you like that".. I swear she just wants to see if she CAN take me from anyone and really doesn't want to date me.. at least not yet.. execpt that I am on a different playing field than I was back then, she wouldn't know what to do

and that's not including the crazy ***** I met Tuesday... it's still about a 5 percent posibility I might run up in her one time... she was just tooo damn hot.. if for anything so I can see her in public and say "yeah, that wasn't ****, came saw, skitted on" and mean it.. but 30 guys in 4 years Oh and she ran away when she was 15 and got beat around by her dad growing up and molested.. the fact that she told me that is crazy, let alone actually being that ****ed up

 

[Tha Realnezz]

^This nigga pays for sex don't listen to him.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
^This nigga pays for sex don't listen to him.

Watching an episode of "The Boondocks" I realized everyone does indirectly.

Riley: Well why can't I give the hoe the money I was gonna pay for dinner so she could go grocery shopping?

 

[Emma's Legacy]

Haha! You made me laugh Tha Realnezz! Big props to you sir

Backbreaker's THE man though lets be honest! Common sense, clear thinking and pulls women like its nobody's business... bet he's good looking

 

[SynTheUnscathed]

Originally posted by Emma's Legacy
Haha! You made me laugh Tha Realnezz! Big props to you sir

Backbreaker's THE man though lets be honest! Common sense, clear thinking and pulls women like its nobody's business... bet he's good looking

Heh...Backbreaker is good looking. The only way this would ever happen to a Don Juan. But thats good. We need Don Juans of different types. Backbreaker is alot like I would be if I applied myself and wasnt a one man girl.

 

[backbreaker]

I think I sell myself short alot on my looks.. I mean, I am in shape, pretty well built, but I guess becuase I see my face everyday I don't see anything special, but I get told all the time I am good looking.. even my old oneitis told me I was pretty good looking.

I would personally give myself an 7.5-8 on looks... if I can loose this last freakin 8-10 pounds of fat and maybe put on about 5-7 pounds of muscle, it will probably be a tad bit higher.

I'm not even thiking of getting married until I am at least 30.. and I make that known to every girl I date.. some accecpt it, some try to change me, some just don't like it.. either way I am doing what I want to do.

What people my age don't realize is, the older you get, the more you in control you are as far as ditating what you get out of the relationship.. no point in settling down when you can pretty much have your pick of the litter 10 years later... plus it's fun


Most my weeks aren't THAT good.. that's not including ugmo's that tried to talk to me last week either..which I get all the time but don't bother mentioning

I got rejected two times the week before that, both were interested but at the same time weren't interested if that makes sense. I can live with that, it's their loss.

 

[SynTheUnscathed]

Originally posted by backbreaker
I think I sell myself short alot on my looks.. I mean, I am in shape, pretty well built, but I guess becuase I see my face everyday I don't see anything special, but I get told all the time I am good looking.. even my old oneitis told me I was pretty good looking.

I would personally give myself an 7.5-8 on looks... if I can loose this last freakin 8-10 pounds of fat and maybe put on about 5-7 pounds of muscle, it will probably be a tad bit higher.

I'm not even thiking of getting married until I am at least 30.. and I make that known to every girl I date.. some accecpt it, some try to change me, some just don't like it.. either way I am doing what I want to do.

What people my age don't realize is, the older you get, the more you in control you are as far as ditating what you get out of the relationship.. no point in settling down when you can pretty much have your pick of the litter 10 years later... plus it's fun


Most my weeks aren't THAT good.. that's not including ugmo's that tried to talk to me last week either..which I get all the time but don't bother mentioning

I got rejected two times the week before that, both were interested but at the same time weren't interested if that makes sense. I can live with that, it's their loss.

What do you think is your strongest part of your game which attracts these hot girls?

 

[backbreaker]

well it helps I am shape and at the worst, accecptable in the looks department (I don't sell myself that short, but different people have different tastes)

in all honestly... I damn near have a 6th sense reading a person's mind... I'm very good at picking up at body langauge, voice tones... within a couple of mintues I can usually tell the person, what they are interested in, and I play to that.

For instance, the crazy hot chick I met last thursday wanted someone that didn't judge her for her past, which I can tell, was spotty at best.. which also tells me she is a little on the easy side and likes to have fun.

the girl that is here now that I picked up on the street down the street from my house (it's too bad outside to take her home, nor do I really want to if I could) likes MEN who know what they want. She doesn't like to beat around bushes or anything like that.


Other than that... If I really put my mind to it, I could probably be a pretty good comidian.. I'm pretty funny, when I am in a good mood, which is pretty much always, execpt for the first 30 mintues of the day, I crack alot of jokes. I had the girl over here crying laughing last night.

On a side note, my ex GF of a year, one of the things that made me actually date her over every other girl I knew, to this day, is the only girl I know that can actually make me laugh.


Really what it comes down to is you just have to know what you bring to the table and be sure of yourself. Everyone has flaws.. I'm not the tallest person in the world (5'8), my voice isn't very deep, not really high but not deep either.. I can go on but thoose are things I know and accecpt and I am fully comfortable with about myself.. I also know my strong points, and make sure I play to them.. I am pretty sure of myself, sometime to the point of arrogance, I can talk my way out of or into pretty much any situtation, I am relativly successful, and I have alot of ambition to follow my dreams.. thoose are usually things that stand out about me when I am talking to someone or when they get to know me

 

[SynTheUnscathed]

Originally posted by backbreaker
well it helps I am shape and at the worst, accecptable in the looks department (I don't sell myself that short, but different people have different tastes)

in all honestly... I damn near have a 6th sense reading a person's mind... I'm very good at picking up at body langauge, voice tones... within a couple of mintues I can usually tell the person, what they are interested in, and I play to that.

For instance, the crazy hot chick I met last thursday wanted someone that didn't judge her for her past, which I can tell, was spotty at best.. which also tells me she is a little on the easy side and likes to have fun.

the girl that is here now that I picked up on the street down the street from my house (it's too bad outside to take her home, nor do I really want to if I could) likes MEN who know what they want. She doesn't like to beat around bushes or anything like that.


Other than that... If I really put my mind to it, I could probably be a pretty good comidian.. I'm pretty funny, when I am in a good mood, which is pretty much always, execpt for the first 30 mintues of the day, I crack alot of jokes. I had the girl over here crying laughing last night.

On a side note, my ex GF of a year, one of the things that made me actually date her over every other girl I knew, to this day, is the only girl I know that can actually make me laugh.


Really what it comes down to is you just have to know what you bring to the table and be sure of yourself. Everyone has flaws.. I'm not the tallest person in the world (5'8), my voice isn't very deep, not really high but not deep either.. I can go on but thoose are things I know and accecpt and I am fully comfortable with about myself.. I also know my strong points, and make sure I play to them.. I am pretty sure of myself, sometime to the point of arrogance, I can talk my way out of or into pretty much any situtation, I am relativly successful, and I have alot of ambition to follow my dreams.. thoose are usually things that stand out about me when I am talking to someone or when they get to know me

Dang man...you seriously sound like my long lost twin brother...scary stuff.

I am pretty much exactly the same, except not finiancial successful I have like 10 dollars to my name which I am truly wanting to change this year. And I am a little soft from neglecting to work out.

Yeah, everything you said makes sense.

My two biggest problems would be getting over the fear of approach. Once I am in there, its usually good. Just the initiating that I have a hard time with.

Any tips there?

 

[backbreaker]

sorry for the delay, been busy.

With that said, people worry about the approach, when in reality, the approach is probably the easiest thing on earth.

Even my old oneitis, when I FIRST met her, I had absoutly no problem getting her number, I just said "hey, give me your number so we can kick it sometime", and this was when I was 16, and a complete AFC.

Girls want you to talk to them, they want you to take them, we just overcomplicate things.


It's maitaining interest for an extended period of time that can be difficult.

When you have a girl that you are breaking in, and she wants to play games with you... even though I know what she is doing, sometimes it's hard to give in to the temptation.

Just do it.. Just be yourself... as cliche as it sounds.. I don't try to be something I'm not and if she doesn't like it, tough ****.

One thing I ahve found though, if I can make a girl laugh, I'm in there.

I'm not even that damn big on kinoing when I first meet a girl, I'm pretty reserved in that regard.. not becuase I am scared of her, it's just that it's not in my element... now once things pick up, I don't mind a little here and there, depending on what's going on.

 

[backbreaker]

also, maintain your prorities.. that helps in the long run.. my dreams are more important than anything... my friends are next.. then women

My 2 best friends just poped up out of the blue today to watch the NBA all star slam dunk contest at my place, even though I had company, I not only made her sit there and watch it, I made her watch us play Tecmo Bowl (yes, the first one on nintendo) for about an hour.. I'm not changing what I do or who I am for anyowoman no matter how "bad" she is, and she had no problem whatsoever.. she better not have


First of all, the things you can change about yourself that you want to improve on, you need to.

I am to a point now where I really don't have to do cold approaches, because I am good at gauging a woman's interest from the get-go.. if I catch her sneeking glances, I might sneek one back or just go and start a converstaion, which isnt a cold approach because you know she is at least somewhat interested..a nd I don't really beat around the bush.. If I think she is attractive I will let it be known I find her attractive and I would like to get to know her better, so give me your number so I we can get together sometime.. of course I build some type of bond with her first, but you get the jist of what I am saying

 

[backbreaker]

One more funny note.. one of my goals was to get more friends.. I only really have 2. Now by putting myself out there, I have a couple more, probably 5-6 in all, not really close, but close enough to do **** with when I am board.

all of them are in LTR relationships or married.. all of the women look like complete pigs, and they all dispise me, telling their husband how I am wrong for seeing alot of women at the same time, yet I always catch them catching glances at me and one of them, the uglist of them all was flirting with me last weekend, even though she told her man I was "no good" and I am a bad influence on them.

They all suck up to their fat warpigs.. we were playing poker last weekend and we had a very small pot.. 10 dollar cash in, and one of their wifes said "no you can't play".. i said "see, that's what 's NOT going to happen to me, no woman isn't going to tell me what I can and can't spend the money I work hard to earn on".. and the room just got quiet and the women, 3 of them, just starred me down, like "please BB, don't show them the light" but it's true, I was just being honest... I'll be damned if a woman EVER tells me what i can and can't buy, assuming it's nothing outragous, but a 10 dollar buy in on a poker hand, when the guy works 50-60 hours a week, he can't enjoy a hand of poker?

My old two best friends are like me, or at least understand where I come from to the point where they don't give a damn... well one of them is exactly like me, execpt he talks on the phone more than a *****, the other tries to be like us but he still has bad AFC traits that are pretty ovbious

 

[SynTheUnscathed]

One more funny note.. one of my goals was to get more friends.. I only really have 2. Now by putting myself out there, I have a couple more, probably 5-6 in all, not really close, but close enough to do **** with when I am board.

all of them are in LTR relationships or married.. all of the women look like complete pigs, and they all dispise me, telling their husband how I am wrong for seeing alot of women at the same time, yet I always catch them catching glances at me and one of them, the uglist of them all was flirting with me last weekend, even though she told her man I was "no good" and I am a bad influence on them.

They all suck up to their fat warpigs.. we were playing poker last weekend and we had a very small pot.. 10 dollar cash in, and one of their wifes said "no you can't play".. i said "see, that's what 's NOT going to happen to me, no woman isn't going to tell me what I can and can't spend the money I work hard to earn on".. and the room just got quiet and the women, 3 of them, just starred me down, like "please BB, don't show them the light" but it's true, I was just being honest... I'll be damned if a woman EVER tells me what i can and can't buy, assuming it's nothing outragous, but a 10 dollar buy in on a poker hand, when the guy works 50-60 hours a week, he can't enjoy a hand of poker?

My old two best friends are like me, or at least understand where I come from to the point where they don't give a damn... well one of them is exactly like me, execpt he talks on the phone more than a *****, the other tries to be like us but he still has bad AFC traits that are pretty ovbious

Hmmm, I dig that man. I think once I get my body in the shape I want it in. I will be unstoppable. I am the type of personal that is very self conscious about my body. If something is off, it makes me uncomfortable and I think it s hows.

Anyways, keep up the posting man!

-Maxwell

 

[backbreaker]

IN all honestly, somethign I learned is that alot more women liked me when I was out of shape than I ever thought.. some women I know even resent the fact that I lost so much weight.

Over the last 3 weeks, I have come to the ulitmiate conclusion on looks.

There is no such thing as a 1-10 scale.

Here is what you have:

1) Fine as hell

2) ****able

3) Non ****able


It's that simple.

When it's all said and done, I would date a ****able girl if I liked her personality.. how ****able she is would have to very on how great her personlity is if that makes any sense.

For instance.. my last GF wasn't supermodel fine (although she was actually a model) but she was extremely ****able.. even though her mental aspect lacked in severel departments, I put up with her because she was so damn ****able, and liked to ****

I have met a girl that was ****able, not as ****able but still very ****able, but I loved her personality and her spunk.. so I ****ed her


When girls say looks don't matter.. they are using this scale. they don't use 1-10.

In other words, you do'nt have to be a 10 to **** women.. you have to be ****able. Here is the test.. if you can look at the girl in a public place, tell everyone you ****ed her and not get laughed at or ran out of the building, she is ****able.

Same with women.. and even when I was overweight, I was still ****able.. not AS ****able, but ****able nevertheless.

Even with the really super hot women.. attractive is attractive. In other words, if a ****able 24 year old walked in the room, not a model or anything but very ****able, and Brad Pitt, Denzel Washington and myself all looked at her, we would more than likelty all agree, this girl is ****able.. just becase they are famous doesn't mean they aren't men and their ****s don't get hard.

Same with women... if you are ****able you are ****able. You might not have money or the fame, but what it really comes to is most guys think that famous/hot women are better than they are becaus they are famous and hot.

 

[Last Man Standing]

So on my way to drop her off she asks me am I going to spend the night with her, I'm like "you damn right I'm spending the night".. I leave my wallet and money in the car just in case...

So she tells me she is off for the weekend including today, and asks do I mind if she spends some time with me if she stays out of my way.. I say sure why the freak not...

So she gets to my house, makes herself at home,

Now, the girl Is still over my house (it's sleeting outside, I said **** it, she didn't want to leave and I like her company, so she is probably here until sunday) has an automatic bid.

Danger...Danger! You make friends too quickly and easily. A word of advice to you kid - you are too trusting of sluts - stop it before your balls get handed to you - literally and figuratively speaking!!

 

[noneother]

yeah i agree, it sounds rather reckless. i wouldn't do it personally

 

[backbreaker]

neither of you are me.

I have a pretty good BS meter.

BTW, I've been seeing her ever sense, and things are going great for the most part..she's a tad bit clingy but other than that I can't complain

Isn't the entire point to **** women?

If I get a bad vibe from someone, I won't do it.. I usually don't.

I sincerarly doubt a woman who makes enough money to have her own house, a nice car and is not to far removed from grad school is looking to shake me down

Now if she would have had 2 kids, this ex who is "still trying to get with her" and is struggling financially.. I see your point

 

[Last Man Standing]

I'm just trying to caution you before your actions lead you to somewhere that you don't want to be...

The point is that You just met this slut two minutes ago and the amount of trust that you give her by allowing her into your private domain is not commensurate with your knowledge of her personal background and intentions. Do you trust a woman you met a few minutes ago the same as one you have known for years? I can see allowing someone to stay at your place who you know well - but a stranger??

Yes, men have sex with hors but you are not to have 72 hour receptions at your house when you just met her minutes ago.

Hors seem to be men's weakness and thus men are vulnerable to manipulation and control due to their overwhwlming lust for the physical (women know this and derive their power from this knowledge).

Never let a slut stay at your house - NEVER!!!!

Maybe you don't see it but this girl has psychological problems and deep rooted issues - her thinking is... "I need to have a man" and "I want to be desired" and "I don't want to be alone" -- any man that meets her acceptablility standards will suffuce.

It is not in the nature of women to be so trusting with stramge men and for this woman to go with you on a whim tells me something is wrong with her - she is Trouble (with a capital T)!!

Backbreaker, you seem to always view threats based on a woman's social and financial standing. Just because she has money and is attending school doesn't make her incapable of destroying your life.

All hors, whether poor or rich, intelligent or ignorant, are equally dangerous and untrustworthy!! Trust no hor!!!

Your carelessness and lack of sound judgment for the sake of a moment's pleasure will be your downfall.

I Didn't intend to rain on your parade but wanted to caution and advise you to know better the mind of hors -- they are troubled and not rational, regardless of their standing or status!

 

[backbreaker]

1.. I didn't let her at MY house the first night.. I spent the night at HER house. She came home with me the next day

Just because a girl gives it up on the first night, doesn't mean she is a slut.. we didn't even have sex the first night I spent the night, we were both tired and went to sleep, I just slept in her bed. Mind you, I have had my share from here since but hey.

Youc an't be a hyprocrite and say you want all these women, and then when you actually get the women, call them sluts or whatnot becuase you are succeeding.


after reading and seeing how offbase you are, I am not even going to proceed to respond to the rest of this post. Calling a girl you have never met a slut and a ***** (you spelt it wrong) and judging me by not knowing how capable I am of making good/responsable decisions.