FR: Approached the same girl a 2nd time on the bus.

[greenlake]

garyuranga- it doesnt really matter what u open. it more how u carry it. if u walk up to her like a creep then she will think ur a creep. but if u walk up to her with no expectation and be alpha then she will think u're her romeo.

i myelf have tried that before and even went up a few notch by telling her "u're cute, i want to know u." and i still get good results. just think of it. guys rarely go up to a girl and tell her "u're pretty". either he tell his friend to go tell her that or hide his intention by acting disinterest.

okay, what if she notice u walking around staring at her? well...go up to her anyway!!! instead of asking for direction, should just tell her how u feel and that u're nervous. she will aprreciate u for being real. trust me, a few blonde girls invite me into their conversation after i admit to them that i'm not realling asking for direction i just want to go up and say hi.

 

[oakraiderz2]

I didn't bash her, I was TRYING to be playful. And yeah I will get an attitude if someone trolls my topic with irrelavent stuff when I just want advice on my approaches. At the least he could send me a PM about it, except for spamming my topic with that stuff. You do not understand, I did not ask for help on my grammar nor did I want it. You want to help me out, give me some advice about the actual approach, not my grammar; if the grammar bothers you so much you refuse to read it, well first of all, you have problems and second of all, okay, you don't have to give advice, others will. I've typed the same way in several other topics and I've gotten advice. Even more, this is not a grammar topic, this is a topic about an approach. Therefore talking about grammar in a topic that is not about grammar would be labeled as being off-topic and could pass as spam or trolling. And there are several people on this site with worse grammar, so why don't you go spam their topics too?

Show me where i mentioned grammar...I said you should learn how to READ PEOPLE. Your attempt to be playful was horrible. Stop being so defensive and be a man.

 

[ElStud]

Yes, I know it was.

 

[Docs]

Even though he blocked the posts I post.

I can't read everyone's post. I skim the forum, I don't have the time to nitpick a 150 post thread, and repeat it 300 times thoughout the day.

 

[Brian McGee]

I'm thinking about approaching her again today, probably opening with a story. "Hey, I have to tell you this hilarious story. So a couple weeks ago me and my friends were at a track meet at [schoolname] and we saw this guy on this other team who looked just like Jesus. Seriously though, this dude had that long hair that you see in all those paintings of Jesus, and I swear this dude looked just like him. It was hilarious, everyone was yelling "Hey, it's Jesus!" and "Hallejuah" from the stands, me and my friends were cracking up".

That's not really that funny... :s

 

[ElStud]

That's not really that funny... :s

Correction, you don't think it's funny. Plus dude the story does not have to be funny, it's the way that you convey the story that matters. And the people that were there were laughing and I thought it was funny too, so obviously a lot of people found it funny. What are the chances of encountering a guy who looks just like Jesus? Yeah, I think it's pretty funny. Like I said, I just take stories from life experiences.

 

[Brian McGee]

it's the way that you convey the story that matters.

Yeah, and the way you just conveyed it was ordinary. Of course the story was funny to the people who were at the scene, but I very much doubt the girl would find it funny if you told it to her like that, it would make her force a laugh/smile and thus make her feel awkward.

 

[ElStud]

Yeah, and the way you just conveyed it was ordinary. Of course the story was funny to the people who were at the scene, but I very much doubt the girl would find it funny if you told it to her like that, it would make her force a laugh/smile and thus make her feel awkward.

Well you seem to have a lot experience with being funny, so what would be an example of a funny story?
And actually, I conveyed it with a funny tone.

 

[Brian McGee]

You mean you've already said it to her? Or you conveyed it to me in a funny tone?

I've always found it difficult to retell funny stories when the person you're talking to has no involvement in it whatsoever.

Her when she says: How's it going/what have you been doing? [provides an opening - DO NOT just approach someone and say hey listen to my story, that's comedy rule tip #1]
You say: Oh I'm fine, just reminiscing about the track meet where we saw Jesus.
Her: Haha what?
You: Some guy was walking around the track meet that looked EXACTLY like Jesus, people were following him around everywhere calling out Jesus this and Jesus that. Then, get this right, he actually walked on water. It was just a puddle, but still, that's Jesus for you.

That was pretty average too but still the main point was you wanted to approach with hey listen to my hilarious story.. don't fill it with expectation.

 

[ElStud]

Well someone actually told me opening with "Hey, how's it going?" as an opener would tell her from the first moment that you were an AFC, since any guy can ask that. And no I haven't said it yet, but if I did I would say it in a funny tone.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Well someone actually told me opening with "Hey, how's it going?" as an opener would tell her from the first moment that you were an AFC, since any guy can ask that. And no I haven't said it yet, but if I did I would say it in a funny tone.

Thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard.

 

[lovinladeisya56]

you losers ride the bus?a walks to remeber good momive?

 

[ElStud]

Thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard.

Well it was one of you guys who told me it... so....

 

[Lust]

Well it was one of you guys who told me it... so....

Opening with something like "Hey, hows it going?" will send her ***** shields up really quickly, especially if she is really hot. Younger girls less so, but the older they get, the more than can recognize guys having an ulterior motive and "Hey, hows it going?" is one of those switches that lets her know you want something from her.

Of course, you CAN open with that, but make sure you are really interesting throughout the rest of the set, but i wouldn't recommend it unless you have huge social proof.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Well it was one of you guys who told me it... so....

Where did i say that?Dont get mad at me because you dont know what youre doing.

 

[ElStud]

Where did i say that?Dont get mad at me because you dont know what youre doing.

Defensive much, I never said it was you. Anger management -- you should try it, because from what I see the only mad person here is you because you got super defensive when I wasn't even talking about you.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Defensive much, I never said it was you. Anger management -- you should try it, because from what I see the only mad person here is you because you got super defensive when I wasn't even talking about you.

Ah, i thought you said i told you, my bad. im not mad at all, not by any means.