FR: Approached a set at lunch.

[ElStud]

So I approached these girls that I already knew at lunch. This is how it basically went.

So I sat down at their table and eventually asked the girls what they did on their weekends, blah blah blah. So throughout the sets, the girls are interested, but it wasn’t really until later in the set that stuff actually happened. Throughout this set, I pretty much vibed with the whole group, but also did some single vibing on the Rebecca chick. Eventually the chicks start showing signs that they want me to leave, but as I plowed through that they became interested again. Later in the set, Rebecca does this Dracula laugh and I do the same laugh and she tells me it’s funny. Eventually, the chicks asks me to go and do the Dracula laugh at another table of girls and they start daring me and stuff so I do it. So yeah, that happens and eventually we’re talking about something and Ashley chick says “I agree” then in a British accent says “I concur”. Then we start talking in an English accent and she finds it funny. Then she asks me to show Rebecca and she laughs. Eventually the bell rings so I’m out. At one point, I was like “You girls are weird, but I still love you guys” and the girls laugh. At another point, Lindsey was apparently annoyed and was like “Let’s play the quiet game”, but I keep talking telling her I’m a social guy. At one point Rebecca says “I’m a stripper” and I say “But you’re such a nice girl how can you be a stripper” and she laughs and says “I’m not a stripper”.

 

[ElStud]

Need some feedback.

 

[Alkali]

1. Don't eventually do anything.

I believe there's a two second rule that people follow, be spontaneous.

You were a man on a mission. Act like one.

2. If they want you to leave, leave.

You don't need them, make sure they know it.

3. They had you wrapped around their finger.

If they tell you to do something, you shouldn't always do it.

Considering the vibe, you shouldn't have done it.

You were their monkey for entertainment.

4. Escalate things, baby!

She she was a stripper, ask her to strip for you!

Stick a dollar down her pants, whatever!

 

[Bvbidd]

Viper we already gave you feedback, you just reposted because you can't handle it.

 

[ElStud]

Viper we already gave you feedback, you just reposted because you can't handle it.

My man Bvbidd, continues with the bad advice. Alkali's post was actually good, but I disagree that you shouldn't leave just because they want you to. That's being reactive. If you leave cause you want to leave great, but leaving because they asked you to is bad.

 

[Bvbidd]

I disagree that you shouldn't leave just because they want you to. That's being reactive. If you leave cause you want to leave great, but leaving because they asked you to is bad.

Stalker logic.

 

[dav22]

My man Bvbidd, continues with the bad advice. Alkali's post was actually good, but I disagree that you shouldn't leave just because they want you to. That's being reactive. If you leave cause you want to leave great, but leaving because they asked you to is bad.

Dude, you're a joke.

So what if it's reactive? If they're not interested then you move on. By staying you're pretty much saying 'i've not got anyone else to talk to, even though it's clear you don't want me here'. Sure, it seems like you had a laugh after, although it seemed more like you were their performing monkey than a man on a pick up.

I still can't get my head around why you post UNSUCESSFUL approaches just to critique our advice, saying we're wrong.

Clearly your answers AREN'T right and you need to change your close-minded thinking. This 'approach' proves you've still not learnt any lessons. If you think i'm wrong can you please demonstrate what you think you did correctly in this FR.

 

[Real]

why are all your FR's in blue background quotes? are you taking them from another site or something? Also what kinda feedback do you want? you ignore everything (such as my wonderful advice on your other thread)

 

[ElStud]

Dude, you're a joke.

So what if it's reactive? If they're not interested then you move on. By staying you're pretty much saying 'i've not got anyone else to talk to, even though it's clear you don't want me here'. Sure, it seems like you had a laugh after, although it seemed more like you were their performing monkey than a man on a pick up.

I still can't get my head around why you post UNSUCESSFUL approaches just to critique our advice, saying we're wrong.

Clearly your answers AREN'T right and you need to change your close-minded thinking. This 'approach' proves you've still not learnt any lessons. If you think i'm wrong can you please demonstrate what you think you did correctly in this FR.

An unsuccessful approach must be when they're giving me tons of interest. And I need to demonstrate nothing to you.

Viper we already gave you feedback, you just reposted because you can't handle it.

So you somehow already gave me feedback on a new approach? Yeah, you are an idiot.

 

[robstar]

An unsuccessful approach must be when they're giving me tons of interest. And I need to demonstrate nothing to you.

Actually an unsuccessful approach is one that doesn't lead to a close.

 

[dav22]

An unsuccessful approach must be when they're giving me tons of interest. And I need to demonstrate nothing to you.

It's called being polite. If they were ACTUALLY interested they would indicate they want to talk to you in the future - eg. with a number close or arrange a meet up.