Found out something disturbing about my current GF

[backbreaker]

dude it's one thing to find out a woman say.. used dope back in the day.. okay.. everyone experiments

it's another to fund out she Tricked for a guy. that tells me alot about her personality

 

[englishman]

Correction backbreaker "Sold her body for drugs for some dude"

still sold her body for drugs

 

[Suicide]

It's really up too you...

What happened was in the past, it's obvious she had high compliance for her druggy bf back then to the point she was willing to sell her body for him.

The reason you feel this way is because you don't get the same validation you got before when you're fuking her. It's same with having a real great girl but you found out back in high school she did a porno gangbang.

IT WAS THE PAST. YOU DIDN"T KNOW HER AT THE TIME

This really makes me wonder how many dudes would get all tripped up if they seen an old picture of there current gf with a load on her face. They'd be crushed because the validation you used to get isn't as much because now you feel as if anyone can have her.

Really though you can't make things bother you. If you've been having a great time being with this chick for the months that you didn't know about this then stay. Don't leave her because of something she's done in the past.

You're totally missing the point. SHE IS ****ED UP IN THE HEAD. She always will be. It doesn't matter if it was the past or any of that bull****. She is damaged goods for life.

SHE WILL BE A TREMENDOUS PAIN IN THE ASS. At least we know there is some other dude like you to take this girl off of this poor guys hands.

And as for your porno gang bang example: CHICKS WHO MAKE PORNO GANG BANGS ARE ALSO ****ED UP.

 

[backbreaker]

let me put it this way. everyone has a "low point" what do you do when you get down on yourself and life..

some people eat.

some people work out to relieve stress

and some people trick for drugs.....

why are we even having this discussion?

 

[Obsidian]

get yourself checked for STDs

 

[Jariel]

get yourself checked for STDs

This is a point. I'd have instantly asked her when her last test was, then would go get myself checked as soon as possible.

Everyone has the right to choose their lifestyle and let's face it, with the popularity of porn these days, prostitution is just an accepted part of society. But people (men and women) need to be upfront about their sexual history and let their partner choose whether to take the risk.

If a person has a STD and is aware of it, I personally believe it should be a legal requirement that they tell any sexual partners about it before getting down to it. If they fail to do so and they transmit the disease, they should be accountable for it in court.

 

[comic_relief]

Eventually I learned! Nowadays, I refuse to take the burden of other people's mistakes and I steer clear of troublesome girls.

I think that we were all like that, but then we learned.

I learned personally about crazy women and to break up with them quickly now. I dated one for a year (formerly expelled from public school, ADD, OCD, bipolar, and actually admitted to a mental institution). Made my life a living hell, and now I won't put up with it.

I follow Desdinova's advice of try to find a girl without any baggage and your girl sounds like she has a lot.

Also, follow PRL's advice, "Say no to ho's" literally.

comic_relief

 

[comic_relief]

It's really up too you...

What happened was in the past, it's obvious she had high compliance for her druggy bf back then to the point she was willing to sell her body for him.

The reason you feel this way is because you don't get the same validation you got before when you're fuking her. It's same with having a real great girl but you found out back in high school she did a porno gangbang.

IT WAS THE PAST. YOU DIDN"T KNOW HER AT THE TIME

This really makes me wonder how many dudes would get all tripped up if they seen an old picture of there current gf with a load on her face. They'd be crushed because the validation you used to get isn't as much because now you feel as if anyone can have her.

Really though you can't make things bother you. If you've been having a great time being with this chick for the months that you didn't know about this then stay. Don't leave her because of something she's done in the past.

Just because you have a pinto and you pimp it out with all the kickass accessories, it doesn't change that it was a pinto.

Look at her character, she slept with over twenty guys to

Three reasons I would not date her.
Her character sucks.
She fell way to easily and quickly.
She would follow what the guy said as god given truth.

Run away, she sounds like she will be clingy. I think that you could do much better.

comic_relief

 

[senator]

You're young dude! There are plenty of relatively stable chicks out there. Hell, they're all little nuts in the first place...no need to get one that's even more crazy than the rest!

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Yes! For God's sake you ARE young. ENJOY your life. You don't need anybody else's problems. Life is hard enough as it is.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...Anyway i dont know wut to think about it. that's pretty messed. Major red flag there. I dont have any strong emotional attachments and i intend to keep it that way for now and see wut happens. that **** is just 2 messed.

The question is how it has impacted who she is today. It's way too easy to judge someone from their past. Hell, in a few years (if not sooner) people can judge your character by who you've dated in the past. Would that be fair?

 

[Max Power]

The question is how it has impacted who she is today. It's way too easy to judge someone from their past. Hell, in a few years (if not sooner) people can judge your character by who you've dated in the past. Would that be fair?

I'm pretty sure this is the same girl Fender talked about in these threads

Sluts that Don't Put Out

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=120411

So I Nailed a Chick in a Cemetary

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122595

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'm pretty sure this is the same girl Fender talked about in these threads

Sluts that Don't Put Out

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=120411

So I Nailed a Chick in a Cemetary

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122595

Well, if her behavior hasn't changed... Well, it makes it easier to make a decision...

 

[Obsidian]

If a person has a STD and is aware of it, I personally believe it should be a legal requirement that they tell any sexual partners about it before getting down to it. If they fail to do so and they transmit the disease, they should be accountable for it in court.

that's actually a pretty good idea, except it would be really hard to enforce

 

[Bible_Belt]

People are telling you to dump her because 'once a hor, always a hor,' which is true.

You can still have fun with her, but she is always going to go for a guy who treats her like a hor, because that is how she sees herself. It does not sound like you are treating her that way

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122595

it was her idea. i just went along...
it was kinda fun except i was tired as hell and was not able to get off. She was on top and did all the work. She is kinda kinky in that way and wants to do it again next week.

If you want a relationship with this girl, you need to treat her like a hor before she leaves you for someone else who does.

 

[VictorK]

MAJOR MAJOR RED FLAG...this is the stuff you see on Maury or Springer...dude get out of that mess ASAP!!

 

[Someone Much cooler]

there are 3 arguments goin on her.
1. stay and let the past be the past.
2. she will be a problem girl, flee and
3. see what happens.

You can stay, she will be emotionally scarred. You can leave, guarantee your safty, or you can jsut let things play out. Me having been in similar situations I would tell her that I was responsible for mass murder or something equally hard to accept. When she responded I would say that is exactly how i feel, sorry and dip the **** out, in this dog eat dog world you gotta protect numbero uno first.........

 

[Obsidian]

lol, nice

 

[Someone Much cooler]

a girl like that can ruin you, from puttin holes in a rubber to keep you, to tellin peeps @ your job she is preggors, to stalkin and damaging your car, to threatin your female kin, to cuttin her self, to cheatin for revenge or what ever, to drugs, to abuse of you, to hittin to callin the boys(slang for the cops) on you. I have a nice car I could never be in this situation cause if someone did anything to my 87 buick Grand National I would have to cut-em....just kiddin......not really.

Seriously use some for-site.

 

[Fenderules]

grand national eh? thats pretty sweet. Yeah i got a nice car as well..... a 1975 Lincoln Mark IV in awesome shape.


but yeah I already made some bc plans that includ her, its a road trip with like 6 people, 3 vechs. I'm driving and want to get out to BC.

thats in 10 days. After that im going to assess the situation. There are times when i like her, and there are times when i feel bored with her and want to dump her.

So far we have had no arguments, fighting or anything. We get along real well. A couple times i got way to wasted and she told helped me out and took care of me (even though she kinda fed me some of her booze). I

I just want to go on a good road trip and bring somebody that i can ****. After that i still think it would be best to bail on the situation before i get too emotionally attached. She's telling me she is in love with me (i dont believe it) and wants to go longer term.Im not bad yet but i know it could attached so i should look out for myself first.

anyway im just look'n forward to the road trip. worst comes to shove..and she knows if she tries something, im totally ****'n a coupel of her friends on the trip.

that seems like the best plan for now.

 

[Alpha1]

from my experience girls who have been raped, molested, abused, traumatized or have gone through a situation like yours did, have emotional/mental issues. odds are that even (ESPECIALLY) if they dont see the problems themselves, over time you will. anything from being psychotic, irrational to just generally being slutty and not realizing it. often times there is something BROKEN within the girl, figuratively speaking. and usually its not something that you could, or should, fix.

again, from MY experience. maybe you will have better luck than most of us did with the crazy ones...

-SLB

Good advice Strong, I know where you are coming from. I've been there.