found out g/f has a profile on the site bangme.net

[Shyguy2003]

This website is like hot or not except the name is cooler. Instead of being rated on a ten point scale, people click whether they would bang you or not. She lists she is in a commited relationship, but still....should I be concerned and how should I handle this? I feel like calling her over and showing it to her and having her explain herself before I tell her to not let the door hit her ass on the way out.

 

[Maxtro]

How did you find out?

Edit: Oh it's like hot or not. Whats the problem?

 

[Shyguy2003]

Well, for starters it reeks of attention *****, among other things, but I am not surprised to be honest.

How did I find out? You probably shouldn't enter personal information online these days, google is top notch.

 

[Rhoto]

Why are you concerned? She is probably using it to fill in something shes lacking, Feeling Sexually Appealing to you or just wanted.

How long have you been with her? And when did it stop being "new" ?

Maybe you should bang her more. Or better. Probably both.

Be careful, cause if something better comes along and you're not on A game, you're gonna be Hands Solo.

 

[Maxtro]

LOL if you tell her that you found her bangme.net profile by googeling her then you might have a problem. Thats too stalkerish it doesn't matter that she is your GF people have a right to their privacy.

If she's an attention whore so what? If she was saying that she was single or on a dating site then there would be more cause for alarm.

If you want to be real smooth about it. Make a profile there then say something like, "Hey I got a profile on a site bangme.net" gauge her reaction to that. Maybe she'll even tell you about her profile.

 

[BlahUgh]

That site is no different than hotornot or wouldyouhitthis. just a rating site, with some chatting/social stuff, it's not like a site made specifically to hook up with people.

 

[Shyguy2003]

Why are you concerned? She is probably using it to fill in something shes lacking, Feeling Sexually Appealing to you or just wanted.

How long have you been with her? And when did it stop being "new" ?

Maybe you should bang her more. Or better. Probably both.

Be careful, cause if something better comes along and you're not on A game, you're gonna be Hands Solo.

I'm not to worried if she "reject me" as I'll probably reject her before she does it. I have been with her for two years, but sometimes I don't see her for a couple of weeks because I travel on business. She is a good looking girl and the type that likes to go clubbing and partying every weekend and what not, so I am actually not surprised. I don't mind her doing those things, especially since she goes with her female friends, but this online **** kinda rubs me the wrong way.

 

[Shyguy2003]

LOL if you tell her that you found her bangme.net profile by googeling her then you might have a problem. Thats too stalkerish it doesn't matter that she is your GF people have a right to their privacy.

If she's an attention whore so what? If she was saying that she was single or on a dating site then there would be more cause for alarm.

If you want to be real smooth about it. Make a profile there then say something like, "Hey I got a profile on a site bangme.net" gauge her reaction to that. Maybe she'll even tell you about her profile.

I don't care if she thinks its stalkerish...She should be clever enough to not post her personal info online because it then BECOMES public...not just to me, but anyone. And I got to say, personally, it looks bad. I've discussed this with two co-workers of mine and asked what they would've thought if they were in my shoes, they all said they'd consider it sketchy and attention whorish.

I was considering getting a profile and telling her, but then I decided not to because that's just sinking to her level and playing games, so I've decided to just call her on it. If the situation was reversed, she'd be on my ass about how I am an *******, don't care about her, etc. etc. She doesn't have to be my g/f, I can easily get another one, I just chose to be with this one in particular because she's a pretty face with a smoking body to go with it, but I am not surprised by this because she makes it her goal to show off and make me jealous. Just she never brought this up to me.

 

[Shyguy2003]

That site is no different than hotornot or wouldyouhitthis. just a rating site, with some chatting/social stuff, it's not like a site made specifically to hook up with people.

Fair enough, but if that's the case, she could've just joined some rinky dink chat site. I find it funny she would chose the website I mentioned.

 

[flyingpanda505]

you're overreacting

 

[Shyguy2003]

you're overreacting

I don't think I am overreacting. It starts out with her "browsing" on a website like bangme.net -appropriately named- and before you know it she's sucking some guys **** she met off of it a few weeks later behind a bfi dumpster in some alleyway. That's not to say it has happened or will, it's that this is a validation thing most likely and that doesn't fly with me because I highly doubt she needs reinforcement guys find her attractive. It's that and you guys can't tell me if the situation was reversed, she wouldn't be on my case about this, hell I know she would!

One thing is for certain, when I was younger I always wanted a hot chick, now that I have one I realize what pain in the ass it is to keep one of these mother ****ers around. If it was only this, it'd be heaven, but it's always something and you have to constantly put up with their tests and jealousies...it becomes another job. There's more competition holding onto her then there was to pick her up! She's been doing this ever since I've been with her and up until now I've been patient and been the one who pays the bills, so I should get a little respect. I am going to talk to her and if I find the reason she gives me for having this thing up is weak, I am going to break up with her on the spot, I don't give a ****.

 

[strong like bull]

just to throw it out there... if you wanted to be concerned about something, id be concerned about her going out to clubs and partying with her (HORNY!) girlfriends while youre gone for weeks at a time.

i cant tell you how many "taken" or even married girls my friends have pulled out of the bars/clubs and railed cause their guys away for long periods or just not stickin it right.

but as always... what it really comes down to is that no matter what you say or do, she will cheat on you if she has the desire to. the ONLY thing a guy can do, is be the best possible man he can be - mainly for himself but also to his girl. and let her realize youre the best... and above all make sure you've picked a proper girl whos worth your monogamy.

-SLB

 

[n00bPimp]

At least shes not on a porn site!
I only have one question. Whats her rating?

 

[Shyguy2003]

just to throw it out there... if you wanted to be concerned about something, id be concerned about her going out to clubs and partying with her (HORNY!) girlfriends while youre gone for weeks at a time.

i cant tell you how many "taken" or even married girls my friends have pulled out of the bars/clubs and railed cause their guys away for long periods or just not stickin it right.

but as always... what it really comes down to is that no matter what you say or do, she will cheat on you if she has the desire to. the ONLY thing a guy can do, is be the best possible man he can be - mainly for himself but also to his girl. and let her realize youre the best... and above all make sure you've picked a proper girl whos worth your monogamy.

-SLB

Mr. Bull, I thank you for your reply and sound advice. I've been ****ing this girl since I graduated from college at 22, she was 17 at the time and had broken up with some punk rocker guy. I met her at a 21+ night club, she got in with her underage friends somehow, apparently that was a hobby of their's for a couple of years, but I digress.

I don't like her friends personally, infact I hate them. Her friends are vile looking and annoying to boot. I'm sure it's a two way street, meaning I am sure they influence her, but at the same time she influences them too, she's far from innocent.

I am not scared of her breaking up with me because it will be her loss. I treat her right and have always been there for her, so I won't be down on myself. I also don't intend on marrying her because of her personality. She is bareable most of the time but not for anything serious as marriage. It's mostly a matter of fine ass at the moment.

 

[Rhoto]

Start your own then.

 

[Shyguy2003]

At least shes not on a porn site!
I only have one question. Whats her rating?

Don't know, but I would say she'd be in the 7-9 range. It's not like hot or not where you get ratings, it's more discreet. When you see someone's pic/profile, it says something like "bang me: yes or no" and only the user knows who voted yes and who voted no

 

[Potbelly]

Post it here for me to examine. Only then can I give you a truly accurate master DJ analysis of the situation. Thank you.

 

[Shyguy2003]

Post it here for me to examine. Only then can I give you a truly accurate master DJ analysis of the situation. Thank you.

Not that I am opposed to doing that, but what does posting a pic of my girlfriend have to do with whether I should care or not she has a profile up?

 

[Rhoto]

You know it sounds like you're looking for an excuse to break up with her.

If so, just do it.

 

[Potbelly]

Not that I am opposed to doing that, but what does posting a pic of my girlfriend have to do with whether I should care or not she has a profile up?

It's a joke man. It has absolutely nothing to do with anything.