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First off, I'm 5'11, 127 lbs. Pretty friggin' lightweight.

I was being picked on today in History. My top 4 friends in that class of 16 all were pissing me off. I was told to STFU by these guys that usually are my boys when they were trying to watch a movie to answer questions. So I shut up. Then they start talking, and I tell them to STFU. Then I make a joke, and this hoe tells me across the room to STFU. So I just stared at her with a pretty pissed face. Then she makes the crybaby face to make fun of me. If she wasn't a girl, I'd have ****ed her up right there. Usually that girl is nice to me, and sucks my **** but she's got pissy lately at me. Anyway, my bros then proceed to start quietly say so only I can hear "I hear that kid Nobody sucks ****." "Yeah, he's sucked off the football team." So I'm pretty pissed. Then one of "boys" proceeds to use a pen to flick my ear. I totally spazed out, and didn't even think about it I just did it. I push this kid's desk into the wall and grabbed him but didn't hit him. Just threatened the **** out of him. My heart was pounding, I could feel the adrenaline and testerone flowing throughout my body. I scared the **** out of him. He then started "laughing", and 2 minutes later apologized and said "You probably had a bad day... sorry" then offered to give me answers to the movie. He was sucking the **** up to me. But I was so pissed, that I told him don't talk to me.

Good thing is that it was a substitute, and for whatever reason the sub did nothing.

Did I do the right thing? You think I'll be disrespected anymore? I don't want to do it anymore, but yo, I actually enjoy this feeling. I don't give a **** what people think anymore. I'm ready to fight even if people are bigger than me.
 

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Remember, men and women respect power. Sure the BEST thing you could've done was tear the guys down with wit (that would've won more respect because you'd be turning the tables and making others laugh at them) but this route is still second best.

Making people laugh is the best way to get people to like you. Displays of power get people to respect you.

Personally, I would've gone with wit. But if you're not quick on your feet thinking and not that funny, then this was probably the best thing you could do, rather than sitting there like a puzzy.

Lucky for you, the sub didn't do anything. What an idiot. You're really lucky, but it would've been worth it (IMO) even if you had got in trouble.
 

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Obvious answer is to weightlift. I'm a freshman, 15, 5'11, and 120-125 pounds. A regular monday-wednesday-friday lift schedule is doing me a lot of good. Football can be a b*tch sometimes but you gotta love the advantages.

And yeah, a 5'11 125 lb kid can play football when the school is as tiny as mine.
 

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wow dude start eating more, that's really light.

it really depends on how people already look at you. but at least you showed that you weren't a push over.

anyways, it's really hard to make up witty comments when you're in a situation like that
 

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Kev07 said:
anyways, it's really hard to make up witty comments when you're in a situation like that
Not really hard, not easy though. But the way most guys dress; they look like douchebags. It's pretty easy to make fun of their fashion sense or hairstyles, fake tans, popped collars, etc.
 

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I think you should learn to control your anger. If you don't control your anger, your anger will control you. When you are angry, rage clouds all logical thought , and obviously, that makes it harder for you to think of witty things to come up with ;)

Anyway, if you don't care what anyone thinks, why'd you go ballistic at them?
 

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The Shocker said:
Not really hard, not easy though. But the way most guys dress; they look like douchebags. It's pretty easy to make fun of their fashion sense or hairstyles, fake tans, popped collars, etc.
I go to Catholic school. The only thing people make fun of me for is my nasly voice and my weight. Hair is spiked.
 

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bigw said:
I think you should learn to control your anger. If you don't control your anger, your anger will control you. When you are angry, rage clouds all logical thought , and obviously, that makes it harder for you to think of witty things to come up with ;)

Anyway, if you don't care what anyone thinks, why'd you go ballistic at them?
Learn to control my anger? Trust me, I've done that plenty before. I usually never get pissed, but I think if word gets around, I've gained a little bit of respect and people will think twice about annoying me as much as those guys did.

I do regret what I did, but I really don't think there was another way to handle it. I'm not quick with my wit if people are pissing me off, and they were pushing it further than anyone has done to me in years. It was time to put my foot down.
 

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Well I can see your point of view, and although it may not have been the BEST way to go about it, if it works out, good job :)
 

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when i play keeper for my soccer team i always hack this one guy pretty hard. well he ALWAYS wants to start a fight. hes a year younger then me but has about 30 pounds on me. well, last game he grabbed my penny(those mesh jersey things) and ripped it, i pushed him, he pushed me and then i was about to hit him but i didnt. i just kept my cool and mad fun ofd him a little. i just acted like a retard and messed with him and he walked away. see, no violence, and i won
 

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Nobody said:
First off, I'm 5'11, 127 lbs. Pretty friggin' lightweight.

I was being picked on today in History. My top 4 friends in that class of 16 all were pissing me off. I was told to STFU by these guys that usually are my boys when they were trying to watch a movie to answer questions. So I shut up. Then they start talking, and I tell them to STFU. Then I make a joke, and this hoe tells me across the room to STFU. So I just stared at her with a pretty pissed face. Then she makes the crybaby face to make fun of me. If she wasn't a girl, I'd have ****ed her up right there. Usually that girl is nice to me, and sucks my **** but she's got pissy lately at me. Anyway, my bros then proceed to start quietly say so only I can hear "I hear that kid Nobody sucks ****." "Yeah, he's sucked off the football team." So I'm pretty pissed. Then one of "boys" proceeds to use a pen to flick my ear. I totally spazed out, and didn't even think about it I just did it. I push this kid's desk into the wall and grabbed him but didn't hit him. Just threatened the **** out of him. My heart was pounding, I could feel the adrenaline and testerone flowing throughout my body. I scared the **** out of him. He then started "laughing", and 2 minutes later apologized and said "You probably had a bad day... sorry" then offered to give me answers to the movie. He was sucking the **** up to me. But I was so pissed, that I told him don't talk to me.

Good thing is that it was a substitute, and for whatever reason the sub did nothing.

Did I do the right thing? You think I'll be disrespected anymore? I don't want to do it anymore, but yo, I actually enjoy this feeling. I don't give a **** what people think anymore. I'm ready to fight even if people are bigger than me.
My mates and i piss around all the time, and they used to get too far and keep pushing to see how lucky they got.

Used to.

Get pissed.

I mean, really pissed, raise your voice, hit something, break something, scare the sh!ts out of them, let them know you have had enough, game over.
 
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