Forgetting your crush

[Huffman]

So you've had a crush on that girl. Perhaps she is your ex, perhaps you shared some precious moments, perhaps she dumped you, whatever.

You know all that "value" stuff, but somehow, everytime you see her beautiful face, everytime you hear her sweet laugh, you feel a sting in your heart.

Why? Because she is having fun, and you are not, simple as that. You are jealous of the fun she is having! You are jealous of her energy! You have unwillingly given all your power, energy, and value away, and now you are jealous!

Take that fun back! See to it that YOUR energy level surpasses hers! Get a hold on yourself and crack that HUGE smile. Tomorrow, you WILL WALK AROUND WITH THAT SMILE ALL DAY! Even if you have to pretend in the beginning. Get out of your shell again.

In no time, you'll be BEAMING.
You're back in the field.
And all of a sudden, she doesn't matter anymore.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Man this is short , simple but GREAT post (even through its hard to achieve for most guys here).

This guy deserves some fvcking reps .

 

[Mavrick]

The way I look at a situation like this is that I'm letting her take away my happiness. I was happy before she came around, and then I heard her laugh around the corner or she was smiling while joking around with her friends. If I became jealous or unhappy, I just let her take away my happiness, and nobody takes that away from me. Nobody!

I shouldn't let 'em anyway. That's mine.

 

[Desert Fox]

pete how are they special? different, yes. special? that's barney sh1t

 

[j0n024]

....I remember when I would have a crush on a girl....zaira, ohh man she was my definition of perfect! I was so in love with her for like 2 years and this is when I was an AFC but she DID know I liked her and I DID ask her to go eat some ice cream with me...but she was playing me. I later find out she got with this fat dark ugly guy...and thought to myself...damn I look better then that guy!

I think back then and it's always fun to think about your old crushes and laugh at how pathetic you acted just for some girl...I actually like to think back on my crushes now and then and laugh at how I use to think about them every single second of every single day.....but now I can barely remember there faces.

 

[SmoothTalker]

Lol isn't that the truth j0n024.

I had a massive crush on a girl from school that stretched from grade 8 to grade 11, 4 damn years man. Then I started taking an interest in other girls, got a girlfriend, and got totally over her without even trying.

Now she's mess, dropped out of college, works as a waitress, put on some weight, never followed through with her ambitions (acting/modeling), etc. And it shocks me that I use to care so much for so long.

That jealousy thing is so true also.

 

[john paul]

Sh!t thats true for me right now and im even with the girl.

It bothers me that shes out on some nights having fun with her friends and staying busy without needing me.

I have to say though its for the best, it keeps me from staying home some nights and forcing me to go out with my friends when i would rather stay home and be anti-social.

I just hate how she has such a strong ambition sometimes.


Good post