Hey guys, if you a virgin you will understand this post a bit better, so read on.
I used to be a firm believer in "True love". I used to say to myself "No kissing till i fall in love". Then one night i french kissed a girl who i just...simply... Liked! After that came the "I will not have sex with a girl i dont love!". For the longest time i was passing up opportunities becuase i felt the girls were not "PERFECT" for me. I passed up a threesome, and a couple of more opportunities just becuase i felt i needed to look for that special girl.
At 19, and not going farther than a kiss, i was wondering "when will this perfect girl come along?" for some strange reason all the guys think this perfect girl, when she finally comes will suddenly falls in love with them! But what if she doesnt feel attracted?! what are you going to do then? Suicide is the dumbest thing in the world.
And so one night, after getting quite drunk i called a girl i knew, who had a nice body and a decent face but i didnt really feel anything for her. I called her up, the alcohol was kicking in, and i left the party with her and took her to my place.
I was laying on the bed, with her on top of me, as the thoughts were racing through my head : "Do i really want to have sex now and give up the perfect girl that might come? What am i waiting for? Is this the right thing?".
The girl looked at me and asked "What is stopping you?"... and at that moment of clearty i asked myself "Really, what is stopping me? Why am i afraid of going farther?" .
I took her shirt of, revelaing her beautiful breasts... and that was the moment i made my decision......
Listen fellas... life is really too short, remember when you were 12 and thinking "wow, 18 is so far away, i will be all grown up!" . Well now i am 19 and thinking "wow, 21 is so old, what in the world happened to the time!?"
I strongly recommend you stop looking for perfection, look for something you are happy with AT THE MOMENT! But know your own value. If a girl raises too many red flags, drop her. I dropped my first and i believe i made the right choice.
Remember, just becuase you have sex it doesnt mean you have to marry her or be her boyfriend!
Experimentation is a great thing, sex is a great thing, find someone you are connectng with, have fun and let that be an ADDITION to your life, instead of blindly believing that finding this perfect girl will fix all your problems.
Virgins tend to believe that this girl will be the light of his life. They build it up so much that when they get rejected it hurts beyond belief.
Please, dont hurt yourself, and enjoy all you can while you can.
Peace- Ox.
I used to be a firm believer in "True love". I used to say to myself "No kissing till i fall in love". Then one night i french kissed a girl who i just...simply... Liked! After that came the "I will not have sex with a girl i dont love!". For the longest time i was passing up opportunities becuase i felt the girls were not "PERFECT" for me. I passed up a threesome, and a couple of more opportunities just becuase i felt i needed to look for that special girl.
At 19, and not going farther than a kiss, i was wondering "when will this perfect girl come along?" for some strange reason all the guys think this perfect girl, when she finally comes will suddenly falls in love with them! But what if she doesnt feel attracted?! what are you going to do then? Suicide is the dumbest thing in the world.
And so one night, after getting quite drunk i called a girl i knew, who had a nice body and a decent face but i didnt really feel anything for her. I called her up, the alcohol was kicking in, and i left the party with her and took her to my place.
I was laying on the bed, with her on top of me, as the thoughts were racing through my head : "Do i really want to have sex now and give up the perfect girl that might come? What am i waiting for? Is this the right thing?".
The girl looked at me and asked "What is stopping you?"... and at that moment of clearty i asked myself "Really, what is stopping me? Why am i afraid of going farther?" .
I took her shirt of, revelaing her beautiful breasts... and that was the moment i made my decision......
Listen fellas... life is really too short, remember when you were 12 and thinking "wow, 18 is so far away, i will be all grown up!" . Well now i am 19 and thinking "wow, 21 is so old, what in the world happened to the time!?"
I strongly recommend you stop looking for perfection, look for something you are happy with AT THE MOMENT! But know your own value. If a girl raises too many red flags, drop her. I dropped my first and i believe i made the right choice.
Remember, just becuase you have sex it doesnt mean you have to marry her or be her boyfriend!
Experimentation is a great thing, sex is a great thing, find someone you are connectng with, have fun and let that be an ADDITION to your life, instead of blindly believing that finding this perfect girl will fix all your problems.
Virgins tend to believe that this girl will be the light of his life. They build it up so much that when they get rejected it hurts beyond belief.
Please, dont hurt yourself, and enjoy all you can while you can.
Peace- Ox.