Its really easy to go in a women-hating frenzy. I have done it myself. I would act cold and indifferent towards them. I would moan about how fycked up our society was (read my previous posts) I became aloof and arrogant. I was putting my ego up in hopes that people (and women) would respect me.
But it left me no better than it did before.
Bitterness is not going to attract anyone. I realize that it takes more balls and maniless to accept women and their behaviors. I am not saying let them step all over you. But whenever they do their little tests, like not returning phone calls, acting flakey, etc...we should not just give up and say "NEXT!" and be pissed off at how flakey they are. We need to understand that women are also emotionally insecure as well. They may have hordes of guys attracted to her, but all that does is inflate her ego. It does not provide her with any security, whatsoever.
In fact, it makes her even more insecure because she is constantly put on a pedestal by all these guys she knows. She has to deal with creepy older guys, immature guys that act like jerkoffs to her just b/c they assume she is one as well, and guys that try to ignore her in hopes that she will come to them.
She very rarely ever gets to meet a true "DJ." A guy who literally sweeps her off her feet. A guy who is sincere with a backbone. He makes her feel like gold every time she is around him, without going overboard. He shows a genuine interest in her, but does not mask it by acting like a jerk or a pushover.
my advise is, deal with flakey behavior. she uses it to weed out all the sex-starved guys who only care about fycking her. Show her that you are interested in her as a person, and when she begins to trusts you, smoothly transistion to the close.
There is much truth in that saying "the key to a woman's pants, is her heart"
But it left me no better than it did before.
Bitterness is not going to attract anyone. I realize that it takes more balls and maniless to accept women and their behaviors. I am not saying let them step all over you. But whenever they do their little tests, like not returning phone calls, acting flakey, etc...we should not just give up and say "NEXT!" and be pissed off at how flakey they are. We need to understand that women are also emotionally insecure as well. They may have hordes of guys attracted to her, but all that does is inflate her ego. It does not provide her with any security, whatsoever.
In fact, it makes her even more insecure because she is constantly put on a pedestal by all these guys she knows. She has to deal with creepy older guys, immature guys that act like jerkoffs to her just b/c they assume she is one as well, and guys that try to ignore her in hopes that she will come to them.
She very rarely ever gets to meet a true "DJ." A guy who literally sweeps her off her feet. A guy who is sincere with a backbone. He makes her feel like gold every time she is around him, without going overboard. He shows a genuine interest in her, but does not mask it by acting like a jerk or a pushover.
my advise is, deal with flakey behavior. she uses it to weed out all the sex-starved guys who only care about fycking her. Show her that you are interested in her as a person, and when she begins to trusts you, smoothly transistion to the close.
There is much truth in that saying "the key to a woman's pants, is her heart"
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