I believe it's more of a lack of self control, kind of like people who eat or drink too much. They believe that excess is the only way to become satisfied. They want their cake (along with everyone else's) and to eat it too.nonchalant said:
I agree with u on that, but isnt it more of an urge than "wanting to" ?Francisco d'Anconia said:
persiangino said:
The only "good" ones out there are the ones who slob my knob and most of them have borefriends(which I'm very thankful for btw). You are not qualified to speculate for the rest and where they may stand on your (mis)conception of "good" and "bad". Do you have 24hr surveillance on 100 or more HB's to back this outrageous claim up?DJinTraining06 said:
Here's something to consider, people who have urges are usually people who have (or choose to have) little control over themselves, the urge controls them. Those who "want to" choose to realize that they have a choice between doing it or not, they may be torn between the two.DJinTraining06 said:
So what you're saying is, your personal experience trumps anyone else's?( . )( . ) said:
Hey out of curiosity, why are you always criticising "bad" women, when you're not exactly a decent person? It just doesn't make sense to me.( . )( . ) said:
exactly, im just bringing up the point that with most guys its not that they want to cheat on their gf. They may like or love their gf very much, but its just an urge or desire combined with lack of self control that makes them cheat. Women cheat cuz they are unhappy in their realtionship, men cheat cuz their horny. For the most part at least. Like u said, i myself would be torn, but i would have the self control to not cheat even though i'd be horny and want to. Chris Rock says a man is only as faithful as his options. I think that's bs, thats just for comedic purposes and people should not listen to that crap. I have self control and i dont want to cheat on my gf. If i thought i wouldnt get caught, hell id really be torn about it, but i think id still choose not to cheat. Least i hope i could control myself. Hopefully my options arent too hot.Francisco d'Anconia said:
No I'm saying this lame trend here of putting chicks into "good" or "bad" categories is ridiculous.Fred Da Head said:
Thats not "my thing", its just how it is. 5+ chicks will have boyfriends in one form or another.Fred Da Head said:
I would like to add that, although I said I would not and explained why, and I stand up to that, I have no doubt that a chick would do it to me if conditions arised.( . )( . ) said:
Lol, too true.( . )( . ) said:
I already said what I would do, but there is no point in thinking that everyone will do the same as I do and have the same values that I do. Also, I am definitely against doing major tricks to get a woman with a BF. Not really a good/bad thing, just a personal rule of thumb -- it's too much effort, especially cause there is plenty of single women around here. But if she is way too eager and I am not doing that much effort I would not refuse, unless I personally know the guy (and it does not need to be my BEST friend, just knowing him a little is enough).( . )( . ) said:
It's not a matter of you and me putting labels on her or anything. It's just that she can. If the beta gets all nervous that he's being played she has another one fast as she can.( . )( . ) said:
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Exactly. How is it cheating if there's no commitment (stated or implied) of fidelity? The problem is that guys "date" every woman who shows interest in them. I don't know if the only way that they can get what they want is to imply that they are an item or what. Too much energy to expend to play a game that you are creating yourself. It's much easier to just date the one that you don't want to cheat on.DJDamage said:
Well i guess im just lucky then. Mine doesnt cheat, theres no pissible way, i see her 3 or 4 times a week lately and she works fulltime and goes to school, its not even possible.( . )( . ) said:
So you attract wh0res. Good for you. That doesn't mean every female on the planet cheats in a committed relationship. You're pretty dense to think that the women you personally interact with represent the entire female population. Then again, this certainly isn't the first time you've come off as dense.( . )( . ) said:
Somebody is going to snatch that up for a signature tag line...Master Bates said:
