For the guys who are good at texting.

[Shootin4Dreams]

she wont reply to my text tonight for going out what is best way to get her to respond?

Like to check out the main st. Ill be headin out later tonight. You ever hang at Big Daddys? I hope you dont look as good as that or ill pretend i dont know you lol.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

She's giving you too much resistance? Next.

This girl already not responding, she's giving you a loud silence - what else do you need as a sign that she doesn't want to talk/meet?

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

ok we were texting yesterday so obviously something going wrong. I didnt send a good text today or something how do I get her to reply?

 

[Glassguy]

She either thinks she found a better option (and never take that personally) or she thinks you came across as needy. You gave her a compliment (I wouldn't have) and you covered 3 things in one text. Shorter, direct texts always work better for me.

"I'm heading out to Big Daddy's on Main. If you're out maybe we can meet up later."

Do not respond and leave it in her hands. Find another plate to spin.

 

[Shootin4Dreams]

Alright well how do you engage the girl in text next week though. Ill text her monday what do I send?

I dont know how to re engage her and start a new convo I got to start fresh now.

 

[Glassguy]

Serious question: why are you so desperate that you would text her back AT ALL? She never responded.....she blew you off. Why would you text her again and ask for that treatment again? If she doesn't initiate it, she would only be texting you back out of feeling sorry for you or just to be "nice".

Do not text her. The ball is in her court but you are being way too submissive with her. Find someone else. If she comes back around act half busy.

 

[Reykhel]

she wont reply to my text tonight for going out what is best way to get her to respond?

Like to check out the main st. Ill be headin out later tonight. You ever hang at Big Daddys? I hope you dont look as good as that or ill pretend i dont know you lol.

What's the context? Is this someone of the net that you haven't met yet or what?

I don't understand your text "I hope you don't look as good as that or I'll pretend I don't know you lol"

WTF is that all about? You sound like you're over complimenting her AND PLACING HER ON A PEDESTAL

She probably changed her mind because it was the text of a little boy...

How many times have you listened to or watched PIMP?

 

[marmel75]

she wont reply to my text tonight for going out what is best way to get her to respond?

Like to check out the main st. Ill be headin out later tonight. You ever hang at Big Daddys? I hope you dont look as good as that or ill pretend i dont know you lol.

Dude, how desperate are you?

Find someone else to go out with.

 

[Atom Smasher]

1) Your text really doesn't make sense.
2) Women like to be ordered to do things by a strong man. You should tell them you are doing "X". Meet me there at 8:00, or "I'd like you to meet me there ate 8:00".

It is VERY hard for a women to resist a man who talks like that.

 

[Arcturus]

If you want advice for what to do in the same situation with a different girl. The issues you need to work on occurred the last time you talked to her in text.

If you want advice with this girl. Do NOT text her again until she replies. If 1-2 weeks have passed, you try once more with something to catch her curiosity. "Won some awesome tickets, curious if it's your kind of thing, hit me up when you're around." If you still don't get a response, you have to move on.

 

[Juanto]

question for the DJ´s here: had a good 2nd date last thursday night where I escalated and made out for some time. I havent texted her yet since then and neither has she to me. Have I waited too long to text her again and setup the next date, or tomorrow is OK to do it?

 

[jebach123]

Sell a phone. Buy a gym membership. Now.

 

[Filter]

question for the DJ´s here: had a good 2nd date last thursday night where I escalated and made out for some time. I havent texted her yet since then and neither has she to me. Have I waited too long to text her again and setup the next date, or tomorrow is OK to do it?

I've never had an interested women not text me after a good date.

I'd say you could shoot her a text, either now or in a few days.

The underlying issue in this thread is that YOU GUYS ARE NOT BUSY AND HAVE TOO MUCH FREE TIME.

You are wondering when you can text these women to get responses... whereas your LIFE, not just your mentality, should dictate when you have free time to see these women and then you text accordingly.

 

[Juanto]

I've never had an interested women not text me after a good date.

I'd say you could shoot her a text, either now or in a few days.

The underlying issue in this thread is that YOU GUYS ARE NOT BUSY AND HAVE TOO MUCH FREE TIME.

You are wondering when you can text these women to get responses... whereas your LIFE, not just your mentality, should dictate when you have free time to see these women and then you text accordingly.

Thanks Filter. I guess I will only know better her interest level after asking her out for another date