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Master Don Juan
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For Love or Money? Need advice.
First, thanks to SoSuave.net I’ve made some major changes in my life. After dealing with a devastating divorce in which my wife may or may not have cheated on me and made me feel worthless via sexless marriage, I have completely rebuilt myself thanks to the people here and I’m kicking a ton of ass in life.
I have gotten promoted, gained 15 lbs of muscle, have random women now making eye contact with me at bars, and generally living it up.
I gamed about 5 different women, pulled several kiss closes, and dropped all of them at the first sign of flakiness. What I have found is that when you drop a woman who flakes, they flip OUT and wonder why you are not kissing their ass and behaving like a modern AFC pvssy and chasing them. I don’t return their texts at all…and they HATE and love me for it. One girl even b!tched about me to a person who knows me and called me “a total womanizer”. I LOVE IT.
I just landed a new beautiful woman. Hotter than my ex-wife by a good margin. She’s 4 years older than me, is a manager at Fortune 500 company, never married, no kids. She is a major catch. I gamed her hard. Didn’t return texts, never called her, told her from the outset that I wear the pants and I do not take sh!t from anyone, kino’d her heavy, and screwed her on our third date.
After our fourth date, she layed in bed with me and stared at my body and face and called me a “beautiful man, inside and out” and “by far, the most attractive and intelligent man she has ever dated”, and “too good to be true”. She is hooked. We meet twice a week, I cook her dinner, and I blow her doors off with an hour of sex. She has bragged about me to all of her friends, and has invited me to stay a weekend at a rental mansion with her and her friends for a weekend in November. In addition, my job just gave me a four day vacation to a Florida resort in December and I’m allowed one guest – I’m thinking about bringing her. I cannot make this stuff up. Life is really coming together.
As luck would have it, I have just landed an interview with a large company that will pay me a substantial amount of money. Huge bonuses, yearly pay increases.
My former AFC ways have crept in. I am limiting communication with the girl in order to not get too emotionally involved and screw it all up. I have an opportunity to leave and move 2 hours away from her and build my career.
My gold digging ex-wife (who I don’t owe a dime to as we didn’t have kids) always complained that I didn’t make enough money. So she went off and started screwing an Associate Vice President of one of the divisions of the company she works for before our divorce was finalized. I took it personally, which was pretty AFC, but it forced me to make changes and I have upped my status in my career, and now I’m more attractive to employers (and women) because they all know my position of power.
But I’m becoming a pansy. I have fallen for this girl and I’m getting very AFC when she is not around. I’m going nuts. She is great. But I need some opinions and for some people to knock some sense into me.
This is one of those for love or money situations. I know I shouldn’t rely on a woman for my happiness – but I’m struggling with the fact that either decision is going to sting.
1. Stay with the beautiful who worships me and make less money at a good job?
2. Leave the beautiful woman and make a ton of money at great job?
Thanks.
First, thanks to SoSuave.net I’ve made some major changes in my life. After dealing with a devastating divorce in which my wife may or may not have cheated on me and made me feel worthless via sexless marriage, I have completely rebuilt myself thanks to the people here and I’m kicking a ton of ass in life.
I have gotten promoted, gained 15 lbs of muscle, have random women now making eye contact with me at bars, and generally living it up.
I gamed about 5 different women, pulled several kiss closes, and dropped all of them at the first sign of flakiness. What I have found is that when you drop a woman who flakes, they flip OUT and wonder why you are not kissing their ass and behaving like a modern AFC pvssy and chasing them. I don’t return their texts at all…and they HATE and love me for it. One girl even b!tched about me to a person who knows me and called me “a total womanizer”. I LOVE IT.
I just landed a new beautiful woman. Hotter than my ex-wife by a good margin. She’s 4 years older than me, is a manager at Fortune 500 company, never married, no kids. She is a major catch. I gamed her hard. Didn’t return texts, never called her, told her from the outset that I wear the pants and I do not take sh!t from anyone, kino’d her heavy, and screwed her on our third date.
After our fourth date, she layed in bed with me and stared at my body and face and called me a “beautiful man, inside and out” and “by far, the most attractive and intelligent man she has ever dated”, and “too good to be true”. She is hooked. We meet twice a week, I cook her dinner, and I blow her doors off with an hour of sex. She has bragged about me to all of her friends, and has invited me to stay a weekend at a rental mansion with her and her friends for a weekend in November. In addition, my job just gave me a four day vacation to a Florida resort in December and I’m allowed one guest – I’m thinking about bringing her. I cannot make this stuff up. Life is really coming together.
As luck would have it, I have just landed an interview with a large company that will pay me a substantial amount of money. Huge bonuses, yearly pay increases.
My former AFC ways have crept in. I am limiting communication with the girl in order to not get too emotionally involved and screw it all up. I have an opportunity to leave and move 2 hours away from her and build my career.
My gold digging ex-wife (who I don’t owe a dime to as we didn’t have kids) always complained that I didn’t make enough money. So she went off and started screwing an Associate Vice President of one of the divisions of the company she works for before our divorce was finalized. I took it personally, which was pretty AFC, but it forced me to make changes and I have upped my status in my career, and now I’m more attractive to employers (and women) because they all know my position of power.
But I’m becoming a pansy. I have fallen for this girl and I’m getting very AFC when she is not around. I’m going nuts. She is great. But I need some opinions and for some people to knock some sense into me.
This is one of those for love or money situations. I know I shouldn’t rely on a woman for my happiness – but I’m struggling with the fact that either decision is going to sting.
1. Stay with the beautiful who worships me and make less money at a good job?
2. Leave the beautiful woman and make a ton of money at great job?
Thanks.
