how long do you do it for at a given time? and on average how many days a week? i just want to know if im normal because i use to look at porn for about an avg of 1.5 hrs a day for prob 3-4 days a week. sometimes on rare occasions my sessions lasted 4 hrs. i havent looked at porn for a while now(like 115 days) b/c i quit b/c i thought i was addicted. does that qualify as addicted? im not ever successful with women and im really itching to watch porn again. help
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Actually yes there is a good chance you are/were addicted. You might want to ask yourself if you feel good watching porn (seriously) or if you feel it is rather a waste of time? Do you have an empty feeling after hours of watching porn? Do you feel that you would rather like to do others things with your time but just can't seem to stop, saying you'll do this and that later? Do you regret watching porn after you come to a release?
I am not a psychologist nor any sort of medically trained person, but if you have any feelings that make you uncomfortable after / while watching porn, then maybe you should seek help.
At your age, you are probably still in school, just as I am. Do you have counselling?
I am not a psychologist nor any sort of medically trained person, but if you have any feelings that make you uncomfortable after / while watching porn, then maybe you should seek help.
At your age, you are probably still in school, just as I am. Do you have counselling?
no i don't have counseling. and i do feel guilty after i finish but the feeling while doing it are so pleasurable that i want to so bad again. i just get frustrated when i can't get the nerve to talk to women or ask them out, let a lone be with one of them. thinking about looking at porn later at night gets me excited when im in a bad mood, but i always felt guilty afterwards. i would be like i'm never going to do it again afterwards but then i would. then one day i just quit. it wasn't really affecting my life in any way. i was still going to school and getting good grades and still keeping a job. im thinking of giving in to my cravings and watching some porn b/c so many guys do it. if i choose to though i will make myself a limit of 1 hr a time every other day. thanks for your help.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
yea well it doesn't help when i never get any.
stop jacking off
i just get frustrated when i can't get the nerve to talk to women or ask them out
stop jacking off. Seriously, it will help a lot with your nerve and women.
There are two problems porn presents - wasted time and loss of the horniness that makes you pursue women.
stop jacking off
i just get frustrated when i can't get the nerve to talk to women or ask them out
stop jacking off. Seriously, it will help a lot with your nerve and women.
There are two problems porn presents - wasted time and loss of the horniness that makes you pursue women.
I only use porn when I need a quick "relief" session. and only a few minutes. Now a couple years ago when I was about 15 and 16 I would spend a couple hours a couple times a week watching. But I was a young horny kid with not much to do when I didn't have a license
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Anywhere from 20 minutes to 4 hours....when I first got online and with the novelty of having endless porn piped right into my house, went 'till 6:00 a.m. ...that's from like 10:00 the night before (yeah....a little problematic).
Average....about an hour.
I'd love to get off this stuff. It's bull****. It wastes too much time. The longest I've gone cold-turkey was a month....a couple of times. But it's not like external addictions. The body isn't born needing to drink, smoke, or shoot up regularly, but getting horny...that's natural
Then again....it's just another chemical. The only difference is the brain is making it's own drugs. It's self-medication. It's emotional isolation/insulation.
It's somewhere to hide....hide from fear--or because of it... hide from failure--or the threat of it.
I've been getting much better at getting up and walking away...without ejaculating. I just get up, go to bed, or go outside, or post/write e-mails to friends. It's a good thing to be able to catch myself, and talk myself into walking away from it for the time being. It's getting a little better.
Average....about an hour.
I'd love to get off this stuff. It's bull****. It wastes too much time. The longest I've gone cold-turkey was a month....a couple of times. But it's not like external addictions. The body isn't born needing to drink, smoke, or shoot up regularly, but getting horny...that's natural
Then again....it's just another chemical. The only difference is the brain is making it's own drugs. It's self-medication. It's emotional isolation/insulation.
It's somewhere to hide....hide from fear--or because of it... hide from failure--or the threat of it.
I've been getting much better at getting up and walking away...without ejaculating. I just get up, go to bed, or go outside, or post/write e-mails to friends. It's a good thing to be able to catch myself, and talk myself into walking away from it for the time being. It's getting a little better.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Call me weird, but I havn't really checked out any porn since I was in my teens. I don't even jerk off anymore unless I'm away from my girlfriend for a while. Even then, I just think about things I shouldn't mention here (memories, mostly). Sometimes I'll jerk off before we have sex so I can last longer without shooting my wad. If I weren't ****ing my girl four times a day, this might be different... but the difference would most likely be another woman.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
lol this site is the father of the pornspeakeasy said:
. lol u can find every fvcking thing there
.. also try out redtube.com
.. almost same sh!t but i think videos are better quality .Yeah I think this is a fairly common question actually for young men if they have been looking at porn too much. Some people talk about desensitization. My advice is, if using your imagination doesn't come as naturally for masturbation, maybe cut back.
Or if your collection is more than 10% of your total hard drive capacity...of course now with flash video sites that metric isn't really useful
Or if your collection is more than 10% of your total hard drive capacity...of course now with flash video sites that metric isn't really useful
