For everyone who feels their game is slipping - listen to this
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im not doing shlt anyway. i'll type the main points as i watch.Smok1nAce said:
5 Things That Make Men Look Weak
1) Acting overly concerned
checking up on her all the time, being a "captain save a h0"
2) Being lured in and engaging in petty arguments
women know when they are being petty and when they are full of shlt. they will think it's pathetic when you argue with them over this. deep down she wants you to STFU. when she wants to vent her feelings tell her to call her mom or her girl friends.
3) Not checking women when they come at you with some bullshlt
women do things to push buttons and test you - check this immediately.
they will purposely say some disrespectful stuff to see how you react and they will never respect you if you let it slide. "im not one of these lil ni99as you grew up with, you better check yourself because if i have to check you, i'll leave you in front of this Applebees"
well said Tariq, i am not the lil ni99a she grew up with.
he speaks about having a zero tolerance policy towards any amount of disrespect.
4) Being too available
when a woman calls you up and wants you to come over, hang out or whatever and you are always available - that's weak. you are a man and have other things to do. tell them you're going out with another girl because deep down women like the competition.
he talks about the importance of having a sexy platonic female friend because women like guys who are around attractive women.
Jay Z didn't become a sex symbol until he started hanging out with Beyonce.
5) Don't do too much too soon
he talks about guys who bring flowers and chocolate when they first meet a woman. it makes men look desperate and weak.
give the impression that you want to get to know her before you are gonna do anything special for her.
pretty much it's a good reminder about a lot of common mistakes guys make.
Sure.
#1 - Being overly concerned for their wellbeing. It comes off white-knightish. You need to have an "I don't give a Fvck" kind of vibe.
#2 - Being lured in and engaging into petty arguments with women. They know they are full of sh*t but deep down a female will expect you to tell her to STFU and bring closure to it.
#3 - Not checking women when they come at you sideways. You have to check women. When women try to push your buttons you have to check them immediately. You need to have a zero tolerance policy when women try to test you. Let them know that you don't want to be tested.
#4 - Don't be too available. Especially when with flakes. Make sure you appear busy or she'll know she has u wrapped around her finger. Make sure you have a platonic female friend to use as bait. Don't try to come off super-single, let them know you are in demand.
#5 - Don't do too much too soon. Don't roll out the red carpet too soon. No chocolate and roses. Times have changed.
#1 - Being overly concerned for their wellbeing. It comes off white-knightish. You need to have an "I don't give a Fvck" kind of vibe.
#2 - Being lured in and engaging into petty arguments with women. They know they are full of sh*t but deep down a female will expect you to tell her to STFU and bring closure to it.
#3 - Not checking women when they come at you sideways. You have to check women. When women try to push your buttons you have to check them immediately. You need to have a zero tolerance policy when women try to test you. Let them know that you don't want to be tested.
#4 - Don't be too available. Especially when with flakes. Make sure you appear busy or she'll know she has u wrapped around her finger. Make sure you have a platonic female friend to use as bait. Don't try to come off super-single, let them know you are in demand.
#5 - Don't do too much too soon. Don't roll out the red carpet too soon. No chocolate and roses. Times have changed.
VladPatton
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Very valid points, all which are endorsed by this forum.
Here is more. It's on how to work on your conversational skills. He only gets to the point at 25 minutes in.
#1: Hold eye-contact.
#2: Believe in what you say. It's a matter of congruence. Be convincing. People will believe in you if you do too.
#3: Don't speak too quickly. Speak slowly. Gives you time to think. You will also come across cooler and more relaxed.
#4: Put emotions behind your words, but don't be emotional. Have some charisma. Don't be boring.
#5: Offer a unique perspective. Be different. People want to hear new things. A good vocabulary is good for that.
#6: Pay attention to details. Let women know that you notice details. For example: "where did you get your ring/necklace/ etc",
#7: Don't try to sound more intelligent than you are.
#8: Go out and experience the world. That's the most important thing. If you don't do sh*t, you won't have sh*t to talk about.
5 reasons you are not succesful with women. This one is even better.
#1: You do not trust yourself. Selftrust = confidence. You have to trust yourself to know that you will say the right thing, etc.
#2: You don't value manhood(yourself). You have to feel like you are the flyest guy on earth. If you believe in yourself, others will as well.
#3: You think that money will compensate for your game. Don't trick. You must have a person respect you if you want to build a relationship.
#4: You talk too much. The more you talk, you will remove mystery, you will come off like you're trying to qualify yourself.
#5: You talk too little. Keep the conversation flowing by getting women to do a lot of talking.
#1: Hold eye-contact.
#2: Believe in what you say. It's a matter of congruence. Be convincing. People will believe in you if you do too.
#3: Don't speak too quickly. Speak slowly. Gives you time to think. You will also come across cooler and more relaxed.
#4: Put emotions behind your words, but don't be emotional. Have some charisma. Don't be boring.
#5: Offer a unique perspective. Be different. People want to hear new things. A good vocabulary is good for that.
#6: Pay attention to details. Let women know that you notice details. For example: "where did you get your ring/necklace/ etc",
#7: Don't try to sound more intelligent than you are.
#8: Go out and experience the world. That's the most important thing. If you don't do sh*t, you won't have sh*t to talk about.
5 reasons you are not succesful with women. This one is even better.
#1: You do not trust yourself. Selftrust = confidence. You have to trust yourself to know that you will say the right thing, etc.
#2: You don't value manhood(yourself). You have to feel like you are the flyest guy on earth. If you believe in yourself, others will as well.
#3: You think that money will compensate for your game. Don't trick. You must have a person respect you if you want to build a relationship.
#4: You talk too much. The more you talk, you will remove mystery, you will come off like you're trying to qualify yourself.
#5: You talk too little. Keep the conversation flowing by getting women to do a lot of talking.
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Nothing earth-shattering. Some pretty basic concepts with a heavy sprinkling of ebonics (to make it sound like "real talk" I suppose).Smok1nAce said:
My game seems to depend too much on my mood, maybe someone could clear this up for me but If I am feeling down, then being congruent would dictate that I do not try and hide the fact that I am feeling down. Wouldn't this negatively effect my game?
I'm asking because some days I feel down (the chemical madness of puberty I spose!) and I go to school and I think 'well I won't try and fake charisma today, I'll just be congruent with how I feel' But then I end up being less smiley/charismatic and get worse responses from women. Perhaps I am focusing too much on the women, and need to bring the focus back to myself...
I'm asking because some days I feel down (the chemical madness of puberty I spose!) and I go to school and I think 'well I won't try and fake charisma today, I'll just be congruent with how I feel' But then I end up being less smiley/charismatic and get worse responses from women. Perhaps I am focusing too much on the women, and need to bring the focus back to myself...