For date-coffee or drink

[ChristopherColumbus]

If I meet some chick we're going somewhere and it ain't for coffee. Maybe after coffee and or a drink but I've got other shyt to do then just meet up for a coffee.

The coffee is a safe bet until you know she is fun. It is a quick convenient way to screen a woman you have just met [through cold approach]. If you find her to be fun, then you take her somewhere fun next time.

 

[9Volt]

The coffee is a safe bet until you know she is fun. It is a quick convenient way to screen a woman you have just met [through cold approach]. If you find her to be fun, then you take her somewhere fun next time.

I don't worry about her being fun. I decide my own fun and take her with me.

If you like cold approaching and going to coffee shops that's you.

I don't have time for that unless it's a part of something better I'm doing.

I also don't have time to walk.up to strangers and just ask them out. I've got other things to do.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I don't worry about her being fun. I decide my own fun and take her with me.

If you like cold approaching and going to coffee shops that's you.

I don't have time for that unless it's a part of something better I'm doing.

I also don't have time to walk.up to strangers and just ask them out. I've got other things to do.

• Plenty of times I've stated I don't do the classic cold approach... I just naturally meet woman in the course of my day
• You don't want a wet rag hanging around you at a fun event. It may prevent you from meeting a more fun person

You seem to have a disputatious frame of mind... always focusing on the disagreements you might have as opposed to the things in common!

 

[9Volt]

• Plenty of times I've stated I don't do the classic cold approach... I just naturally meet woman in the course of my day
• You don't want a wet rag hanging around you at a fun event. It may prevent you from meeting a more fun person

Never had that problem as I get to.know a chick before we go out. And if she was a wet rag? She can go get coffee to liven up while I finish doing what I'm doing.

 

[ubercat]

@ChristopherColumbus don't forget you are in Korea mate. An American girl is going to need a little Kickstarter to get her motor running

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

@ChristopherColumbus don't forget you are in Korea mate. An American girl is going to need a little Kickstarter to get her motor running

Yes, was at a bar the other week with an American lass. Was propositioned on the way home in the taxi, but sadly I was simply not attracted to her. She was too much of a 'mate'. Nice to friend-zone a woman for a change! ha ha

Compare that to a coffee date in the weekend. The Korean lady arrives late, which was fine as was working on a poem. Anyway, perhaps due to the poetic flow, we were well-engaged in a bubble within all of 5 minutes of meeting. A quick coffee, and then to the park. Unfortunately, it was a bit public as it would have been perfectly fine to have commenced kissing.