For all those w/ questions about shy girls.

Dukester

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Recently I posted a comment on a friend on my who is shy, b/c some guy wanted to know how to work DJ majic on shy girls.

Well, I take back some of the stuff I said. I was just w/ a shy girl for over 2 hours talking w/ her. I was pulling most of the normal DJ stuff I do w/ girls, kino, C&F, all the stuff that works on normal girls.

I guess I toned the C&F down just a little. She was constantly smiling and laughing though- which is always a good sign. She was kinoing too which is also a good sign.

Only thing wrong I did was go 4 a kiss. We made a bet, and if I won (which I did) that I could kiss her. Well, when I went to do it, she kinda backed off- but I saved it by saying you owe me.

I think the reason she backed off is that she is shy. Plus she hasnt gone far w/ a guy, and I dont think she has ever really had a steady b/f. She's from a small town where all the guys are hicks or really stuck up. She said that she liked my style of being preppy, but laid back, and funny, etc...

So, i dunno what happened there.


I wasnt really there to see her n e way, i was there to see her roommate, who has an interest level for me of a/b an 8. She was sleeping however, but I stayed and talked w/ this other girl. By the end of the night, I got her interest level up to about an 8 or 9, and I didnt kiss close, I got a hug out of it.


Actually, the real point of this post has been left out:

I dont think you need to change your game up too much just for a shy girl, or a girl that doesnt have a hi IL in you. Just do the same **** you do, just slightly vary your game is all.


If n e one wants some more insight to shy girls, post or pm me!
 

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Shy girls prefer friends first and patience but overall they're all work the same way.
 

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it's not that i usually go for hoes evolvingnerd. i dont consider girls who wanna have a good time hoes.

shy girls:

basically, you need patientce to work w/ these girls. you cant move too fast on a shy girl, cuz you'll just scare her away. you have to put her in her comfort zone, and that can take all night.
now this girl that i was with the other night, she wasnt completely shy i dont think. side note: a whole group of us went to a soccer game, and my friend (the girl i wanted to see thurs night) was there, and she brought her roomie (the one i made out w/ thurs nite).

she didnt talk much, unless i said n e thing to her. of course, i was the only guy there to actually talk with the girls, cuz my other friends are AFC. and one of them is stuck up some girls azz, and theyre not even close to dating. ha

n e way:
i worked my usual C&F on this girl that night, and it seemed to work great. at first though, i came off as a nice guy, but once we started talking, (bout after a half hour) i started using C&F. i maintained EC 97% of the time. I kino'd, and she did, after a while

normally, girls will act normal, and into me after about 10 min, but it took her about 30 to warm up to me. w/ shy chicks, it's all about getting them in the comfort zone asap. once you can do that, you are good to go for whatever methods you wish to use on them.

we didnt end up making out till like right before i left too. like as soon as we got out of it, i said, "gotta go, bye"

she was left there in awe, but she yelled call me. that was thursday night, and she's going home 4 the weekend, so i'm not gonna call her till next week. actually, the 3 of us are supposed to go hang out at the mall sometime next week, so i dunno. it's gonna be weird, cuz my friend likes me, and now her roomie does too, haha
 
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