yes but what he is sayin is defentely a start... the core of being shy is lack of confidence .. and being an emotionless prick who doesn't care what other thinks....well that does indeed lead to more confidenceMaster Bates said:mostly useless and shallow advice for truly shy people. I can assure you that "nice guy problems" are not the core of being too shy. but whatever.
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.