Food Scammers

[SargeMaximus]

Weak a$$ beta male create threads like this that simply talk sh!t about women.

And you know I’m right.

But the beta male in you, and others on this forum, would rather sit on a message board all day and b!tch about female nature.

Or deny that nature when it doesn’t align with their internal narrative

 

[Bokanovsky]

I've heard women openly talking about this as if it was something to be proud of. The first time I heard it I thought "what a piece of trash" but I think it´s actually fairly common.

Being “a piece of trash” is fairly common these days.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Well if the environment allows it, there is not anything wrong with it, we cannot press our own values upon society as a whole, because the truth is our values won't get us any closer to where we need to be... I mean, sure, if every woman just conformed to a strong man's will, it might be that way, but there exists nuance, born of choice and GPS Dating apps.

Its not against the law to willingly give all your **** away; we are just aware of our own weakness when subject to the height of female power, that being, it changes a man.. Once you understand what is possible for you, your world changes, so does hers, it is pure chaos and I wouldn't have it any other way.

I'm gonna be that guy and quote my own post, just to add that many men find themselves in their own personal hell, that being, they have had a taste of what they are capable of, just a taste, but because they did not focus on their purpose, the taste becomes fleeting and soon all that remains of it is a memory and its haunting because you know it's your own fault, not for doing the right things with her, but focusing on her or them instead of your purpose.

Your purpose is the only sense of order you will find in the chaotic dating game

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I’ve never had a woman do this to me

 

[Lookatu]

Don't you think a lot of that is just an image?

I believe some of it is and some while starting off in the hood and very hardened initially, hollywood with the money/fame/different social interactions have changed some of them. You can see different artists have changed or evolved in different ways over the years.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

If you meet a girl and she demands that you take her to dinner, especially if she suggest an expensive place, then be aware that you're probably dealing with a food scammer.

What´s even worse are food scammer groups, where a woman will bring along a friend so that they can both take advantage of the sucker. Of course, in exchange her friend will also take her along when she finds a sucker.

In any case, you shouldn´t be letting women dictate to you the terms of the date. If she doesn't want to accept your suggestion and only wants to go somewhere expensive, you're better off ditching her. It´s a sign of disrespect and a lack of genuine interest when a woman demands to be taken to some particular place.

In Ukraine, some women take this even further by taking men to specific restaurants where the women earn a commission off all of the rich foreign suckers that think Ukrainian women are easy.

She should never demand anything on the first date. If she does, that is a big red flag she will not comply or is willing to comply or even knows the definition of complying. If she suggests, that is different. But you as a man, should always lead and make things happen.

I've openly discussed this "phenomena" with women, and it is a fact that some women (not all) will explicitly date to get fed and pampered. Nothing beyond that. They do not intend to get to know you, or build anything. They simply are too lazy and entitled to pay for their own meals. So they go on OLD to go on such dates.

I've certainly learned from experience the hard way. But isn't that the best teacher?

Modern Man Advice

 

[bat soup]

She should never demand anything on the first date. If she does, that is a big red flag she will not comply or is willing to comply or even knows the definition of complying. If she suggests, that is different. But you as a man, should always lead and make things happen.

I've openly discussed this "phenomena" with women, and it is a fact that some women (not all) will explicitly date to get fed and pampered. Nothing beyond that. They do not intend to get to know you, or build anything. They simply are too lazy and entitled to pay for their own meals. So they go on OLD to go on such dates.

I've certainly learned from experience the hard way. But isn't that the best teacher?

Modern Man Advice

Yep. I agree that you learn from experience how to recognize these kinds of women. It ties in with the idea that the man should be leading the interaction and the woman should be following. Anything else tends to be some kind of manipulation.

Also, I don't have a problem with a woman making suggestions. Sometimes they know good places to go. But the problem is when a woman is demanding to be taken somewhere expensive, whilst not being willing to pay for it. That's an obvious scam.

In China they have a scam where an attractive woman will approach you and claim to be a student that wants to practice her English. Then she says that she knows a good tea shop where you can go and chat. Most guys can't believe their luck, but here again the test of her sincerity is whether she's willing to go to a place that you choose. If you say "let's go to Starbucks" or suggest any other normal cafe she'll say "no, I want to go this place I know" and that's that sign that it's a scam. Ultimately she is not interested in going with you anywhere other than the scam tea shop.

When you meet up with a woman, who is essentially a stranger, you have to be somewhat cautious and wary of her intentions. It's not that most women are like this, but those that are can find an endless supply of naive suckers on dating apps.

 

[SirBigBell]

Yep. I agree that you learn from experience how to recognize these kinds of women. It ties in with the idea that the man should be leading the interaction and the woman should be following. Anything else tends to be some kind of manipulation.

Also, I don't have a problem with a woman making suggestions. Sometimes they know good places to go. But the problem is when a woman is demanding to be taken somewhere expensive, whilst not being willing to pay for it. That's an obvious scam.

In China they have a scam where an attractive woman will approach you and claim to be a student that wants to practice her English. Then she says that she knows a good tea shop where you can go and chat. Most guys can't believe their luck, but here again the test of her sincerity is whether she's willing to go to a place that you choose. If you say "let's go to Starbucks" or suggest any other normal cafe she'll say "no, I want to go this place I know" and that's that sign that it's a scam. Ultimately she is not interested in going with you anywhere other than the scam tea shop.

When you meet up with a woman, who is essentially a stranger, you have to be somewhat cautious and wary of her intentions. It's not that most women are like this, but those that are can find an endless supply of naive suckers on dating apps.

Look guys, for many many moons women have been scammers. Listening to the following songs exposes the entitlement mindset women have always had:

Bills, bills, bills - Destiny’s Child

What have you done for me lately - Janet Jackson

Nothing going on but the rent - Gwen Guthrie

The list is endless.

For as long as there are men willing to put women on pedestals, the ladies will always have a free guaranteed meal ticket.

 

[Kotaix]

If you meet a girl and she demands that you take her to dinner, especially if she suggest an expensive place, then be aware that you're probably dealing with a food scammer.

What´s even worse are food scammer groups, where a woman will bring along a friend so that they can both take advantage of the sucker. Of course, in exchange her friend will also take her along when she finds a sucker.

In any case, you shouldn´t be letting women dictate to you the terms of the date. If she doesn't want to accept your suggestion and only wants to go somewhere expensive, you're better off ditching her. It´s a sign of disrespect and a lack of genuine interest when a woman demands to be taken to some particular place.

In Ukraine, some women take this even further by taking men to specific restaurants where the women earn a commission off all of the rich foreign suckers that think Ukrainian women are easy.

This is why you make women pay their own way.

If they want equality, they have to walk the walk and not just talk the talk.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Look guys, for many many moons women have been scammers. Listening to the following songs exposes the entitlement mindset women have always had:

Bills, bills, bills - Destiny’s Child

What have you done for me lately - Janet Jackson

Nothing going on but the rent - Gwen Guthrie

The list is endless.

For as long as there are men willing to put women on pedestals, the ladies will always have a free guaranteed meal ticket.

Why do you say it starts with the males and not with the females terrible mindset?

 

[SirBigBell]

Why do you say it starts with the males and not with the females terrible mindset?

Traditionally across all cultures women were subservient to men. Women couldnt vote. Before the world wars, women were homemakers and couldnt be gainfully employed, so they depended solely on the incomes of their husbands. This is the root of that “give me” mindset.

The problem is that when access to the economy was opened to them, they continued to expect the perpertuation of the perks of dependency. In conservative cultures in Asia, Africa and South America, even women who earn more than men expect the men to foot the bills even on expenses they can easily cover themselves.

Its up to us men to now push back on women who try to enjoy the benefits of their historic dependency whenever it suits them. If a woman cant afford, by all means treat her to whatever you wish. What’s BS is a woman demanding or expecting as a “right” that you give her what she can easily afford herself, because “thats what a real gentleman should do”, and we comply with ease due to thirst and limited options.

 

[B80]

its up to the men not to tolerate it when it does it happen, but decent women wouldn't ;t try and take advantage.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Why do you say it starts with the males and not with the females terrible mindset?

No no no, THIS is the terrible mindset, females are just gonna do what they do and they'll receive support from all women and a large group of men, you need to do you, they can't do you, YOU need to do you, while they do them and if they are interested enough, they will choose to do you, or you will choose to do them... Or, if your both mature adults, can find common ground but a woman, especially one with options will chase convenience