Flirting with everyone except you.

[DonMEgaHoss]

Curiosity getting the better of me plus Im restless and low on physical energy to go out on the town. Wanna take it easy....tonight I got the day off tomarrow.. first day off in like 2 weeks. Im stoked.

Anyways, I did a search but I didnt really fine anything pertaining to my query.. ( I feel like using big words ^_^ hooked on phonics mommie! )

I semi know this girl at my job. I cook at a pretty nice locally owned restaurant. This hostess hb9 just freakin smokin'. But alas I get the feeling she's a definite attention ho'

1. Balantly wears sexy $hit ultra nice clothes everytime I work with her.. I doubt its for me or merely to try to manipulate me. Her new puppy to break in. Nah... not me.

2. I know she's physically attracted to me. Gives off IOIs like mad though I still am aprehensive about wasting my time with this ho.

3. Flirts with other guys I work with right in front of me. Probably a $hit test How could she like some toothpick thin non-masculine twig of a guy over me Im in pretty good shape decently ripped 6'2 165lbs. Lean swimmers physique, sinewy muscles and what not.

4. Mentions that she was going to some dumb party ( flapping her gums ) in my earshot. I guess to show that she is popular and wanted. :crazy:

One example. We just closed up shop the 3 of us cooks and some other workers were chilling outside after work relaxing and all.. When one of the bartender and me we're chatting and all with some other peeps and she's wasnt really invovled in the convo. she asks. " What are we talking about? " Just because the focus wasnt on her. :crackup:

So my main question is

Could it be an honest sign of attaction for her to flirt with everyone exspecially in front of you ( majority of them arent as handsome, tall or muscular as me. )

Plus a factor is that a large percentage of my female co-workers give me the looks and flirts and all. Though I flirt very sparingly.. they are all interested in me cause Im focused, ambitious, intelligent plus pretty handsome.

While those other chumps hang on her. Im too buzy busting my a$$ working hard. While the bartender ( a guy who all his achievement in his life has only been with women.. as in he's not going anywhere in life nor as been so far and hes over 30. LOL) and the other clueless morons having nothing better to do than run there mouth.

I think she's pulling this crap cause of my mom was stupid and burted out some dumb crap at the pefect time to make it harder for me.

Was eating there with my mom and aunt & uncle. She was asking about employees names and all... ( none of my moms business what so ever.. )

she blurts out percisely when the hb9 was within earshot. " blah blah blah isn't that blah blah blah "

Me " No "

Mom " How about the Newbold girl blah blabh blah " some other damn stuff for her to drive a stake threw me.

So the hb9 knows my interest level thanks to my mother blowing it away with a 12 gauge of C^ckblock.

So she feels she can toy with me. :cuss:

Attention ho or an message tellin me to grab my balls take what I want.. If not. I'll make the ho say no.





Cause The only thing I have in my life is my balls and my word..

You lose one you loosing them all.

Fortune favors the brave !

Send me some feed back from and 3rd party view of things. Just incase my judgement is clouded.

 

[SamePendo]

Hmmmmm... how about asking for the #, instadate, or whatever?

 

[TesuqueRed]

ummm....i sorta got what happened here, but the mother part is indecipherable...

is she interested by flirting with everyone but you? sure, whatever. you're getting a pretty good read

know what you want. she either meets your requirements for that or she doesn't.

you want fresh meat (USDA prime that you can only get in good restaraunts)? there she is! go for it

you want a good fight and get a medal for it (read: trophy) later? she's there again - go for it

you want a quality gf or someone to really engage you and you won't know how far it will go? then not her.

my guess is she's a challenge for you to try to put her in her place. you're kinda hung up on yourself - you may have the goods as you say (i don't doubt that), but just like a hot chick knows she has the goods and you can tell she knows -- same's with you

my other guess is you want her as a trophy. so go and see if you can get it

but you want quality? not yet. go get a few trophies first (it does a soul good, actually) then you'll have a better eye for quality.

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

Basically my point coming across with my mom was she slipped up an mentioned something about the hb9 ( our families have known each others for a long time if not generations.) So yeah...

I got more info on the story too..

Last summer we briefly hung out Got the digits then.. But killed my phone on accident so lost the number. Plus I found out from her UG sister that I just happened to work with at the YMCA lifeguarding. That from a joke like , ' Oh your just trying to get into my pants ' Freaked her out..Probably too aggressive too early. Told her UG sister that I sexually harrassed her :crazy: after she didnt return my call or two so I sent a voicemail. Saying that I guess she didnt want to hang out and said I would see her around..

I put my foot down and walked away.

I know I might sound as though Im coming off as arrogant and possibly I am. But I wasnt goodlooking or in shape like I am now. Me roughly two years ago I was like 205 at my heaviest and pudgy weak afc.. But I put in the sweat, blood, and tears to get to who I am today. With alot of suffering and pain


But enough rambling on about me

But yeah she's the challenge and I want her as a trophy... I love a good fight/challenge.


I guess I could fool around with the less attractive girls.. from hb6.7 to hb8s

But I know I can have it if I want it. But, I dont really want it...so they're jocking me. But the one I want at least acts aloof..

Damn desire causing paradoxal effects such as the one post in the dj bible noted ( too lazy to find who post it )

I work with the hottie on sunday night I'll make the ho say no. or get what I want.

 

[MacDiddy]

I'd say let this attention ho, go!!!

You've blown your cover and its hard to recover. plus the mockery she is making of you has already lowered the value of you in her eyes.