Flirting: Keeping the Magic

[chicksrock]

When I approach women I have the same routine/rhythem/pattern I have developed..

often on the fly I develop new techniques...which I add to my tool kit...

However when I re-use some tools..sometimes I feel it lacks the initial spark/charm when I first developed it....

Do other DJ's encounter same problems of looking like a genuine DJ in your target's eyes...

when I repeat my techniques...I feel there is not the same amount of magic...

I feel I am most effective at Pick Ups if I create a magical vibe with an HB...

How do I keep the magic/genuineness/sincereity in my flirting with women?

 

[PeeGee]

By only using it when it's geniune. That's why I never use those 'patterns'.

 

[comote]

I don't think he is talking about patterns, I think he is talking about settling into a routine. A couple of thoughts.

Think of yourself in control: Even though your routine seems old to you it is not old to them.

The real way to get rid of this is to focus on the woman, think of her as your partner in the flirtation or seduction. Get to know what makes her special and that will translate into each separate women being special in your eyes.

 

[chicksrock]

excellent advice comote!
i guess you see where I am coming from!

 

[Void]

to keep the sincerity imagine you banging her and youll get pretty sincere when flirting with her.