Contexts
Something that goes little noticed by people is the context that a person is in when donning certain personas.
When you go to a club, versus going to say a candle lit high class bar, the clientele, the atmosphere, and the feeling are immensely different than going down the street to a local watering hole that features the utmost selection in prime-class sluts.
On off occasions, without intention, I've done hardcore flirting that is borderline evil, only to have a girl eating out of my hand. Why does it work?
Because in most cases the woman is sporting some ultra thick bytch shield and you've effectively broken it down. During the Red Sox World Series triumph, a girl whom I attended college with showed up. She was a flirt, perhaps a **** tease to most, a notorious slut. She enjoyed sex, but begrudged relationships. Many of my guy friends pandered to her need for afffection, but lack of follow through on good deeds.
Whilst I cared, the atmosphere (club, smoking, drinking) enabled such an attitude to gleam through. Initially, some of my friends scoffed and were taken aback by such direct sex statements, which could have been construed as arrogant, but towards the end, she always let out a sharp laugh and was in search of some affection.
Again...I was picking up Dry Cleaning Last night in the midst of snow and sleet, rushing to get there before closing.
Me: What time do you close?
Her: 8.
Me: Son of a bytch. I rushed to get here, nearly killing myself in the process.
Her2: Hey, watch your mouth?!
Me: Ah. Professional man that I am, in front of ladies, I'll take back that remark. But, I know that you both speak as ill while I'm not here.
Her: Yeah she does.
Me: It's evident, she knows another language. You ladies are sneaky with your double standards. Besides, you get away with it b/c you speak 2 languages. That's cheating.
Her: Yup, she cusses alot.
The two girls were giggling while I was waiting, and when I took a phone call, I had time to roam around. I took her speaking up as an IOI, as it gave her an intro to say something. Most times, 2 high school girls wouldn't remark over cussing, and though I was embarrassed to cuss in public, it gave it a nice play around.
Another factor is personalities. I have some really mellow friends I go sarging (though I don't like it to seem there's intention behind meeting women at that moment) with. They mix well with older, more laid back girls, where I usually get the flashy, energetic, high-maintenance ones.
For instance, we met up with 2 women who were nannies outside of Boston, in Boston. His conversational abilities, and laid-back approach to life garners very well. He's kind of a hippy at times with his appearance, but has a strong grasp of flirting, so he locks on well. We usually split up and meet ladies.
So you have:
Types
Contexts
Just know who you are, where you can succeed, and act.
A-Unit
