First time in the club, Had an amazing time thanks to this forum tips.

[Prodigy746]

I never thought i would like the clubs so therefore i never went. I am 22 and have NEVER DANCED IN MY LIFE! So when my friend was telling me how much fun he had in the club on new years eve i decided with it being new year and all why not try it out.

We decided to go to a party school town 1-1.5 hrs away because it had great looking chicks. 90% of the girls were HB 8 or above, i thought i was in heaven the whole night.

MY GOALS
My main goal was to have fun and secondery goal was to dance with atleast 2 girls since it was my frist time in the club and i had never danced before.

ACTUAL RESULTS

-Danced w 20-25 girls most of which were HB 8+
-I grinded prolly w 12-13 of these girls and the most amazing one was the Black girl. She was hot as hell and had the best boddy in the club. On top of that she definitely knew what she was doing... danced w her for 2-3 songs until the DJ for some reason stoped the music for a minute or so and everyone stopped dancing.
-Danced w 3 different races in one night Asian, White, Black..thought that was interesting
-Kiss closed a girl in the club
-Had a girl licking my ear and neck as we danced
-Got the courage to get up and dance by my self even though i dont know how to when the dance floor was almost empty. ( It was the BEST feeling when girls started getting on the dance floor and initiated dancing w me.
-Gained great social proof even though the place was far away from where i live and i only knew 1 person. (I actuall winged for 2 other guys that i didnt know to take away the less attractive girl and have him dance with a bombshell. With one guy i actually gave him the tumbs up as i came behind the less atractive friend and gave him the "i got your back " look. I took the less attractive girl away mainly cuse she was a bit chubby so that he can game the other one. She was still prolly a HB 7 atleast. Later that evening he came up to me and gave me a high five.)

Since this town was about 1 -1.5 hrs me and my friend decided that we were not even gonna go for any number closes as it wasnt worth trying to date a girl 1 hr away. We did say that if we had a chance to bring some girls to our hotel room we would and we probobly could have but when we took a 10 min brake from dancing we decided there was no way we would be able to perform in bed since we were drunk + tired.

Honestly i dont think i could have done this without this site so to give back ill give some tips that i used to prepear my self when going to the club. I will reply to the thread later.

 

[Furyguy]

Good job man!

Where the ****'d you learn how to dance without looking retarded if you'd never done it before?

 

[Prodigy746]

After deciding that i was gonna go to a club i decided to prepeare as much as i could.

-I went on youtube and watched this video on basic dancing moves. This guy is amazing and this is probobly all you will need to start having fun in the club. I practiced by my self in my room a little which was kinda weird but i think it payed off. He gives some good tips and make sure you pay attention to the grinding part because most girls grind...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87kZJu9FJOw

This is also a very good video on grind dancing which you will definitely need to know. You want to know what you need to do when you got a very nice butty grinding into you... Its awesome
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I4oNVIYsuc4&feature=related

-First thing i did was go on this forum go to advace search and searched for club material. I read about 4 pages and used the follwoing tips from this site.
===Before going to a club drink a little so you lose the tension. We went to a bar drank 1glass of Red Bull/vodka, 1 Corona beer, 1 sex one the beach.. it did the trick

===As soon as you enter the club, find the hottest girl,lock eyes with her, and wave. As soon as i entered the club i saw this model looking chick, prolly HB 9.5, i smiled and waved to her... she smiled and waved back. and i proceded to follow my friend to the bar. It boosted my confidence like crazy.

===Get on the dance floor within 5 minutes of being in the club, the longer you watch the more nervous you will get.... After following my friend to the bar and ordering korona he quickly talked to one guy who told him that his friend is single and he should go dance with her. So my friend went talked to her for 30seconds and was on the dance floor which left me alone by the bar waiting for my beer. As soon as i got the beer took a sip and went to the dance floor to dance by my self. This was pretty hard because the dance floor was empty since we came pretty early. It was mostly couples on the dance floor and one white guy drunk dancing by my self. I qucily become the second guy dancing by my self and watched as many guys/girls sitting down were looking at me but i was determined to have fun. 2-3 minutes after that i was very very suprised as groups of 2-3 females started entering the dance floor and they initiated dancing with me. After that it was game on and i think my social proof was through the roof.

===Talk to guys as well as girls... my friend went to the bar and said wats up to one of the guys that was with his girl. He showed him his friend who was even hotter than the guys gf and told him that she was single. While dancing i randomly gave fist bumps and high fives to other guys which in my opinion gave me social proof even though i only knew one person in the club.

If you have any questions feel free to pm me. I am not an expert or anything but i do want to give back as much as possible to the community since this site has helped me so much.

 

[Irs88]

Im commenting on this because I am busy right now but want to read this later.

Im going to turn 21 soon and cant wait to hit the clubs. got rid of my AA, but i need SO MUCH MORe experience. What did you learn from the site that helped you the most? If you already metioned it in your last post sry for your time, I have to read it later today.

oh an good job man!!

 

[daygameguy]

First off, GREAT JOB my friend.

Now, check these links out for good dance floor game:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sy8u1lsLBcE

For super high social proof (super easy too):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=87k0-Be7XSo&feature=related

 

[R19]

We decided to go to a party school town 1-1.5 hrs away because it had great looking chicks. 90% of the girls were HB 8 or above, i thought i was in heaven the whole night.

Is there a page on this site with pic's of ratings/benchmarks? Would like to see it... One person's 8 can be another's 5 - Thanks.

 

[Drewskie]

Is there a page on this site with pic's of ratings/benchmarks? Would like to see it... One person's 8 can be another's 5 - Thanks.

That's been the topic of many converations here, but in reality, it doesn't matter. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and if he thinks she was an 8, more power to him since he actually went after what he thinks is an 8. However, I have noticed that us LA, NY folks have much different views of what hot is.

 

[R19]

That's been the topic of many converations here, but in reality, it doesn't matter. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and if he thinks she was an 8, more power to him since he actually went after what he thinks is an 8. However, I have noticed that us LA, NY folks have much different views of what hot is.

It actually does matter - a lot. I am new to this place and if someone's HB10 is really more like a HB6 or 7 and their HB8 is more like a HB5, what does that say about the credibility of the posts???? Oh yeah, so I am supposed to follow the advice of someone who thinks they are a big swinging DJ player and they aren't even hittin' on hot girls. Like the girl I am/was totally amp'd on. I think she is sooooo hot, but I would say she may be a HB6-8 on a global scale.

I have never been, but know people who have and have seen pic's - Playboy's Midsummer Night's Dream or Halloween Party. That is a good percentage HB8's and above... Recently, I saw some pic's of Miss Universe contestants from a couple years ago - both in competition, and wayyyy better, photoshoots and candid shots while touring the city where the event was held - a great frame of reference. IMO, those chicks are HB8-10.

 

[nonameok]

I really want to go clubbing. I would go alone but have no idea how to choose a good club. Anyone know of a website that have club reviews?

I'm ready to get my social life in order, and I think clubbing is a good experience even if I don't make it a habit.

 

[War Against Betaism]

Good job man, the most I've ever danced with in one night was like 8 or 9 women and you got 20, wow, props. Just the other day we were at the club and me and my group of friends were sort of in a circle just getting hyphy, all of a sudden a group of HB9's enter the circle and one of them goes in the middle just dancing and hinting to us she wants to dance with one of us. I was going to dance with her but my friend, who doesn't have much experience with clubs, went first. They started dancing and he just made a fool of himself, the girls were like "eww wtf" and my group of friends just couldn't stop laughing at him, could not dance at all! Not even 20 seconds after she just left along with her group.

It's good to hear that you had a good first club experience, people when it's their first time usually don't know how to dance and scare women off, I doubt that happened with you though or else you wouldn't have danced with 20 women.

 

[Prodigy746]

It actually does matter - a lot. I am new to this place and if someone's HB10 is really more like a HB6 or 7 and their HB8 is more like a HB5, what does that say about the credibility of the posts???? Oh yeah, so I am supposed to follow the advice of someone who thinks they are a big swinging DJ player and they aren't even hittin' on hot girls. Like the girl I am/was totally amp'd on. I think she is sooooo hot, but I would say she may be a HB6-8 on a global scale.

I have never been, but know people who have and have seen pic's - Playboy's Midsummer Night's Dream or Halloween Party. That is a good percentage HB8's and above... Recently, I saw some pic's of Miss Universe contestants from a couple years ago - both in competition, and wayyyy better, photoshoots and candid shots while touring the city where the event was held - a great frame of reference. IMO, those chicks are HB8-10.

Trust me these girls were hot...there is a reason we drove 1-1.5 hrs away to party here and this school is top 10 on this list. Not to mention they are known as a party school..
http://www.popcrunch.com/hottest-student-bodies-top-50-universities-ranked-by-looks/

 

[TheSplat]

Don't worry about the grading Prodigy, if you say they were 8's, they were 8's. GREAT JOB buddy. That takes balls to dance by yourself on an empty dance floor. Sounds like you had a great night. But, and I'm not trying to bring you down, just a question...

Why no number close? For instance, the girl you kiss closed would have been an EASY number close, plus next time you go to that area you have a contact.

Also, props on helping out the random guy in the club. Good job