OC Speedball
Don Juan
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- Mar 8, 2011
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I have this girl that is high interest. One of the highest interest girls I have ever gone after. I'm not going to go into all the details, because this isn't a field report. (Just ask me if you need any specific details on behaviors or whatever, and I'll respond). Anyways, this girl invited me to her friend's party. When I got there her friends were like, "Oh my gosh! You're Speedball? She's been talking about you!" My target asked me to take shots with her, so I did. I won over her friends- they were high fiving me, taking shots with me, talking with me, etc. I hadn't drank all semester, but I recently finished finals, so I decided to celebrate a little.
It was a lot of fun, but I got drunk; something I shouldn't have done, because her sister came up to me and stuck her tongue down my throat (I guess she liked me). It took me a few seconds to realize it was her because of my slowed reaction time, but when I did I immediately pushed her off me. My target didn't see this but I was worried she would find out.
During the party my target put her feet up on my lap, and I started massaging them while talking to people at the party. Later in the night, after everyone left or went to bed, we ended up sitting on the couch together alone. She was sitting up against me. We started talking about music, and I had my arm around her waist and I was rubbing her thigh and butt while talking. I can't remember how long I did this for, because I was drunk. We were probably talking for 30 minutes and every few minutes I would slowly start to put my hand in her pants...she would pull it away every time, but she never moved. She continued to sit up against me and we continued to talk. I finally got it far enough in to touch her vag, but she pulled it away once I did. I remember stroking her hair behind her ear at one point. Later in the time we were sitting together I said, "Lay back and spread your legs." She did, and I slopilly proceeded to try to go down on her. She laughed and pushed my head away before I could get her pants off. After that I said, "Ok, I'm going to bed," and then took my shirt off, laid back and immediately passed out. She went to bed upstairs.
Here's the thing- I don't remember if I even kissed her! I was too drunk and sloppy to even remember to kiss her/make out with her first. I tried to go straight to sex instead. The next morning we talked like nothing happened, she was still cool and there was no awkwardness. I went on like it was just another day. A couple days later I texted her to meet up but she had to go to her friend's graduation. The convo was flirty and fun.
Anyways, I would like some veterans advice on this. What did I do worng? Did she hold out simply because I was way too drunk? Is she holding out because she doesn't want to be seen as a slut and maybe wants something more? Should I have kissed her first?
It was a lot of fun, but I got drunk; something I shouldn't have done, because her sister came up to me and stuck her tongue down my throat (I guess she liked me). It took me a few seconds to realize it was her because of my slowed reaction time, but when I did I immediately pushed her off me. My target didn't see this but I was worried she would find out.
During the party my target put her feet up on my lap, and I started massaging them while talking to people at the party. Later in the night, after everyone left or went to bed, we ended up sitting on the couch together alone. She was sitting up against me. We started talking about music, and I had my arm around her waist and I was rubbing her thigh and butt while talking. I can't remember how long I did this for, because I was drunk. We were probably talking for 30 minutes and every few minutes I would slowly start to put my hand in her pants...she would pull it away every time, but she never moved. She continued to sit up against me and we continued to talk. I finally got it far enough in to touch her vag, but she pulled it away once I did. I remember stroking her hair behind her ear at one point. Later in the time we were sitting together I said, "Lay back and spread your legs." She did, and I slopilly proceeded to try to go down on her. She laughed and pushed my head away before I could get her pants off. After that I said, "Ok, I'm going to bed," and then took my shirt off, laid back and immediately passed out. She went to bed upstairs.
Here's the thing- I don't remember if I even kissed her! I was too drunk and sloppy to even remember to kiss her/make out with her first. I tried to go straight to sex instead. The next morning we talked like nothing happened, she was still cool and there was no awkwardness. I went on like it was just another day. A couple days later I texted her to meet up but she had to go to her friend's graduation. The convo was flirty and fun.
Anyways, I would like some veterans advice on this. What did I do worng? Did she hold out simply because I was way too drunk? Is she holding out because she doesn't want to be seen as a slut and maybe wants something more? Should I have kissed her first?
