First time being cheated on

[RangerMIke]

Some 30's act like 25... Thinking it never ends.

True. But in my experience there is something about 5 year periods that fvck with chicks minds. 25, 30, 35, 40 ..... they go through paradigm shifts whenever they hit these marks. If you have a chick that's been a 'good' girl in a monogamous relationship, then she hits 25... she becomes a sex freak.... and vis a vis, There really is no way to predict how a chick is going to change, unless you know what she was like before.

 

[FwoGiZ]

What's the point of an open relationship?

Picture it this way, my relationship(s) is pretty much the same as the conventional one, with less drama and more freedom. In the end, a realistic 2017-evolved relationship.

 

[FwoGiZ]

Because pair bonding is something I am looking for and am enjoying with this girl.
The extra amount of drama I get is inevitable but minimal and negligible. It's all about the sweet spot right.
Same with freedom although living with her obviously means quite less freedom since I do not bring side chick home, unless it includes my main