Don't be so ridiculous. It's not like I got down with him. I didn't touch him or see him at all. If you're that insecure with yourself than it's really your loss. I'm secure with myself enough to not think it's that big of a deal. If you want to live your life with those boundaries set up around you, that's fine. The boundaries that I'm referring to are your homophobic boundaries. I'm not saying you should embrace touching other men, having a threesome with two guys and a girl, etc. But just because you think that you're this macho man doesn't mean you really are, and it doesn't make you right either. I'd call it ignorance more than anything.