Fellas thanks for all the help, but I finally got a clear answer from this hood rat.
To my surprise she text me up to go meet her at the mall, of course her friend was there too. It's all cool at first and she showing me a ton a kino, but finally realize that that's just the type of person she is and shows a ton of kino to really any guy.
I had took my kids with me also. This might have been a mistake but either way I don't really think it would have made a difference in the outcome. Her and her friend are mostly talking about all the guys in the mall whos cute whos not etc... and at the same time talking smack about them and than the girl I'm trying to get at supposedly has a bf because she blatantly says she has to text her bf and than tells me she's just doing the whole dating thing, at first I thought well she invited me and not him, but now that I'm sitting here writing all this that should have been my signal to bounce, but my dumbazz went afc and stuck around.
Really I think the only reason she called me is because they needed a ride back home at the end of the day, but at least I went for the kiss this time and it was a no go.
As far as I'm concerned now no way am I calling her back unless she calls me and if its not for her getting more serious or inviting me to her place it will me a very short conversation.
All in all it was a good experience that could have went better had I done things differently, but its been a long time since I've actually gotten this far so it was a good learning experience for the next.
To my surprise she text me up to go meet her at the mall, of course her friend was there too. It's all cool at first and she showing me a ton a kino, but finally realize that that's just the type of person she is and shows a ton of kino to really any guy.
I had took my kids with me also. This might have been a mistake but either way I don't really think it would have made a difference in the outcome. Her and her friend are mostly talking about all the guys in the mall whos cute whos not etc... and at the same time talking smack about them and than the girl I'm trying to get at supposedly has a bf because she blatantly says she has to text her bf and than tells me she's just doing the whole dating thing, at first I thought well she invited me and not him, but now that I'm sitting here writing all this that should have been my signal to bounce, but my dumbazz went afc and stuck around.
Really I think the only reason she called me is because they needed a ride back home at the end of the day, but at least I went for the kiss this time and it was a no go.
As far as I'm concerned now no way am I calling her back unless she calls me and if its not for her getting more serious or inviting me to her place it will me a very short conversation.
All in all it was a good experience that could have went better had I done things differently, but its been a long time since I've actually gotten this far so it was a good learning experience for the next.
