This is gonna be long. If you want the lead up story to this post, read the thread "First Kiss? at 18 - She wants to know"
Well the girl who is in love with me came over to "watch a movie" today and needless to say we didn't watch much movie. It's weird: I think most people have their "firsts" spread out, like first kiss around 13, first up the shirt around 16, etc. But today was my first kiss on the lips, first make-out session (lasted a good couple of hours), and first time feeling a girl up. It's almost like this site has made me *too* confident. I've been on it for 6 months or so, and I started making my transition from AFC to DJ a couple months before that. But it seems like all of a sudden I just own people and it's not even a challenge any more. I didn't even have to do anything really for this one except invite her over, put in a DVD and stick my mouth on hers. I had never even kissed a girl on the lips before but it was just like, hey it can't be that difficult, and if it is, who cares.
So basically, the purpose of this post is just to clear my head, tell my "success" story, and maybe ask a few questions if I think of them..
First of all I'd like to send a shout-out to all my AFC's out there. For all of you guys who are thinking "oh man that's so awesome I bet it's so cool to have girlfriend" or whatever stupid **** like that, don't worry about it. It's really nothing special. Pretty much it's like a warm fuzzy thing and lots of saliva and you're thinking "yeah this is cool I guess" just like any second rate movie you might go to. It is cool, but not worth losing sleep over. Just go grab a girl and try it you'll see.
Second of all, how are you supposed to get easy access to the tits? I had her moving around and me on top and bottom and side to side and straddling and the whole bit but I never really found a position that offered both easy access and comfort. We were on a couch. I took my shirt off, but she never did. And her bra was kinda tight under there. So I'm like kissing her cleavage and stuff cuz her shirt was low-cut, but I can't get easy access. So basically I just kept forgetting about the tits and going back to making out. I wasn't even into it enough to really care. I did rub some nipple but generally it was too much work to warrent the gain of rubbing what felt pretty much like a nipple. And the problem with desire is not because she wasn't hot. This girl wants my **** for sure (she kept reaching down there and teasing me), she is like an 8.5-9 according to my unbiased brother and friends.
Thirdly, I think I was probably not the best at kissing. Is your mouth supposed to be locked on there the whole time or is it more of a bobbing kinda thing? A few times we got really into it for a minute or so, like full mouth open with tongues out. But mostly I was sucking on her lips, repeatedly kissing, with little tongue. She bit me on the arm and stuff a few times, so i bit that ***** right back .
She told me she came over expecting to "maybe get one kiss" I was like wtf were you thinking? Coming over to a guy's house to watch a movie in the afternoon, what are you going to be doing? Anyway she was very pleased. She was all over me in the afternoon - after a couple hours of making out to the tunes of my excellent choice of movie (which was Woody Allen's Manhattan GET THIS MOVIE FOR YOUR GIRLS if you are an intellectual type especially IT ROCKS THE HOUSE FOR A MAKEOUT FLICK) set to George Gershwin's excellent background orchestral creations, we went to get lunch with her friend from my town. Then we came back to my house with her friend as wheel three, and she was on me like glue. Even around my little brother who shouldnt have been seeing that shiznit. Anyhow we watched part of another movie with this friend sitting in a comfy chair and us on the couch, her trying to get in my pants and being a **** tease. I was like "get the **** away your poor friend is right there" but didnt say it quite that way.
Sorry this is long I just need to get the whole thing down. Anyway I guess I could have gone down her pants but QUESTION 2: Is there a set procedure here? I assume I should get the shirt off before I start going into her pants right? Isn't she supposed to take off her shirt? I took off mine... And she took off my belt... She took off her outer shirt but not her halter top thing. I'm not gonna ask "what that means" because I dont give a ****, just let me know what I'm supposed to be doing here.
Hmm what else. Yeah I guess I just wanted to save her ***** for another day. Whatever.
Perhaps I'll add more to this later. If anybody has questions about how to make out with a girl for the first time let me know - i got the whole thing fresh in my mind.
Well the girl who is in love with me came over to "watch a movie" today and needless to say we didn't watch much movie. It's weird: I think most people have their "firsts" spread out, like first kiss around 13, first up the shirt around 16, etc. But today was my first kiss on the lips, first make-out session (lasted a good couple of hours), and first time feeling a girl up. It's almost like this site has made me *too* confident. I've been on it for 6 months or so, and I started making my transition from AFC to DJ a couple months before that. But it seems like all of a sudden I just own people and it's not even a challenge any more. I didn't even have to do anything really for this one except invite her over, put in a DVD and stick my mouth on hers. I had never even kissed a girl on the lips before but it was just like, hey it can't be that difficult, and if it is, who cares.
So basically, the purpose of this post is just to clear my head, tell my "success" story, and maybe ask a few questions if I think of them..
First of all I'd like to send a shout-out to all my AFC's out there. For all of you guys who are thinking "oh man that's so awesome I bet it's so cool to have girlfriend" or whatever stupid **** like that, don't worry about it. It's really nothing special. Pretty much it's like a warm fuzzy thing and lots of saliva and you're thinking "yeah this is cool I guess" just like any second rate movie you might go to. It is cool, but not worth losing sleep over. Just go grab a girl and try it you'll see.
Second of all, how are you supposed to get easy access to the tits? I had her moving around and me on top and bottom and side to side and straddling and the whole bit but I never really found a position that offered both easy access and comfort. We were on a couch. I took my shirt off, but she never did. And her bra was kinda tight under there. So I'm like kissing her cleavage and stuff cuz her shirt was low-cut, but I can't get easy access. So basically I just kept forgetting about the tits and going back to making out. I wasn't even into it enough to really care. I did rub some nipple but generally it was too much work to warrent the gain of rubbing what felt pretty much like a nipple. And the problem with desire is not because she wasn't hot. This girl wants my **** for sure (she kept reaching down there and teasing me), she is like an 8.5-9 according to my unbiased brother and friends.
Thirdly, I think I was probably not the best at kissing. Is your mouth supposed to be locked on there the whole time or is it more of a bobbing kinda thing? A few times we got really into it for a minute or so, like full mouth open with tongues out. But mostly I was sucking on her lips, repeatedly kissing, with little tongue. She bit me on the arm and stuff a few times, so i bit that ***** right back .
She told me she came over expecting to "maybe get one kiss" I was like wtf were you thinking? Coming over to a guy's house to watch a movie in the afternoon, what are you going to be doing? Anyway she was very pleased. She was all over me in the afternoon - after a couple hours of making out to the tunes of my excellent choice of movie (which was Woody Allen's Manhattan GET THIS MOVIE FOR YOUR GIRLS if you are an intellectual type especially IT ROCKS THE HOUSE FOR A MAKEOUT FLICK) set to George Gershwin's excellent background orchestral creations, we went to get lunch with her friend from my town. Then we came back to my house with her friend as wheel three, and she was on me like glue. Even around my little brother who shouldnt have been seeing that shiznit. Anyhow we watched part of another movie with this friend sitting in a comfy chair and us on the couch, her trying to get in my pants and being a **** tease. I was like "get the **** away your poor friend is right there" but didnt say it quite that way.
Sorry this is long I just need to get the whole thing down. Anyway I guess I could have gone down her pants but QUESTION 2: Is there a set procedure here? I assume I should get the shirt off before I start going into her pants right? Isn't she supposed to take off her shirt? I took off mine... And she took off my belt... She took off her outer shirt but not her halter top thing. I'm not gonna ask "what that means" because I dont give a ****, just let me know what I'm supposed to be doing here.
Hmm what else. Yeah I guess I just wanted to save her ***** for another day. Whatever.
Perhaps I'll add more to this later. If anybody has questions about how to make out with a girl for the first time let me know - i got the whole thing fresh in my mind.
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