first day of class

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Well I dressed pretty sharp, hair spiked... And I sat beside this girl, id say a 7

Didn't say hi or anything... Just sat with my legs wide and im leaning back...

I implemented some mirroring...

She kept taking quick glances at me during class, and sometimes I would see her eyes looking my way in her perhiperal vision.

When class was interupted and the teacher had to go for a moment...

I ask her what was her name with the handshake, asked her a couple of questions. Like is this your first semester and what she is majoring in and what school she came from... I kept my EC but she kept breaking it... guess she was shy.

Our class ended up moving to a different room, instead of looking desperate I walked off to the bathroom to do number 1.

Went to the new room and sat with someone else... i saw her and still she kept looking, taking quick glances to my direction, i somewhat ignored her..

I was planning to do the number exchange after class and ask her if she was single,, if yes..I would pause and say im sorry im not looking for a serious relationship right now, how about you? Then go from there.
If no, I would say the same thing and say we should hang out sometime..

At the end of class I waited for her to leave the room so i could call her from behind.... BUT SHe was WALKing TOo fast and she ended up going to a different parking lot.. so ended that escapade

Your thought and your feelings.. suggestions for next week..
 

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Well written field REport...I thought I was the only one still doing these...anyway:

Basically a good job..except I would try and use a little more c&f to get her warmed up and to create some rapport. Next time you see her say Hi and ask her if she remembers your name...if she does say...Im glad you remembered my name, how about my last name? her:"you didnt tell me your last name"you: You forgot already....and here I thought you were a smart girl.

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good job with trying to talk to a girl. haha.

I am in the same boat here. I looked sharp, but I wasnt able to sit near an attractive girl as of yet. Only day 2 :) .

Usually I am scared of even talking to ugly chicks, and I dont want to be mean because she turned out to be real nice, but This fat chick sat next to me.

I was kinda nervous trying to talk to even her, because I have trouble with every girl.

But after 3 minutes of feeling awkward I finally asked if she was new, blah blah blah and it went from there.


I know talking to an ugly chick aint ****, but I thought of it as practice. It want so bad at all.

I also talked to an average girl today in english class. she was a 6.

I just made a comment that I hate english composition and she agreed and we just talked for a minute. But we didnt get too far. Maybe lasted only a minute or so. Everyone was nervous and wanted to pay attention to the class.


There was a real tall about 5.9 Polish looking blonde girl.
Shes like a 7. Real nice voluptuous natural breasts. probably D's
Anyway we exchanged a few quick glances, but she sat across the room. After class I wanted to talk, but she just walked away really fast to the opposite direction I was going.
I'll try her again next time.


Finally, the hottest chick of my classes. Shes an 8 easy.

I want to hit on her so bad, but shes always with her 3 uggo friends. THey sandwich her during and after class. lol.

They're like her bodyguards.

If only I could catch her sitting or walking alone for a few minutes.

I mean I am hesitant to talk to a girl thats alone, even ugly ones. I am not ready to dissect a group, at least not yet:p
 

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Remember....Use Mystery's 3 Second Rule

After class when you see the HB go approach in 3 seconds or less...because if you dont, youll talk yourselves out of approaching...I guarantee it. Also a friend or ****block may distact her.


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OMG!!! that happend to me exaCTly but we didn't switch rooms... I was looking great and she was a 7 also.....but this chick was STARING AT me!!! I mean she would look away when i looked at her. But i didn't say anything to her...I said to myself that i will talk to her...I got class tommorow!!!!


My advice......Don't rush it but don't wait too long it's only the 1st day.. If anyone got any more advice for me HELP ME ALSO I'm in the same boat.
 

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Talked to another cute girl today. Walked right into class and sat next to her. I took my EXPENSIVE books out and she asked how much they were, etc and we started from there.

She was real talkative, but we didnt get too into it because we were all trying to hear the professor and stuff.

We mostly talked about the class and the professor and where we lived and if we commuted or not, etc. just BS fluff talk.

Since we were in the lecture hall, it wasnt a chill laid back environment where I could make eye contact, smile, and possibly be CF. (I need some practice with that, but hey im talking to strange girls now!)

Anyway, I was going to ask for her number. I wanted to say "Lets exchange numbers so we can work on the class projects together"

But she got up after class and said she had to go, and she'll see me next time. Then she darted out of class so I didn't get a decent shot at asking her.

Im probably in the friend zone now, but it doesnt matter to me.

I dont even have female friends so if I make a few friends instead of hookups, I'll still be happy.

Last year I talked to 0 girls. This year I'm 3 girls in 3 days.

Im feeling somewhat better about myself, and a few more safety chances (where the girl is alone and sitting and cant run off rightawy) I'll be getting better.

Then I'll probably be able to talk to moving targets, etc.
 

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I had conversations with like 5 girls, didnt dress sharp or anything, didnt give a ****. I feel like a guy who is depressed, but without all the gloom, Im at ease and just not giving a fuc*. My problem is that I forget to close... I feel like a veteran of the whole college scene.
 

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Yeah I was in Bio yesterday and sat next to a girl that looks amazing from the back but her face was just average. We started talking and things, and it went well. She laughed at basically everything I said, I'm pretty sure she liked me. She is nice, and has a great personality.

I was also in English sitting next to some hot brunette, and I was using my palm pilot to look at pictures of some of my boa constritors, and she saw and was like "are those snakes?"

me:Yeah, this is my 7ft boa Claire, isnt she pretty? lol

her: you mean you auctually own those, i dont think i could handle it. lol

we keep talking and stuff, was pretty cool
 

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Gave girl my number.

I was waiting on my friend to get out the bathroom when I saw this cutie come out the girls room. She had the book for a pretty rough 4000 level pysch class that I took a year ago. I open by saying, how do you like that class? She complained about how tough the prof was, I joked about the prof, had her laughing, told her that i didnt care if she was involved, cus her man has to go... I tell her give me a call if you need help, she took my number and called earlier tonight...
 

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