First date went well, now silence

[BackInTheGame78]

I get that, but I don't get how we went from a great connection and really fun time and her saying we'll talk, to this

You are confusing all of that with sexual attraction. None of that other stuff matters if she doesn't feel sexually attracted to you. That other stuff is like a cherry on top of the sundae, not the sundae.

 

[user252009]

You are confusing all of that with sexual attraction. None of that other stuff matters if she doesn't feel sexually attracted to you. That other stuff is like a cherry on top of the sundae, not the sundae.

Well out of 10 of the girls I’ve banged so far, NONE of them have shown me sexual attraction on the first date, so

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Well out of 10 of the girls I’ve banged so far, NONE of them have shown me sexual attraction on the first date, so

Getting results does not equal getting optimal results. Don't confuse the two.

You will find over the course of doing that long enough that if you continue along that path you'll be swimming upstream. Go with the current.

Being reserved works if they are into you but you are losing out on most bangs where they are on the fence and could go either way. And by and in large, that is the biggest segment of women you'll be meeting in your life.

 

[user252009]

Getting results does not equal getting optimal results. Don't confuse the two.

You will find over the course of doing that long enough that if you continue along that path you'll be swimming upstream. Go with the current.

Being reserved works if they are into you but you are losing out on most bangs where they are on the fence and could go either way. And by and in large, that is the biggest segment of women you'll be meeting in your life.

I’m not reserved on the first date, I’m being myself, which also means not aggressive in pursuing a kiss rightaway; it’s not in my nature. If I were to do that, it’d be forcing it and it would fail.