First Date for Ages

[Fruitbat]

I agree that the older you get, the more you need to tone it down... in so far as you want to retain your dignity.

What I do, as a near half-centurion, is look for the IOI aka green light. Just be an easy-going, easy-go-lucky debonair type, looking your best, with a spring in your step, and a good attitude, and you'll be surprised how many of these are forth-coming.

OK, that's something I can do.

In fact, I do it already, I just don't ask them out.