First date and holding hands

[kguy25]

I came up with this idea just after a first date I had with a girl so I didnt get to try it out but Im thinking it may have potential I just need some feedback.

If your out on a first date with a girl and just walking around after a drink, movie, dinner or whatever and you want to hold her hand but are unsure of how to go about this then could this method work:

Im skinny and as a result I always feel pretty cold and my hands usually feel like ice, so with the cold weather at the moment I could say something about the coldness and then touch her arm with my hand showing how cold they are, then being sneeky move down and grab her hand?

 

[f283000]

Why are you trying to come up with elaborate plans to hold a girl's hand like if this was some sort of engineering problem?

Remember that women can smell hesitation and nervousness from a mile away. You don't even think about it you just do it!

When i'm on a first date holding hands is the last thing on my mind. High up on the list is doing kino and lots of it. Touching her from the moment we meet, touching her arm, shoulders, back, hair, hands (not walking around holding hands) etc.

I think you need to get your priorities straight. Get her juices flowing by introducing light touches rather than thinking of how you can walk around holding hands. There will be plenty of times to hold her hand later on when she's your gf. For now get her used to you touching her body and thinking of you in a sexual way.

 

[Lexington]

Yup, there's no point in trying to do it stealthily. Either she'll be receptive to the idea of holding hands or not. If you're feeling a good vibe and you're getting along, just go for it. Trying to be all sneaky about it will just come off as weird.

You're the man, you have to lead at all times. You should be direct with everything you do. It's the girl that tries to do things indirectly. There's no point in trying to hide what you want to do. If you feel you're ready to hold hands, just do it.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

I usually don't hold hands with a girl until we've already kissed. It feels relatively intimate compared to even something like putting my arm around her. Maybe I'm just weird about that...

 

[QuodErat]

Here's how I did it:

We were walking side-by-side. I stuck my hand out between us, and said "Give me your hand."

We then held hands. That simple.

Your method will work too, as long as you take charge and go for what you want. Remember, you're the FKN MAN, BRO! THE WORLD IS IN YOUR HANDS!

 

[ohnoes]

You don't need a plan man. If you want to hold her hand then just simply hold her hand. If she likes you she will be receptive.

 

[BigJimbo]

Don't hold hands until after you have banged her nice and hard. If you ignore this advice you will end up in the "friend zone".

 

[x86]

Don't hold hands until after you have banged her nice and hard. If you ignore this advice you will end up in the "friend zone".

Really? I know of no friends that hold hands. Do you?

 

[dereklovesugly]

Really? I know of no friends that hold hands. Do you?

I hold hands with all my bros lol

 

[Warrior74]

I don't hold hands. It always felt wrong. The only time it felt right was when I was seriously in love with a girl and she was the same way. On a first date with some hot chic, unless there is serious serious sparks and make sessions we are not holding hands unless I'm leading her to go somewhere. Even then I'll give her the "come here, come on" hand wiggle to grab her hand.

 

[Alle_Gory]

I hold hands with all my bros lol

You laugh now but in the Middle East this is very acceptable. So is males kissing for goodbye and hello. Here in North America everyone is afraid of being gay and magically turning gay, it's some weird paranoia going around.