She texted me to text her when I got back home and said she had a good time and can't wait to see me again etc. I'm diggin her just working on not being afc due to my new outlook from reading the dj bible.
Oh you got her dude. Yea just let her do alllllll the initiation of texts. You got this man you won't slip. Sounds like you have a one way ticket to smash city bro estimated one date. Get her to drive to you so she's too drunk to go home and offer to go to your place.
Yea man I'm gonna let her text me first now and the next date I'm gonna initiate mad kino and kissing,biggest issue is the distance though kinda hinders progress of things,she drove an hour to meet and I drove 1.5 I couldn't tell from her body language if she was into me or not during dinner but afterwards she was comfortable enough to go to a park with me alone at night and I was the one to end the date,kept it just under 3 hours.
She's probably waiting for you to text her like every other dude would do. Don't.. Separate yourself. Just hold off and be patient bro trust me. If you don't hear from her by like Wednesday maybe pull the trigger on that.
Co sign. Generally unless the date ends in sex, she should be the one to text you first. But don't stress about these things too much. It's minor.
Even though she texted me first the night right after the date? She has stated she wants to see me again.
You're overthinking this...which is understandable given your ex BPD situation and its possible impact on your self esteem. As time goes on and you bed more women your confidence will grow. If she text you to say she had a "great time" that's a positive sign. Just proceed as normal and arrange a second date.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Agreed,thanks I'll ask the girl out tonight.
wish I could though. Me:ah ok hope it goes well. Hb: quickly sends me a pic of a rainbow she saw with her daughter. Me: nice etc..hb: me too we deffinetly will soon,I'm looking forward to seeing you again. Me Ok yea deff. Let me know I'm thinking hitting the trails this time etc. hb: sounds good to me and that was the extent of it pretty much,we go days not talking etc is this a sign of low interest and I should next or am I just being paranoid?Your previous post says you should move on. This one asks if you should contact her again. Take control of your life and future and try not to be as wishy washy because of your emotions. She is just another woman. Plenty more out there.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I'd wait it out for another week and then give her another shot out of the blue. In the mean time you should be going on more dates. The reason you are so focused on her is because you have nothing else going on.
My family tells me I should reach out again so atleast I have an answer,but I worry I'll come off desperate,I deffinetly played cool with this one with new lessons learned from the dj bible,I'm interested in the girl but not hearing anything from her in a week kind of feels like a sign to me,I'm still actively using old to hit up other girls but no luck yet.
