I just stumbled across this forum a week ago. This is my first post as a Don Juanabee. Please comment on my mistakes.
Scenario: College cafeteria. I intentionally went at a time when it is crowded. Each table seats four, but usually there is one person per table. Since there were no available tables, I found an hb7 and said "mind if I join?" She said yes although I did not wait for a response. She was reading and I pulled out my book as if I was finishing a last minute assignment. After about a minute, I struck convo. "What are you reading?" then about a minute of usual convo. She mentioned she wanted to do something in fashion for a career. I saw this as an opportunity. My sister's b-day is coming up so I told her I would like her to help me pick out something nice for my sister's b-day? She was pretty resistant but I went ahead and told me to give me her #. I handed her my cell but she said she would not type it in so she told me and I typed it in (mistake I know). She gave the fake # routine and I caught her out. I told her she gave me the wrong # and she acted surprised. Then I told her I intentionally repeated it back incorrectly. I started laughing at her then went back to reading my notes.
30 seconds later I said "You did not have to lie". I know she felt bad since the only reason she gave me the wrong # is because she did not want to hurt my feelings in the first place. I told her she would not hurt my feelings iby being honost. I played the guilt card and smiled at her. She then started being very nice. Then her bf showed up. I stayed at the table with them. I introduced myself to the bf but that was it. Eventually they left.
I made other mistakes during the sarge such as: some points of not knowing what to say, leaning in close, and failed miserably with the negs.
Should I have told the bf that his girlfriend needs to learn how to turn down guys that hit on her? I am thinking if I did this in front of her she would think I have balls of steel, and this may have compensated for my earlier mistakes. At the time I did not think of this since I am new to the game.
Scenario: College cafeteria. I intentionally went at a time when it is crowded. Each table seats four, but usually there is one person per table. Since there were no available tables, I found an hb7 and said "mind if I join?" She said yes although I did not wait for a response. She was reading and I pulled out my book as if I was finishing a last minute assignment. After about a minute, I struck convo. "What are you reading?" then about a minute of usual convo. She mentioned she wanted to do something in fashion for a career. I saw this as an opportunity. My sister's b-day is coming up so I told her I would like her to help me pick out something nice for my sister's b-day? She was pretty resistant but I went ahead and told me to give me her #. I handed her my cell but she said she would not type it in so she told me and I typed it in (mistake I know). She gave the fake # routine and I caught her out. I told her she gave me the wrong # and she acted surprised. Then I told her I intentionally repeated it back incorrectly. I started laughing at her then went back to reading my notes.
30 seconds later I said "You did not have to lie". I know she felt bad since the only reason she gave me the wrong # is because she did not want to hurt my feelings in the first place. I told her she would not hurt my feelings iby being honost. I played the guilt card and smiled at her. She then started being very nice. Then her bf showed up. I stayed at the table with them. I introduced myself to the bf but that was it. Eventually they left.
I made other mistakes during the sarge such as: some points of not knowing what to say, leaning in close, and failed miserably with the negs.
Should I have told the bf that his girlfriend needs to learn how to turn down guys that hit on her? I am thinking if I did this in front of her she would think I have balls of steel, and this may have compensated for my earlier mistakes. At the time I did not think of this since I am new to the game.
