I read this post here years ago: Very Random #Close http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=113869
The short version is, the poster in that thread identifies interested girls and then escalates to fingering in private situations in public spaces. This works best if the girl is wearing a skirt or something similar, like a party dress.
I've used this technique quite a bit at the local dance club and I can assure you that many more girls are into getting fingered than they are with making out, at least in my experience. I ask the girl to dance, which in context means grinding. Once you find someone who agrees to dance with you, see how into it she is. Some girls are kind of tepid about it, others will bend over a little and start enthusiastically rubbing her butt against your erection, or soon to be erection.
A lot of times, even if the girl does agree to dance with you, she'll stop after a minute or two. If she's still pretty into you after a good minute or two, consider making a move, or see if she is making a move on you.
I usually put my hands on the front of the girl's thighs. It's just bony leg there. Some girls are less comfortable with that position and will move your hands back to her hips or off of her altogether. Just go with whatever she wants, and maybe she'll warm up as time goes on, or not.
With my hands flat on the front of her legs, sometimes she'll put her hands on mine but not move them away. I usually like to play "handsies" then, just kind of playing with her hands and fingers, playfully. If she takes your hands, puts her legs together, and runs her and your hands down the middle, that is a very good sign. You should definitely try to lightly at first feel her up.
If she seems into grinding, but isn't making any move like that, then put your hands together and hold them around her waist, your hands will be roughly where a belt buckle would be. You can then lightly let your hands drop, just check her reaction and escalate or back down as appropriate.
In my experience, even if she doesn't want to get fingered, she'll usually still keep grinding with you.
I've also used variations of this technique during the day in a hostel, or while waiting in a long line. And as mentioned in the post above, this should also work well in places such as the movies or on public transportation.
Notes:
1) Interest is key, if she's not into it, back off.
2) I'm mostly talking about cl!t, start at her pelvic bone and then bring your hand back (up) a little if you are behind her. Usually a little below her panty line is a good reference.
3) Start on the outside of her dress/ skirt. If it is clear that she's down, you can lift her skirt and go for the outside of her panties. A little cover usually helps, her girlfriend dancing across from you with some other guy is usually best. If she's really into it she may not care who's watching (you will attract attention at this point). If she's really really into it, you can try going under her panties.
The short version is, the poster in that thread identifies interested girls and then escalates to fingering in private situations in public spaces. This works best if the girl is wearing a skirt or something similar, like a party dress.
I've used this technique quite a bit at the local dance club and I can assure you that many more girls are into getting fingered than they are with making out, at least in my experience. I ask the girl to dance, which in context means grinding. Once you find someone who agrees to dance with you, see how into it she is. Some girls are kind of tepid about it, others will bend over a little and start enthusiastically rubbing her butt against your erection, or soon to be erection.
A lot of times, even if the girl does agree to dance with you, she'll stop after a minute or two. If she's still pretty into you after a good minute or two, consider making a move, or see if she is making a move on you.
I usually put my hands on the front of the girl's thighs. It's just bony leg there. Some girls are less comfortable with that position and will move your hands back to her hips or off of her altogether. Just go with whatever she wants, and maybe she'll warm up as time goes on, or not.
With my hands flat on the front of her legs, sometimes she'll put her hands on mine but not move them away. I usually like to play "handsies" then, just kind of playing with her hands and fingers, playfully. If she takes your hands, puts her legs together, and runs her and your hands down the middle, that is a very good sign. You should definitely try to lightly at first feel her up.
If she seems into grinding, but isn't making any move like that, then put your hands together and hold them around her waist, your hands will be roughly where a belt buckle would be. You can then lightly let your hands drop, just check her reaction and escalate or back down as appropriate.
In my experience, even if she doesn't want to get fingered, she'll usually still keep grinding with you.
I've also used variations of this technique during the day in a hostel, or while waiting in a long line. And as mentioned in the post above, this should also work well in places such as the movies or on public transportation.
Notes:
1) Interest is key, if she's not into it, back off.
2) I'm mostly talking about cl!t, start at her pelvic bone and then bring your hand back (up) a little if you are behind her. Usually a little below her panty line is a good reference.
3) Start on the outside of her dress/ skirt. If it is clear that she's down, you can lift her skirt and go for the outside of her panties. A little cover usually helps, her girlfriend dancing across from you with some other guy is usually best. If she's really into it she may not care who's watching (you will attract attention at this point). If she's really really into it, you can try going under her panties.
