Find it hard to like most the women my age (53)

englishman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2002
Messages
650
Reaction score
33
Location
amerika
Just a bit of a whiny thread, but finding it hard to dig the women my age. One chick I was considering, had this red hair and lips... met her again and the first half inch of her hair was entirely grey.

Not having a go at her, we all age. But I saw that, then I sort of imagined her without the make up and hair dye and my c0ck sort of decided 'no thanks'

Sucks getting older.
 
Joined
Apr 23, 2015
Messages
657
Reaction score
18
englishman said:
Just a bit of a whiny thread, but finding it hard to dig the women my age. One chick I was considering, had this red hair and lips... met her again and the first half inch of her hair was entirely grey.

Not having a go at her, we all age. But I saw that, then I sort of imagined her without the make up and hair dye and my c0ck sort of decided 'no thanks'

Sucks getting older.
We all age. Let her give you some head and see how you feel then.
 

ubercat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2015
Messages
3,829
Reaction score
2,418
Location
Australia
So don't - the rule is you can go half your age + 7 in the older parts of the world.

Depends on your citizenship status. If its american you're going to be a hot property in mexico. I'd be working out a lot - thats non-negotiable at 53 just for toning and facial structure, learning a little spanish especially some sayings you can mix in 'mi casa su casa' that kind of stuff and planning your x-border adventures.
 

ubercat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2015
Messages
3,829
Reaction score
2,418
Location
Australia
But be prepped to do the numbers. There are girls who don't mind an age gap - your job is to find them. Reminds me of the definition of a job hunt - wading through 200 nos so you can get to that yes.
 

hithard

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 23, 2005
Messages
608
Reaction score
84
Location
Australia
englishman said:
Sucks getting older.
OH HELL YEAH.
I jumping aboard this rant even though there is zero that can be done about it. F*ck this aging $hit. Biatches aging fatly with terrible personalities. Me getting wrinkles and worn out. **** it all to hell.

The last few months I have been slaying girls like a mother f*cker. I am literally fuc.k worn as I type this, but have another plate date set up in an hour. I can barely move and its a wonder my di*k isn't worn down to a nub.

My friend said to me the other night " Dude slow down, your killing yourself"
I just said
"one day I will be old and regret not having done more while I was younger". I'm in a puzzy flood at the moment and am taking full advantage of it.

You always think you have more time than you do. Between work and personal advancement its easy to just sit back and say "Tomorrow I'll hit it up". Man, you have to chase, do, grab and take advantage of whatever you want in life straight away.

Some older gentleman set me off that said something similar to englishman. Somehow I deciphered it as 'time to go on a sex spree'. I was just about to quit, but englishmans post has hardened my resolve to put a few more racing stripes down the side of hithard jnr.
Yes, its shallow as it gets. But hey, someones gotta do it.

Ahhhh nothing like a good rant and brag at the same time
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

HeadLightsOn

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 17, 2011
Messages
422
Reaction score
78
Date younger - pursue when you have high currency

I always date/sex younger woman. I like the earlier comment re 1/2 your age plus 7 years - works for me. A while ago I hit up a woman who was less than 1/2 my age (legal I may add!0 and that worked really well.

I DO think its key to:

- workout and make the best of your physique
- groom yourself well
- exude confidence not arrogance
- take the lead. So many men dont or wont do this and women HATE that
- use body language and posture and deportment in social situations. Again, women do pick up on that

At present I have a plate that is 26 years younger than me. She has VERY high IL and is the same ethnicity and country as I am. It can be done.

I agree with the OP - older women do not do it for me. They have their fun teenage to late 20's. Then its OUR turn :)
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,074
Reaction score
8,922
I'm 54, so I know what you're saying. Actually, I find that there are a lot of older women that I find attractive (I like certain body types), but of course most of them are married. But the good news is that you don't have to date within your own age. Anyone who tells you that you do is either lying or mistaken.

HeadLightsOn said:
At present I have a plate that is 26 years younger than me. She has VERY high IL and is the same ethnicity and country as I am.
Yeah, I had a 22 year old throwing herself at me, last year I think it was? I have a friend my age who bangs girls in their younger 20s. Fvck that "half your age + 7" crap, you can date whoever you want. Most girls that age are into partying though, and I'm kind of past that scene, so I find women in their 30s a nice compromise.

Men don't age like women though, so as long as you take care of yourself you can date younger. I was watching some sort of comedy skit (I think it was on Amy Schumer), and there were a bunch of women talking about how at a certain age they were no longer fvckable. Tina Fey said that men can go forever, however. She was making a joke, but there's a large element of truth there. Women have a much earlier expiration date.
 

Augustus_McCrae

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 3, 2012
Messages
912
Reaction score
1,010
Englishman,

I'm with you. So many of the women my age are just incredibly unattractive. It's like they get to a certain point and just give up.

And like others here, I date younger women. Fifteen years younger is not a problem. So you should be able to pull women in their 30's my friend.

-Augustus-
 

Malcontent

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2014
Messages
209
Reaction score
51
At 32 I got with a 19 year old. That's all I want anymore. I don't think I 'm even attracted to women in their 30s.
 

mangotot

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2014
Messages
1,113
Reaction score
22
Opening poster. Don't whine just deal with younger women. Really you could be dating 35 year old women with no problems.
 

old married dude

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 28, 2009
Messages
344
Reaction score
15
Location
St. Louis, MO
I have a lot of women over 50 that are after me even though I'm clearly not at all interested, so I can relate to your pain.
 

ZTIME

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 13, 2014
Messages
561
Reaction score
256
I don't know what it is, but women really don't age well at all! In the 45-50 range it's very rare to find any truly hot women. They just look beat up from the feet up, and tore up from the floor up. It's truly not my job to judge them, but it's hard to avoid. And the worst part is they really think/act like they're a prize!

Even some of the older HB8's-HB9's Tend to start getting saggy breasts and butts, and leathery skin. I'm making myself vomit in my mouth just thinking about it. Yuck!!

Guess I'm destined to date the 29-38 range of sociopathic girls with personality disorders.
 

guru1000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2007
Messages
5,362
Reaction score
4,405
Ya, 53 would be the average age of my plates' mothers. Not a pretty sight.
 

BetterCallSaul

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2014
Messages
863
Reaction score
378
Location
Texas
Young women in their 20s wanted to bang Sean Connery when he was your age. Monica wanted Bill Clinton. You don't have a problem here. Just make sure your game is tight, keep yourself cleaned up and dress well and you can still pull the young girls.

If you're not having much luck here, go on vacation overseas to like Vietnam or Colombia or some place like that. You CAN still pull young tail.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

old married dude

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 28, 2009
Messages
344
Reaction score
15
Location
St. Louis, MO
ZTIME said:
I don't know what it is, but women really don't age well at all! In the 45-50 range it's very rare to find any truly hot women. They just look beat up from the feet up, and tore up from the floor up.
So true, many are just absolutely hideous. I've seen some who say they're 45-50 but looked more like 65-70! It's incredibly rare to find the female equivalent of a George Clooney lol.
 
Top